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Am I Deleting This Blog?

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Am I deleting my blog? No, of course not. Did I use that title for clickbait? Duh. Lol, sorry I couldn’t help myself. The truth is, I know I’ve been away for a bit. I haven’t been as active on this blog as I usually am. It’s because I have a lot going on in my life this month both work related and just generally. So, I have been taking more breaks from posting.

For me, I post because I want to and I enjoy it. So, when I’m stressed out and feel forced to share something it doesn’t feel right. And it certainly doesn’t feel good. I promised myself I would never force myself to post because that would take the fun out of it. Which is why I’ve been posting much less recently. Hopefully though, things should go back to normal once October ends. And I may even be able to start conducting interviews again which I’m so excited about.

I think I’ve also just not been motivated to write. After finishing my first novel, second book overall, I’ve been a little burnt out and need of a rest. Thankfully, my lovely bestie Dentmistry is helping me edit even though she’s literally a doctor and super busy. How did I get so lucky??

But this month, other than that I’m pretty much taking things easy and trying to relax when I can even though it’s really hectic right now. I just wanted to pop in and say hi, hope everyone is well! And no, I’ll never be deleting this blog lol.

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118 responses to “Am I Deleting This Blog?”

  1. Tamara Kulish from https://tamarakulish.com/ Avatar
    Tamara Kulish from https://tamarakulish.com/

    That’s a big load physically, emotionally and mentally, so taking it easier is a wise idea.

    Reply
    1. Pooja G Avatar
      Pooja G

      Thanks so much, yeah I think I need some time to relax otherwise I’ll be completely burnt out.

      Reply
  2. Regina Castejón Avatar
    Regina Castejón

    Tienes razón cuando escribimos en nuestros sitios lo debemos hacer, sin agobio y disfrutarlo, Así como hay momentos de mucha inspiración hay momentos que nos quedamos en blanco, hacer pausas es bueno, un fuerte abrazo

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    1. Pooja G Avatar
      Pooja G

      Sí, exactamente. Creo que hay momentos en los que necesitamos hacer una pausa para no sentirnos abrumados. Muchas gracias. Abrazos.

      Reply
  3. Laura Avatar
    Laura

    I like how you stay true to your conviction of posting only when you feel like it and want to. It doesn’t feel good to force a post out “just because” but sometimes I think we feel like we need to 🙏 breaks are important for our mental, physical, emotional health 😊

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    1. Pooja G Avatar
      Pooja G

      Thanks so much. Yeah, it’s no fun if we force ourselves to post. I’d rather enjoy what I do 😊

      Reply
  4. thomasstigwikman Avatar
    thomasstigwikman

    Sometimes you need a break. I am looking forward to your future posts.

    Reply
    1. Pooja G Avatar
      Pooja G

      Yes, I think some breaks are very necessary. Thanks so much.

      Reply
  5. Gina Avatar
    Gina

    I hear you on the hectic time! I seriously overbooked myself from now thru mid December. I’m considering taking January off to recover. lol

    Reply
    1. Pooja G Avatar
      Pooja G

      Oh no, sounds like you’re very busy too. Definitely take some time off if you need to.

      Reply
  6. Kevin Avatar
    Kevin

    Careful…Renard said “never” too, and we all know how that ended lol

    Glad you’re taking things with a grain of salt and not worrying about posting. It’s not always an easy road to ride, I know. I wrestle with it constantly.

    Reply
    1. Pooja G Avatar
      Pooja G

      Lol that’s so true. I was just thinking about him the other day.

      Thanks. Yeah, I know you’ve struggled with it too. Like you said, it’s difficult but somehow we always end up back here lol.

      Reply
      1. Kevin Avatar
        Kevin

        Yes, it definitely has it’s moments, no doubt. I think we all go through it – just some of us more than others

        Reply
        1. Pooja G Avatar
          Pooja G

          Yup, absolutely.

          Reply
  7. Bookstooge Avatar
    Bookstooge

    I promised myself I would never force myself to post because that would take the fun out of it

    And I hope you continue to stick to that. When you force it, it’s not good.

    I will admit, that I had about 2 seconds of “Oh no!” when I saw the title 😀 I’ve seen too many bloggers go away over the years to think it can’t happen, because it can, to anyone. But I am glad you’re not going away.

    Reply
    1. Pooja G Avatar
      Pooja G

      Thanks so much. Exactly, when you force yourself to do something you’ll just end up hating it. True, so many bloggers have left especially in the last couple of years.

