Things I Hate About Blogging
I love blogging. It’s probably one of my favourite things to do apart from reading stuff about history. I love blogging but I have to admit- like everything it has its advantages and disadvantages. Today, I thought I would share some of the cons of blogging. Here are five things I hate about blogging:
Spam Comments
You guys know this had to be at the top of my list of things I hate about blogging. I am so freaking tired of getting “please check out my posts” comments EVERY SINGLE DAY!! I can guarantee you that some people will leave comments like that on this post too. Because people like that clearly don’t read or even care about your post. They just want to advertise their own blog. And they think that for some weird reason other people’s posts are the best place to do this.
I have had the pleasure of reading a lot of amazing blog posts by a lot of amazing bloggers. And I think it’s just insanely disrespectful to ignore their hard work and use their blog to grow your own. I guarantee that every blogger puts at least a certain amount of time and effort to create their posts. And to be honest it’s also a really stupid thing to do as well as a great way to destroy the chances of your blog actually growing. Most bloggers block or delete such comments/commenters. If you just left a genuine comment talking about their post they would be very likely to check out your blog anyway.
I know some bloggers do this without realizing what they are doing is wrong. So I would urge anyone reading this not to leave these kind of comments. And instead take the time to genuinely connect with other bloggers. This is a way better way to grow. And honestly kind of easier in my opinion.
Feeling Used
As you guys probably know if you’ve been following me for a while I have a lot of posts with blogging advice and I guess because of those posts combined with my following people tend to assume I’m great at blogging (I’m really not I’m just very lucky to have such fantastic followers!) and I end up getting A LOT of messages, emails and comments asking me for help. A lot of them are general questions which I really don’t mind. If I can help someone I usually try to depending on how busy I am with school work. This doesn’t bother me at all.
What does bother me is people who are really rude about asking for help. To be honest, I’m just a blogger and I don’t have to help anyone if I don’t want to but I try to help when I can because I’ve been blogging for like six years now and I know how difficult blogging can be.
However, some people sort of try to use me like tech support which is a bit annoying. I mean that’s not my job?? To kind of explain what I mean- sometimes people ask me about really specific technical issues they are experiencing and I usually tell them to talk to the happiness engineers because they are better equipped to help them with such things. Like one time someone’s blog didn’t have a follow button and they kept asking me why and I told them I didn’t know because I honestly didn’t know what the issue was and told them to contact WP since it could be a glitch. However, for some reason they got super offended that I couldn’t help them and became really passive aggressive which kind of threw me off.
That’s just one example, but yeah when that happens it annoys me. I’m not like your blogging teacher. I’m just a girl trying to blog and not go crazy writing research papers all day.
Another thing I get often is people asking me for help to grow their site and expecting some kind of magic formula that will instantly get them from 0-1000 followers. That’s not how it works- it took me years to get to where I am. I try to give them advice and tell them how I grow my blog. But some people get super passive aggressive as if I’m hiding some secret about growing your blog.
I also have had people ask me to go through their entire site and read every post to see if anything can be improved. Why would I do that? I don’t mind giving general pointers. But I’m not going to redo your entire blog for you. Especially when I’m so busy with university that I don’t even have time to write anything except six word stories for my own blog. It’s not my job to teach you how to blog. That’s something you should learn on your own through your own research. And I think it’s rude to even ask someone to do something like that for you. Unless they offer some kind of service to do that and you are willing to pay them for their time and effort.
Plagiarism
This is another one of the things I hate about blogging. I know people say that imitation is the sincerest form of flattery but to be honest it can be quite annoying. Sometimes I see people stealing my posts- like entire posts or using certain sentences word for word and it really annoys me. I don’t mind if one of my ideas inspires you to write something similar- I don’t even want credit for that. What annoys me is when people steal my work word for word.
From what I have seen in all the years I have been blogging I know that bloggers work really hard on their posts. And it’s really difficult to come up with unique ideas all the time. So it’s really upsetting when someone decides to steal your posts. And not even bother changing the words. And it’s not just me who has experienced this. Most bloggers have experienced this at least once which just makes me so sad.
If you are someone who uses other peoples work without crediting them I really hope you stop. Because it’s just so awful.
WordPress
I love blogging but to be honest WordPress can be super annoying sometimes. It had to be one this list of things I hate about blogging. I just feel like they don’t take their content creators seriously because they continue to make certain changes to their platform that I personally find quite unnecessary while ignoring certain things that would actually be quite beneficial for users. It would be pretty easy to find out what we would like to see them improve. Literally all they would have to do is ask.
They also continuously make changes without giving a proper heads up to people so they can brace themselves for these changes. As someone with anxiety I like to know if something is changing in advance so I can prepare myself for it. And I know a lot of people feel that way too. It’s quite difficult to deal with the changes when they are so sudden especially if you’re like me and are not too tech savvy.
Feeling Unsatisfied
Sometimes, I just feel extremely unsatisfied with my posts. I’ll put out a post that I put so much effort into writing and that I’m very passionate about and it will get a really bad response. And the next day I’ll put out a post I wrote about something random in a rush and it will do really well. I mean I’m super grateful but at the same time I kind of feel unsatisfied. Like I wish I had gotten a better response for some of the other posts that didn’t do as well. I don’t know if you guys have ever experienced this. But it has happened to me a couple of times. Let me know in the comments if that’s ever happened to you!
Technical Stuff
The thing I love most about blogging is just being able to express myself as I want to. Blogging has always been a place for me where I can just be myself. And then I learnt about SEO and DA and Alexa scores and a million other things and honestly when I think about them they just annoy me so much. Why does a post have to be SEO friendly and all that other stuff to be successful. I don’t get why technical stuff gets so much say in what readers want to see on your posts. This is definitely one of the main things I hate about blogging. Or I guess tech.
For example, I’ve been using Google for like forever now like most people who are around my age. And as the years pass I can tell the results are getting more inaccurate. First, you get a million ads trying to sell you stuff. Then you FINALLY get to the posts but it’s all irrelevant stuff that only shows up because it has high SEO scores. You don’t actually get the information you need which is super annoying. And you need to go through a bunch of articles before you get to what you were actually looking for. It annoys me so much because I see so many wonderful blogs that honestly deserve so much better. They deserve so much more traffic than they get. And most of it is not because their blogs aren’t wonderful but because of stupid algorithms that are screwing their chances of growing.
Another example of why the technical stuff is stupid is that they tell you what posts people want to see on your blog but guess what? They’re probably wrong. SEO stuff says your posts need to be long- at least 1500 words but how many of you have genuinely read posts that are that long without just skimming through them and picking up on the sections you want to read? How many of you are have even made it till here on this post? People tend to just ramble on and say things that could be said in like 500 words so that their posts reach 1500-2000 words.
Sorry, this section turned into a bit of a rant but I had to reach my 1500-2000 word goal… LOL kidding… or am I just going to keep rambling till I get to 2000? Kidding again? Or am I? Okay, I’ll stop now- I am very sleep deprived and just finished a three hour class so I am going to stop typing now before I further ruin this post. But I stand by what I said about technical stuff being stupid- it is stupid.
Your Thoughts On Things I Hate About Blogging
So, although I love blogging in general these are the things I hate about blogging. Do you also find any of the things I mentioned about blogging annoying too? Do you find anything about blogging annoying? If so what do you find annoying about blogging? What is the worst experience you have had through blogging? How is was your day? Let me know in the comments below because I love hearing from you guys or simply stop by and say hi!
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