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…In The Cold November Rain

In The Cold November Rain

I can’t believe it’s already November. And honestly, I’m relieved because as I’m sure most of you know, October has been a particularly difficult month for me. Between moving to a new place and my grandmother passing away, it’s been a tough month. With a lot of adjustments.

I thought I would be fully done unpacking and setting up my room by now but that hasn’t been possible. During the last few days, a lot of relatives of my grandmothers have come over to share their condolences so that has kept us busy. I was also hoping to get some writing done but there’s been no time for that either.

Mentally, I’ve been better. I was feeling really out of it for the last few days but I feel much better today. I woke up feeling more energetic and motivated. Since I had made so many plans for October and none of them worked out, I have refrained from making plans for November. Whatever happens will happen.

I want to thank everyone that left condolence messages on my last post, it’s so appreciated. I left a generic response as the amount of comments were high but know that I read every single comment and it warmed my heart.

Some Congratulations Are In Order

Lastly, I want to congratulate some fellow bloggers.

Cindy Georgakas. She announced that she will be releasing her second book in November and shared the cover today. It will be a poetry collection that is a companion guide to her debut book Re-Create & Celebrate.  Congratulations, Cindy!

Tremaine Loadholt from A Cornered Gurl, recently published her latest book Séduire: Serial Tales & Flash Fiction. I’m so excited to read it and I know it’s going to be really successful. She’s a wonderful writer and human being. Click here to view her blog and purchase the book. Congratulations, Tre!

I recently published my first book, if you would like to read it, please click here.

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119 responses to “…In The Cold November Rain”

  1. Ebi Avatar
    Ebi

    Hi Pooja, I hope November is a much better month for you and brings you soo much joy and peace like no other. It’s really inspiring that you are able to post even with everything going on in your life❣️

    Reply
    1. Pooja G Avatar
      Pooja G

      Thank you so much and I hope you have a fantastic month too.

      Reply
      1. whysprs Avatar
        whysprs

        I have to take lots of photos in the next few days. Being frustrated with my light conditions at the moment so will most likely have to build a bigger light box i think due to shadows

        Reply
        1. Pooja G Avatar
          Pooja G

          Oh no, sorry to hear that. Hope everything goes well and the photos come out great.

          Reply
          1. whysprs Avatar
            whysprs

            I bought a giant ring light.. it made a big difference.. lol

            Reply
            1. Pooja G Avatar
              Pooja G

              Oh yeah, those are great. I have a big ringlight too and two or three little ones.

              Reply
              1. whysprs Avatar
                whysprs

                This one is about 16 in in diameter

                Reply
  2. trE Avatar
    trE

    I am glad November is here and I’m prayerful you’ll have an incredible month!

    Thank you so much, Pooja! I truly appreciate you! 🩵💜❤️

    Reply
    1. Pooja G Avatar
      Pooja G

      Thank you so much! I hope you have an incredible month too and hope you finally get some much needed rest 😊💕

      Reply
      1. trE Avatar
        trE

        Thank you kindly. I truly appreciate you.

        Reply
        1. Pooja G Avatar
          Pooja G

          You’re very welcome, I hope to share a review of the book as soon as I can 😊

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          1. trE Avatar
            trE

            Take your time. 🙏🏾💙

            Reply
  3. Any Element Avatar
    Any Element

    The time flies so fast these days. I can’t even remember that this year started and now we are nearing the end so quickly

    Reply
    1. Pooja G Avatar
      Pooja G

      It really does, I can’t believe the year is almost over.

      Reply
      1. Any Element Avatar
        Any Element

        It’s really moving fast. It really felt like the new year started like a month ago

        Reply
  4. Milena Alien Avatar
    Milena Alien

    November is the Thanksgiving month, which means I have to grateful LoL for once
    Change is inevitable, change is good, I refuse to make plans and make my husband plan things for us, this is why people get married, kidding
    Best of luck in the new place, new page for writing starts right there, you got this, Pooja 🙂

    Reply
    1. Pooja G Avatar
      Pooja G

      Haha that’s the one good thing about marriage. Thanks so much 🙂

      Reply
  5. Joseph Glidden Avatar
    Joseph Glidden

    Glad to hear you are feeling better. I have a new rule for moving. However long you think it will take, multiply it by 10, then throw out that number because it won’t even be close, then just take it one day at a time. 😀