      Reply
  8. John Avatar
    John

    Taking a break can be very good for many people, including we blog authors, Pooja. Enjoy your rest! 😊❤️

    Reply
    1. Pooja G Avatar
      Pooja G

      Thanks so much! True we all need some breaks sometimes ❤️🥰

      Reply
      1. John Avatar
        John

        Be well my friend! 🙏🏻❤️😊

        Reply
        1. Pooja G Avatar
          Pooja G

          You too! 🥰

          Reply
  9. DEVANG UPADHYAYA Avatar
    DEVANG UPADHYAYA

    I will never forgive you if you ever consider doing that. 😠

    You are the reason why I sticked to the blogging

    And hey btw, you are way more active than me 😝
    I feel bad because I am writing a lot but not here. Because WP is challenging, you work on a topic so hard and it gets screwed up by WP, you feel bad.

    I’m doing a lot of ghost writing, something I never thought I would do.
    I’m not posting, not commenting and our conversation is still due.

    Your clickbait title got my attention, and dude you did wrong with it 🤨😤🫤

    Reply
    1. Pooja G Avatar
      Pooja G

      Lol don’t worry I’m not going anywhere. I’ll just be posting less often for this month. Yeah, I’ve noticed you don’t post much on your blog recently which makes me sad sometimes because I love reading your posts 😊

      Reply
      1. DEVANG UPADHYAYA Avatar
        DEVANG UPADHYAYA

        I’m working on few!!

        Reply
  10. satyam rastogi Avatar
    satyam rastogi

    Congratulations for your book 📕 pooja get back soon with your regular posts they are very fascinating 🌺🌺

    Reply
    1. Pooja G Avatar
      Pooja G

      Thanks so much, hope to be back to my regular schedule by the end of the month 😊

      Reply
  11. BENJAMIN NAMBU Avatar
    BENJAMIN NAMBU

    It’s not easy staying consisted with posts. But once a while, breaks are necessary.

    I’m off to read your book. Congrats, Pooja.

    Reply
    1. Pooja G Avatar
      Pooja G

      Yes, it’s really difficult to post consistently. Breaks help. Thanks so much 😊

      Reply
      1. BENJAMIN NAMBU Avatar
        BENJAMIN NAMBU

        You’re welcome, Pooja♥️

        Reply
  12. Sadje Avatar
    Sadje

    Take care and rest

    Reply
    1. Pooja G Avatar
      Pooja G

      Thanks so much 😊

      Reply
      1. Sadje Avatar
        Sadje

        You’re very welcome.

        Reply
  13. Carl Setzer Avatar
    Carl Setzer

    I promised myself I would never force myself to post because that would take the fun out of it

    I’m with you on this, though I get the drive to post more. Gotta engage the audience! But I’ve never been about monetizing my blog, or social media in general. I guess I’m not committed to hustle culture.

    Reply
    1. Pooja G Avatar
      Pooja G

      I’m not a fan of hustle culture either, if we do everything for an income things stop being fun. At least in my experience.

      Reply
  14. LoveLifeHappiness&More💙💙 Avatar
    LoveLifeHappiness&More💙💙

    Breaks are necessary Pooja! Take care of yourself, and get some rest.

    Reply
    1. Pooja G Avatar
      Pooja G

      They are and thanks so much! I’m trying to take it easy this month so I can get back to my normal schedule soon 😊

      Reply
  15. CattleCapers Avatar
    CattleCapers

    Congratulations on publishing your first book.

    Reply
    1. Pooja G Avatar
      Pooja G

      Thank you so much, I hope you check it out if you’re able to.

      Reply
  16. Peter Avatar
    Peter

    You fooled me 😂(only for a second until I opened it!). I’m glad you’re not going anywhere!

    Reply
    1. Pooja G Avatar
      Pooja G

      Haha yeah, I’m not going anywhere dw 😅

      Reply
  17. Milena Alien Avatar
    Milena Alien

    It’s a mental health day, I’m glad to hear you are taking care of yourself by not posting when you don’t feel like it.
    Good to hear from you Pooj, fall is a busy time of year just like spring 🌼 what are you reading these days? what are you watching and listening?

    Reply
    1. Pooja G Avatar
      Pooja G

      Thanks so much, yeah I don’t want to force myself to post and then end up burnt out. I’ve been watching a show called Evil, it’s fantastic. I would so recommend it. Also a show called Nobody Wants This, it’s nice. I won’t say it’s great but it helps me relax. I started reading Rebecca and liking it so far. What are you reading/watching/listening to?

