
Perfunctory love leads to loveless marriages.
Today’s Word:
Perfunctory
1: characterised by routine or superficiality
2: lacking in interest or enthusiasm
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Sometimes marriage can be perfunctory over time.
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It absolutely can be.
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Wow congratulations! I’ll see if it’s available on Kindle since Amazon delivery isn’t available in Kenya.
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Alright.
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Solutions to problems resultant prefunctory crickets. 😉
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oops…typo perfunctory 😉
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Haha true 😜
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As a guy three times divorced, I can speak clearly on the benefits of living your life single!
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As someone who has never been divorced I still agree with you! 😂
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I hope I didn’t come across as being negative, Pooja. I don’t recommend marriage for anyone these days, it’s too costly in many different ways when it almost ultimately falls apart. The divorce rate in the States is around 50 percent! That piece of paper can ruin your life, very sad.
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Wow that is an extremely high divorce rate. It’s not you at all, I alreay feel pretty negatively towards marriage. I’ve seen too many not work out and it’s made me not want to deal with all that drama.
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Honestly, a lot of the crap that happened was my fault, but I am not responsible for all of it for what that’s worth… Never again!
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I think marriage has a way of bringing our the worst in people sometimes lol.
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Absolutely! One common thing in all three of my marriages was the feeling of being trapped. Trapped in a situation that I never wanted. The only solution for me is to remain a bachelor until I croak… It’s been a long time…
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Yeah I think I will feel that way too which is why I am pretty anti-marriage right now. I can’t even do long term relationships so I just know marriage isn’t going to work. I think for people who value their independence (and sanity!) being single is the answer.
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Yeah, I wish I’d have figured the inependence thing out sooner! Marriage is just a piece of paper that ruins your life… That’s terribly negative of course but it’s sadly true for many of us.
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Yeah it’s sad but also the reality of things.
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Reality sucks, some days I just don’t want to do the adult thing… And, sometimes irony can be pretty ironic…
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Haha yeah I always hate the adulting part of being an adult but that’s life I guess…
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Her perfunctory response spoke in volumes.
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Sometimes those reponses speak very loudly.
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Perfunctory: what our love life became.
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Aww it’s sad when relationships go wrong.
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They’re life lessons, though.
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True- we learn a lot from them.
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“Concerned” is the antonym for “perfunctory”.
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Indeed.
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I read your blogs with attention 😃
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I do the same with yours- they’re always so insightful.
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Learning from you
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Thanks so much.
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The visits are her perfunctory but necessary.
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Ooh love that!! 💕
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Tired hearts, filled with perfunctory love.
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Absolutely love that SWS.
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Thank you!
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You’re very welcome!
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The world is changing so quickly and the relationship dynamic too is changing. I mean my grandparents don’t communicate much and they have the most stable marriage that I’ve witnessed. However it’s a silent marriage that everybody has a pre-determined role. Nowadays this kind of marriage is impossible to exist.
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True. Our roles have changed so much over the years and I think gender roles are no longer as rigid as they were back then. I think older people have never had the privilege of living a life with no rules.
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Now looking back, I can almost see the narcissism in my maternal grandma, who always tries to be the most moral, most diligent, most whatever. I think she passed the narcissistic gene to my mother. Although in my grandma’s generation, my mother grew up in an extended family housing and the damage was minimized. Also the older generation was more laid back and more behaving according to the rigid social convention. So my grandma’s narcissism was not obvious and not as damaging and not as vicious.
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I see. My maternal grandmother is quite nice but my paternal one sounds like your grandma. She can also be quite a narcissist and it can be exhausting. Luckily, she didn’t do much for my dad and he was mostly raised by his dad so he’s nothing like her.
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Isn’t the dynamic between our own relatives interesting? It’s like an open plot hidden in plain sight, speaking to us almost every day without being noticed. The general before me is blind–their notion of family really blinds them and they can’t see the real thing lying before them … Yes, you are right, every family has a relative like that, who is exhausting. I mean at least one…
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It’s absolutely fascinating really. As writers we create new plots but sometimes we forget we have so much inspiration to write thanks to family members lol.
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I am not perfunctory about this. I love your blog and learned a new word for my vocabulary today.
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Thank you and so glad it helped you learn a new word.
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Passion eventually rediscovered beyond perfunctory effort.
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That’s nice.
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Thanks!
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You’re welcome and thanks for participating!
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‘Nobody” likes me. That’s a 6 letter word, isn’t it?
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Sure is.
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A great marriage requires enthusiastic passion!
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Absolutely agree!
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Perfunctory is a word. Hahaha That’s pretty cool. Loving the Knowledge. Stay Shining
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It sure is lol. Thanks so much.
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Never deep feeling perfunctory his life.
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Wonderful SWS.
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A deep word
Perfunctory👌
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It sure is 💕
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A perfunctory life is still life.
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Absolutely.
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A perfunctory marriage is not ideal.
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It’s really not.
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The perfunctory is really, really boring.
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Haha true 😄
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🙂
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