    Reply
    1. Pooja G Avatar
      Pooja G

      Thank you so much. Haha that’s the absolute truth. I doubt we’ll be fully done unpacking till the end of the year 😅

      Reply
  6. Michele Lee Avatar
    Michele Lee

    Grace and warm wishes to you Pooja as you continue to grieve the loss of your grandmother while getting settled. 💝

    Reply
    1. Pooja G Avatar
      Pooja G

      Thank you so much 💕

      Reply
  7. thomasstigwikman Avatar
    thomasstigwikman

    I hope November will be a much better month for you. We had a really black October in 2019 between our Leonberger getting multiple severe ailments and a tornado.

    Reply
    1. Pooja G Avatar
      Pooja G

      Thank you so much. Sorry you had a bad October back then too. And hope you have a lovely November.

      Reply
  8. Steve Avatar
    Steve

    After a tough month, it’s wise not to try to plan too much. i think you’re wise to just go with the flow, get yourself settled, and go from there. I hope this month is better for you.

    Reply
    1. Pooja G Avatar
      Pooja G

      Yes, I think it’s time for me to just go with the flow this month. Thank you so much.

      Reply
      1. Steve Avatar
        Steve

        My pleasure!

        Reply
  9. chevytravel12 Avatar
    chevytravel12

    Yes I understand nothing is going right for us lately health wise and other things. But Hey we are still alive and every day we wake up it’s a bonus cherrs

    Reply
    1. Pooja G Avatar
      Pooja G

      Yes, we have plenty to be grateful for despite the hardships.

      Reply
  10. Shweta Suresh Avatar
    Shweta Suresh

    I hope that November turns out to be a much better month for you. Losing grandparents is tough. Things can feel pretty hectic. I’m glad to hear that you’re feeling better today. Take it slow, one day at a time. Sending love and virtual hugs. Take care, Pooja

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    1. Pooja G Avatar
      Pooja G

      Thank you so much. Yes, it’s been tough but things are slowly getting better and less chaotic. Sending hugs back, have a great November.

      Reply
      1. Shweta Suresh Avatar
        Shweta Suresh

        I’m glad to hear that. I’ve had a rough month too. Hopefully November will be great. Hugs and love ❤️🤗

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        1. Pooja G Avatar
          Pooja G

          Yes, fingers crossed this month with be great for us ❤️😊

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          1. Shweta Suresh Avatar
            Shweta Suresh

            Yes indeed. Take care, Pooja ❤️ 🤞

            Reply
  11. katiemiafrederick Avatar
    katiemiafrederick

    SMiLes Dear Pooja The Stress
    of Moving and Losing a Loved
    One in One Month Is Surely

    Reason Feeling Enough

    To Take a Rest Yet Yes

    Considering the Longevity
    Of Your Family You Still Have

    70 Or So Years to Make Your Mark

    Meanwhile
    Yes Let

    Life

    Unfold
    As Life

    Will Free

    Come What May
    It’s Amazing How
    Much More We May
    End Up Beginning to Do New ThiS WaY..:)

    Reply
    1. Pooja G Avatar
      Pooja G

      Thank you. Yes, losing a loved one is always difficult and we were already having a chaotic month. This month is just going to be a lot more relaxed (I hope) and no big plans.

      Reply
      1. katiemiafrederick Avatar
        katiemiafrederick

        Best Wishes
        For A Peaceful
        Month☺️🙏

        Reply
  12. shivatje Avatar
    shivatje

    the months go by quickly
    🙏🌹

    Aum Shanti

    Reply
    1. Pooja G Avatar
      Pooja G

      Yes, they sure do 🙏

      Reply
      1. shivatje Avatar
        shivatje

        🙏🌹

        Aum Shanti

        Reply
  13. noga noga Avatar
    noga noga

    👋🏻👋🏻💚💚May God have mercy on your grandmother, my heart is with you

    Reply
    1. Pooja G Avatar
      Pooja G

      Thank you so much 🙏❤️

      Reply
  14. festo_sanjo Avatar
    festo_sanjo

    Sometimes, we are guided to let things just flow and loosen the grip of control. Hopefully, November will beautifully unfold for all of us.