      Reply
      1. Milena Alien Avatar
        Milena Alien

        I’m reading The Anxiety and Phobia Workbook, it’s blowing my mind, I am going to write about it. Another one is Travels with Charley: in search of America by John Steinbeck, it’s pretty good. The last movie I watched was ‘Beetlejuice Beetlejuice’, I liked it. Yesterday we watched ‘Lilo and Stitch’ with the kids in class, it was nice. I recently discovered a band called Boombox, it’s an American duo, electronic rock, funk, chill music, I like them.
        As usual I’m cooking a lot and making art sometimes…

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        1. Pooja G Avatar
          Pooja G

          That’s really cool. I’ve been wanting to watch Betlejuice for quite a while now. I’m a big fan of the original and heard this one was good too.

          Reply
          1. Milena Alien Avatar
            Milena Alien

            I liked it, I think you will like it as well

            Reply
  18. sandysbookaday Avatar
    sandysbookaday

    Self-care is important, Pooja. Rest and refresh. 💐💖📚

    Reply
    1. Pooja G Avatar
      Pooja G

      Thanks so much 💕

      Reply
  19. Hilary Tan Avatar
    Hilary Tan

    I’m sorry but it’s going to take a lot more to bait me lol I know for a fact that you wouldn’t delete your blog. Not after all the work, labor, and effort that you put into your blog.

    TBH I haven’t blogged in a couple of months but renewed my subscription anyways. I know the blog is there when I’m ready to write again. I’m not forcing myself to write if my heart isn’t in it. And honestly it’s just not in it these days. Take a blogging break if you need to and don’t feel guilty about it. Your blog will still be there when you return.

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    1. Pooja G Avatar
      Pooja G

      Lol you know me well 😅

      That’s good, take some time off and come back when you’re ready to share posts again. It shouldn’t be something that turns into a chore. Thanks ☺️

      Reply
  20. byngnigel Avatar
    byngnigel

    Girlfriend… Everyone needs a time out once in a while..I’m glad you’re prioritizing you’re peace of mind..congrats on the completed manuscript Pooja. 🙏

    Reply
    1. Pooja G Avatar
      Pooja G

      Absolutely, breaks are necessary and this month I’m only going to post when I can. Thanks so much 😊

      Reply
      1. byngnigel Avatar
        byngnigel

        You’re welcome 💜🙏

        Reply
  21. Manoj Ghosh Avatar
    Manoj Ghosh

    It’s great to know you published your first ‘anthology’. I wish you the best.

    I am starting off as a writer, and the question I often ask myself is, why do I write? If I get the answers such as, for money, for acclaim, for validation, for fame, or even for my ego, I stop writing for a few days.

    The only reason I want to write, if there must be one, is for intense personal bliss and happiness. I write my stories, I weave those magical worlds and universes, filled with amazing beings, only to feel a bliss and ‘Anandam’ like no other.

    Reply
    1. Pooja G Avatar
      Pooja G

      Thanks so much, I hope you check it out if you’re bale to.

      That’s so true and you’ll notice that our writing becomes so much better when we write because we want to instead of for other reasons.

      Reply
  22. shivatje Avatar
    shivatje

    🙏

    Aum Shanti

    Reply
    1. Pooja G Avatar
      Pooja G

      🙏🙏

      Reply
  23. katiemiafrederick Avatar
    katiemiafrederick

    Hehe Trick or Treat Dear
    Pooja It’s What All

    Halloween Characters
    Do to Get A Rise Out of

    the Target Audience With SMiLes

    Hehe Yet of Course
    Harmless it is

    No Political
    Show to Rule
    The World hehe

    At Least Not yet With SMiLes..:)

    Reply
    1. Pooja G Avatar
      Pooja G

      The spookiest month of the year, I love Halloween season. I hope to watch lots of scary movies. Smiles 😊

      Reply
      1. katiemiafrederick Avatar
        katiemiafrederick

        Celebrating The
        Dark And Dear
        Lord Temps Finally
        Dropping to Fall
        Levels
        In Florida
        With SMiles
        Dear Pooja
        Halloween Hurricanes

        🌀
        Scary
        Enough
        If That’s

        The End😱☺️

        Reply
        1. Pooja G Avatar
          Pooja G

          Take care, I’ve been hearing a lot about the hurricane.

          Reply
          1. katiemiafrederick Avatar
            katiemiafrederick

            Thanks☺️🌀

            Reply
  24. Jixi Fox Avatar
    Jixi Fox

    Trust me I know the feeling. I been gamifying my post a bit. I try tapping into new ways to post. Is it bad for my algorithm, mmmm maybe, but the basis I built my blog on was self, fun, connections, and experimenting.

    So yes my friend, take that time to recharge and as your growth the goals change a bit, and you do more things with a purpose, and you are definitely doing so.

    You are awesome.

