Smell Through The ….. (Guest Post)

Recently I’ve had my eyes opened massively . To find out that someone you loved more than anything cheated all the way through your relationship. That also includes sleeping with people. I’ve seen the proof.

I tell you what though it hurts knowing on a night (like so many I did this) I picked her up from town when she was drunk. Moments before shes kissing someone else.

Its all coming out and the proof is undeniable.

And I’m looking through all these messages where she would threaten to kill herself because I couldn’t come over. The amount of times I would have to contact her friends as I was worried about it. The amount of times this was threatened is unbelievable.

All I ever wanted to do was help.

I never see this person now it was years ago I just hope they are in a better place & good luck to the next guy…or the next few.

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I feel that without blogging I would have nowhere to vent my emotions and encourage other people to give it a shot.

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24 thoughts on “Smell Through The ….. (Guest Post)

  1. In the dead of night… I hear you. You’ll be okay. Write your guts out. Mush them into the paper. And make art.

  2. I’m doing the same with my blog. Blogging is better than therapy and cheaper!

    But if I may say something, based on this post….It’s been my experience we are all broken. Those that use us or abuse us, cheat on us, we were broken too which is why we let them do that to us. Don’t be afraid to love again and don’t be like me and tear apart everything about a person bc they have broken parts. Accept what’s broken in you and you will be able to protect yourself from people who are likely to break you. You’ll be stronger and wiser too bc you’ll see where their broken parts fit into yours—-but with the right person and circumstances it will be in a good way! And you can find the right person again…that won’t just use you. You can build a relationship based on complete and totally honesty when both of you are honest with each other and yourselves. I hope you find that peace, that space, where it all clicks and all makes sense. Where you realize why you went through what you went through and you forgive yourself for letting her do that to you. I hope you find it. Because you are tough and amazing and all that you went through makes you, you. ❤️ peace and love my friend.

    1. A optimistic way of looking at things but end of the day . If someone loves you they will open up to you about anything they may have done that was wrong. The guilt would eat you up if you are a good person. Otherwise you are a user.

      A lesson learned definitely but im not ready yet you rationalize someone who has done this to me …

      1. I did not intend for my comment to seem to justify or rationalize anyone’s bad behavior. The person who did this to you was selfish—I just want to be clear on that. Im only speaking from experiences too. In all my years in therapy I realized that I invited bad people into my life because I didn’t think I was worth much—it wasn’t intentional and I didn’t do it consciously. I just loved them and gave away my love for them. Thought if I helped enough people they’d love me, turns out that’s not the case. When it comes to be broken if everyone sins or does a wrong to someone else we all end up having some baggage that stays with us. That’s what I meant. Someday someone may find you that has also been used or abused and will understand you and you can complement each other. This sounds like it was a person that didn’t complement you, just used you. Hope that clears up any confusion. And I agree and like your post for its overall message that you can’t save anyone. We can help each other as human beings, but no one is supposed to “complete” you or make you feel whole. You’ve got to love and complete yourself.

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