    Reply
    1. Pooja G Avatar
      Pooja G

      Thank you so much. Yes, last month was a good reminder that so little is in our control and we need to learn to go where life takes us. Hope so too.

      Reply
  15. wrookieschu Avatar
    wrookieschu

    Sorry to hear Pooja! I hope you have a lovely November 🙏🏼

    Reply
    1. Pooja G Avatar
      Pooja G

      Thank you so much and hope you have a lovely November too 🙏

      Reply
  16. Destiny Avatar
    Destiny

    wishing better your way, Pooja…and glad you’re feeling better. take care..🤍🤗

    Reply
    1. Pooja G Avatar
      Pooja G

      Thank you so much ☺️💕

      Reply
      1. Destiny Avatar
        Destiny

        always a pleasure 🤍🌷

        Reply
  17. Sadje Avatar
    Sadje

    Take care Pooja. Hope things settle down soon for you my friend

    Reply
    1. Pooja G Avatar
      Pooja G

      Thank you so much, I’m hoping for that too.

      Reply
      1. Sadje Avatar
        Sadje

        You’re most welcome 🤗

        Reply
  18. Opher Avatar
    Opher

    I didn’t think it felt too cold where you are?? Hope you have a good November Pooj! I’ve been discussing with my publisher about putting my books out digitally. He’s looking into it! Cheers!

    Reply
    1. Pooja G Avatar
      Pooja G

      Yeah, for us cold is like slightly colder than our usual weather. Thanks and have a great November too! Oh that’s great, let me know if they become available digitally.

      Reply
  19. The Devotional Guy™ Avatar
    The Devotional Guy™

    I agree, PJ. How is it November already? Thanks for sharing your experience with us. I’m sorry to hear about the passing of your grandmother and the challenges October has wrought upon your doorstep. Congratulations on publishing your book! I love the title.

    Reply
    1. Pooja G Avatar
      Pooja G

      Honestly, this month has gone by so fast! Thank you so much. Really appreciate it. Have a great November.

      Reply
  20. byngnigel Avatar
    byngnigel

    Welcome back Pooja. Glad to see you’re up and running again. I pray you find strength and creative energy as you settle, and peace while you grieve your grandma.
    The year is over already for me . The next two months will be a whirlwind.
    Thanks for the heads up about Cindy. Gonna go check it out. 👏👏

    Reply
    1. Pooja G Avatar
      Pooja G

      Thank you so much. Really appreciate that. Yes, the end of the year will be here in the blink of an eye ☹️
      Yes, do check out Cindy’s book cover reveal. I’m so happy it’s finally happening for her!

      Reply
      1. byngnigel Avatar
        byngnigel

        I did… Happy for her as well..I will try to keep it alive on my blog when I do post..it’s the least I can do. 🙏

        Reply
        1. Pooja G Avatar
          Pooja G

          I’m sure she’ll be very appreciative of that 🙏

          Reply
  21. utahan15 Avatar
    utahan15

    all souls gudka
    yo just so
    fourth thursday in november
    yanks like turkey
    and hope the lions
    will win this time
    ok now
    hugs

    Reply
    1. Pooja G Avatar
      Pooja G

      It seems everyone I know wants the Lions to win the game haha. Thanks.

      Reply
  22. Barney Rubble Avatar
    Barney Rubble

    Good to hear you. I still hurt a bit over my mother’s death. I was so angry at her for her last few years. She understood but I was so angry that she just expected me to accept it and live a demotion. That wasn’t actually what she expected or even what she saw… I didn’t know time was limited. She had been abandoned the same as I had been. We do keep going though. It is important to keep going and poetry is one of the most powerful spiritual tools we ever can have.

    Reply
    1. Pooja G Avatar
      Pooja G

      Sorry about your mother’s passing and the complicated relationship you had with her. It’s never easy to lose someone you love especially when you don’t see eye to eye before their death.

      Reply
  23. Uğurcan BAL Avatar
    Uğurcan BAL

    Welcome November 🌿🙏🙋‍♂️

    Reply
    1. Pooja G Avatar
      Pooja G

      Happy November 😊

      Reply
  24. Eugi Avatar
    Eugi

    Wishing you a peaceful November, Pooja. 💗

    Reply
    1. Pooja G Avatar
      Pooja G

      Thank you so much ☺️

      Reply
  25. Benjamin Nambu Avatar
    Benjamin Nambu

    My condolences, Pooja. It’s great to have you back on WP.