    Reply
    1. Pooja G Avatar
      Pooja G

      Yeah, switching things helps make us feel more motivated again. Even if it messes up the algorithm, at least you enjoy the content you create. Thanks so much. You’re awesome too.

      Reply
  25. a-cute-weirdo Avatar
    a-cute-weirdo

    Glad to hear from you! Take care of yourself, Pooja❤️

    Reply
    1. Pooja G Avatar
      Pooja G

      Thanks so much! 😊

      Reply
  26. Joseph Glidden Avatar
    Joseph Glidden

    Glad to hear you are making some time for yourself. I happened to go outside this evening and catch a glimpse of some spectacular northern lights that looked like a 360 degree waterfall of amazing colours. It was relaxing to watch and awe inspiring.

    Reply
    1. Pooja G Avatar
      Pooja G

      Thanks so much. Oh wow, what an incredible experience. I’ve always wanted to see the Northern Lights, it’s even on my bucket list. It must have been so magical to see.

      Reply
      1. Joseph Glidden Avatar
        Joseph Glidden

        It was a magical sight to see. The last time I saw them this bright was after a David Bowie concert in 1987.

        Reply
        1. Pooja G Avatar
          Pooja G

          That’s really cool, it must have been nice to see after so many years.

          Reply
  27. trE Avatar
    trE

    Pace yourself. You’re on nobody’s timeline but your own. I am glad you are listening to yourself and posting only when you feel the need to post.

    Honestly, that’s how it should be. 🙏🏾💙

    Reply
    1. Pooja G Avatar
      Pooja G

      Thanks so much. Yeah, I generally try to listen when my body tells me I’m tired. I really don’t want to end up burnt out 💕

      Reply
      1. trE Avatar
        trE

        Amen!

        Reply
  28. Stella Reddy Avatar
    Stella Reddy

    🌞

    Reply
    1. Pooja G Avatar
      Pooja G

      😊

      Reply
  29. Eugi Avatar
    Eugi

    Taking a break is important, Pooja, and I agree we shouldn’t feel pressured to blog. Blogging is supposed to be fun and not like work. Take of yourself! 💗

    Reply
    1. Pooja G Avatar
      Pooja G

      Thanks so much, absolutely we should share content because we enjoy it not because we have to 😊

      Reply
      1. Eugi Avatar
        Eugi

        You’re welcome, Pooja.

        Reply
  30. festo_sanjo Avatar
    festo_sanjo

    That’s OK! Even if it seems not OK. I think the urge to post comes along when you’ve not posted for a while. Take time for yourself and get that energy back. It’s quality over quality here. Stay safe

    Reply
    1. Pooja G Avatar
      Pooja G

      Thanks! Absolutely, I think eventually we start feeling like posting again and that’s the best time to do just that.

      Reply
  31. Lokesh dhanure Avatar
    Lokesh dhanure

    😊

    Reply
    1. Pooja G Avatar
      Pooja G

      😊

      Reply
  32. jesusluvsall Avatar
    jesusluvsall

    We all have times we need time to relax take a break.

    Reply
    1. Pooja G Avatar
      Pooja G

      Yes, very much so.

      Reply
  33. Stephanie Avatar
    Stephanie

    Happy when my favorite bloggers are taking care of themselves so that the embers of joy burn on! <3

    Reply
    1. Pooja G Avatar
      Pooja G

      Thanks, yeah we gotta make sure to take care and not end up burnt out!

      Reply
  34. clcouch123 Avatar
    clcouch123

    In your case, your blog is an intention and a matter of writing because you like it and you want to. So I think you should take a break also when you enjoy and you want to. I don’t know enough about blog dynamics to speak to consequences; Ideally, I’d rather there weren’t any. Person to person, I’d say break when it’s good for you to break. Most of us, I imagine, will be standing by. And I’m glad you have someone trustworthy and supportive editing your novel.

    Reply
    1. Pooja G Avatar
      Pooja G

      Yeah, since I write because it’s more of a hobby than anything else it’s fine to take breaks. I think it affects traffic a bit but nothing else. And I’m fine with less traffic sometimes.

      Reply
  35. melaniemcgauran Avatar
    melaniemcgauran

    Sometimes I struggle too to keep my interest going in blogging. I take a big break over the summer months to be “lazy” and work on other projects. 🙂

    Reply
    1. Pooja G Avatar
      Pooja G

      Yes, it’s a lot of work to come up with new content all the time. That’s great, you can properly enjoy your summer and come back refreshed 🙂

      Reply
  36. Mary K. Doyle Avatar
    Mary K. Doyle

    We have to do what makes us happy. You are doing what is best for you. Have a wonderful weekend, Pooja.

    Reply
    1. Pooja G Avatar
      Pooja G

      Yes, absolutely. I don’t want to end up burnt out. Thanks so much, have a great week ahead.

      Reply
  37. Steve Avatar
    Steve

    Hey Pooja, no doubt you are tired out after all that writing! And I completely get needing to feel like you’re not obligated to post something, because that feels like a drag. If I’ve had a low day, I might really want to chill out, or I might want to search for a diversion and research a post. But it’s about choice.

    Reply
    1. Pooja G Avatar
      Pooja G

      Thanks so much, yeah I think breaks are good because I can come back refreshed. Have an awesome week!

      Reply
      1. Steve Avatar
        Steve

        My pleasure, and I hope you have a great week, too!

        Reply
        1. Pooja G Avatar
          Pooja G

          I did, thanks!

          Reply
  38. Vanya Wryter Consulting Avatar
    Vanya Wryter Consulting

    Blog when you have time, Pooja!

    Reply
    1. Pooja G Avatar
      Pooja G

      Thanks so much!

      Reply
  39. Ahzio Avatar
    Ahzio

    Makes perfect sense. Sometimes when I’m tired of writing, I concentrate on something different but still in the creative fields. Art and music help me out. I don’t know what would be good for you, but I’m sure you have other things.

    Reply
    1. Pooja G Avatar
      Pooja G

      Thanks so much, yeah sometimes we need a break from what we do regularly or we end up burnt out. I love art and music too, I’ve been learning guitar while on my break which has been.

      Reply
      1. Ahzio Avatar
        Ahzio

        Nice!

        Reply
  40. Ibukun Avatar
    Ibukun

    Pooja G,

    I was shocked by the headline. I was like, whhhhy? 😭😭

    You will be fine actually. Just take the needed break and come back refreshed.

    Reply
    1. Pooja G Avatar
      Pooja G

      Haha thanks, yeah it’s just a short break where I’ll post less regularly.

      Reply
  41. WellsFiction Avatar
    WellsFiction

    Totally understand, but please never leave Pooja haha. I’m thankful for our friendship. You’re very honest and true to yourself and I love that. Have a great day, hon.

    Reply
    1. Pooja G Avatar
      Pooja G

      Thanks and don’t worry I’m not going anywhere haha! Have a great week ahead and so thankful for our friendship too 🙂

      Reply
  42. Shweta Suresh Avatar
    Shweta Suresh

    I had just logged in after so long and I’ll admit it – that title nearly gave me a shock.

    Sometimes we need to take a break and come back stronger. It’s never a good idea to force yourself to write. I’m totally with you.

    Reply
    1. Pooja G Avatar
      Pooja G

      So nice to see you back here Shweta! True, I think it’s totally okay to take breaks when you need to.

      Reply
      1. Shweta Suresh Avatar
        Shweta Suresh

        I am so happy to hear that, Pooja. Much love. Take care.

        Reply
        1. Pooja G Avatar
          Pooja G

          Take care too.

          Reply
  43. Janice Reid Avatar
    Janice Reid

    It’s okay Pooja…you’re right, our posts are better when not forced 😊.

    Reply
  44. loku24 Avatar
    loku24

    Hi!

    Don’t delete the blog.
    Do clickbait only…

    Oh no, actually write regular posts as always…

    but yeah, do take breaks..
    there’s nothing wrong in taking breaks…

    I enjoy creating, writing and deleting blogs.
    And here’s a new one…
    This one will stay longer…I hope.

    Take care. Stay happy!
    (I completed my pg degree in History. I know it’s useless.😝)

    Reply
  45. Mthobisi Magagula Avatar
    Mthobisi Magagula

    Hey Pooja, do not delete this blog! I enjoy reading it and I will miss you if you go away! Keep blogging

    Reply
  46. Vwani Avatar
    Vwani

    Such a good click bait tbh

    Reply
    1. Pooja G Avatar
      Pooja G

      Haha thanks.

      Reply
  47. Sciencegajab.com Avatar
    Sciencegajab.com

    Nice

    Reply
    1. Pooja G Avatar
      Pooja G

      Thanks.

      Reply
  48. Caleb Cheruiyot Avatar
    Caleb Cheruiyot

    Wonderful ♥️

    Reply
    1. Pooja G Avatar
      Pooja G

      Thanks ☺️

      Reply
  49. Carol anne Avatar
    Carol anne

    Wow Pooj, I got a shock when I read the title, I was like, oh is pooj deleting her blog? So I am glad you arent!

    Reply
    1. P. J. Gudka Avatar
      P. J. Gudka

      Haha yes, sorry about the shock but definitely not deleting the blog!

      Reply

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