    Reply
    1. Pooja G Avatar
      Pooja G

      Thank you so much.

      Reply
  26. Alex Diaz-Granados Avatar
    Alex Diaz-Granados

    May the Force be with you this November….and always.

    Reply
    1. Pooja G Avatar
      Pooja G

      Thank you so much 😊

      Reply
      1. Alex Diaz-Granados Avatar
        Alex Diaz-Granados

        You’re quite welcome, my friend.

        Reply
  27. melaniemcgauran Avatar
    melaniemcgauran

    Oh! I am very sorry that I missed your post about your grandmother, Pooja. I think there is a quote from the book “The Art of Racing in the Rain” which basically says that a person only passes away when they have completed what they were meant to do here.” That has always brought me comfort. You have been through a lot last month and I wish the very best for you.

    Reply
    1. Pooja G Avatar
      Pooja G

      Thank you so much. I really like that quote and I think it sums up her death very well. I think she was very much ready to move on.

      Reply
  28. Bookstooge Avatar
    Bookstooge

    No plans. Oh, that sounds like a wonderful idea. I think I could use some “no plans” blogging for a bit. But totally planned out. Nothing like planning out your unplanned stuff.
    Hahahaha 😀 Ahhh, being organized certainly has its downsides….

    Reply
    1. Pooja G Avatar
      Pooja G

      Lol I’m the same and love to plan but this month is just me trying to be more laid back. The keyword of course is trying haha.

      Reply
      1. Bookstooge Avatar
        Bookstooge

        Good for you. I hope you can do it too….

        Reply
  29. RPR Avatar
    RPR

    stay strong

    Reply
    1. Pooja G Avatar
      Pooja G

      Thank you.

      Reply
  30. Stephanie Avatar
    Stephanie

    Glad you’re feeling a bit better, Pooja. I love your idea of taking it as it comes this month. Very wise to be gentle with yourself for a bit. <3

    Reply
    1. Pooja G Avatar
      Pooja G

      Thank you so much. Yeah, I think both psychically and mentally I just really need a break and want to have a less chaotic month.

      Reply
  31. SiriusSea Avatar
    SiriusSea

    Now you’ve put that song in my head & it’s raining 🙂 !!! Hope you get a chillax day ~ <3

    Reply
    1. Pooja G Avatar
      Pooja G

      Haha it’s been stuck in my head all day too. Yeah, I had a pretty chill day. Thanks and hope you had a great day!

      Reply
  32. Baydreamer - Lauren Scott Avatar
    Baydreamer – Lauren Scott

    I hope November brings more joy and calm, Pooja! 💞

    Reply
    1. Pooja G Avatar
      Pooja G

      Thank you so much! ☺️💕

      Reply
      1. Baydreamer - Lauren Scott Avatar
        Baydreamer – Lauren Scott

        You’re so welcome, Pooja. You deserve to exhale. Hugs!

        Reply
        1. Pooja G Avatar
          Pooja G

          🤗

          Reply
  33. Cindy Georgakas Avatar
    Cindy Georgakas

    I’m glad you’re looking forward to November, Pooja as you have had a LOT on your plate. Losing a loved one and a move is one of the biggest stessers so if you could survive that, you’re doing well.
    Thank you so very much for the shout out of my book and trE all the best as well. So exciting and you are such an amazing support which I greatly appreciate💕🙏🏼💕!

    Reply
    1. Pooja G Avatar
      Pooja G

      Thank you so much! ☺️

      Reply
  34. ianscyberspace Avatar
    ianscyberspace

    Christmas on the horizon Pooja. Hope you are planning a good holiday to recover from this year.

    Reply
    1. Pooja G Avatar
      Pooja G

      Haha yes, I think I have to do just that.

      Reply
  35. clcouch123 Avatar
    clcouch123

    I don’t know if cold November rain is normal where you are. It would be here, though November First was hot and dry. I’m sorry October was so difficult. It would be with the death of your grandmother. I’m sorry about that and hope you’re doing all right. Actually, I’m glad to hear you’re feeling more energized. Dealing with people is often draining to me and nearly always in a situation of loss, even if the people to deal with are family. Maybe things will pick up now and stay that way. I appreciate your sharing the good news of other writers and their books. I trust you will resume book-writing.

    Reply
    1. Pooja G Avatar
      Pooja G

      Yeah, it’s actually very hot in November here. October was definitely overwhelming but I’m finally feeling a little better. I’m back to writing again which I love.

      Reply
  36. philsblog01 Avatar
    philsblog01

    So happy you are feeling a bit better Pooja. Good luck with your new home!

    Reply
    1. Pooja G Avatar
      Pooja G

      Thanks so much!

      Reply
  37. Mary K. Doyle Avatar
    Mary K. Doyle

    Love to you, Sweetie.

    Reply
    1. Pooja G Avatar
      Pooja G

      Thanks so much, very much appreciated.

      Reply
  38. Laura Avatar
    Laura

    Glad you are doing better mentally 🙏 sometimes just going with the flow and not making concrete plans ends up being the best thing overall

    Reply
    1. Pooja G Avatar
      Pooja G

      Thanks so much, yeah I think that’s honestly the best for now.

      Reply
  39. Kritika Avatar
    Kritika

    Sorry for the loss. May you and your family receive loads of Love and Warmth. Hope this month brings you luxury and happiness. Keep Smiling 🙂
    Love and Light
    Kritika

    Reply
    1. Pooja G Avatar
      Pooja G

      Thank you so much ☺️

      Reply
  40. Pramod M Avatar
    Pramod M

    Wish you a great month 👍

    Reply
    1. Pooja G Avatar
      Pooja G

      Thank you so much ☺️

      Reply
  41. whysprs Avatar
    whysprs

    Sorry for your loss Pooja. Hopefully you will fet more time soon for the things you need to get done. I myself have been fairly busy as well and havnt been able to catch up with some things until tonight.

    Reply
    1. Pooja G Avatar
      Pooja G

      Thank you. Yeah, I have more time this month which I’m grateful for.

      Reply
  42. Loku Avatar
    Loku

    A warm hug 🤗

    Take care!

    Reply
    1. Pooja G Avatar
      Pooja G

      Thanks so much! 🤗

      Reply
  43. Mthobisi Magagula Avatar
    Mthobisi Magagula

    Touching blog post Pooja. My sister, I am very sorry for your loss😭 and I am going to support you as your online Brother here💖.

    Also, I am sorry October was hard for you, that is life, it is harsh and unforgiving at times. I hope you will not lose faith in the life you still are going to live. May God give you strength, I too did not get to achieve some October goals but luckily, I am Alive💖, I am grateful to God for that. Truthfully, 2024 was a lukewarm and hard year for most of us Bloggers.

    Lastly, November will be kind to you, bad days don’t last, trust me. God is in control either way

    Reply
    1. Pooja G Avatar
      Pooja G

      Thanks so much 💕

      I’m doing much better now, thanks. Yes, it’s been a tough year for many of us but I hope we all have a good November 😊

      Reply
  44. Ritish Sharma Avatar
    Ritish Sharma

    Congrats to Cindy, Tremaine, and YOU on your new books! That’s amazing. 👏🏼🙌🏼

    Reply
    1. Pooja G Avatar
      Pooja G

      Thank you so much! ☺️

      Reply
  45. Dusty Avatar
    Dusty

    I am so sorry to read about the passing of your grandmother! I wish you and your family peace and comfort as you grieve.

    Reply
    1. Pooja G Avatar
      Pooja G

      Thank you so much, I appreciate your condolences.

      Reply
  46. Belladonna Avatar
    Belladonna

    Sending you warm hugs and love Pooja!

    Reply
    1. Pooja G Avatar
      Pooja G

      Thank you and sending you some too!

      Reply
  47. Caleb Cheruiyot Avatar
    Caleb Cheruiyot

    Nice!

    Reply
    1. Pooja G Avatar
      Pooja G

      Thanks!

      Reply
  48. Carol anne Avatar
    Carol anne

    Pooj, I know this post is from last year, but, I never saw it when you originally posted it, and I wanted to also say that losing your gramma must’ve been awful, I wish I’d seen this post back when you originally wrote it, but please know I send my condolences to you and your family even now. X

    Reply
    1. P. J. Gudka Avatar
      P. J. Gudka

      It was really tough but thank you so much. I really appreciate the condolences and I’m sure she’s in a better place now.

      Reply

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