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I Choose Me

This Valentine’s Day

I choose me

I choose to say

Self-love is my priority

I take in the serene view

I see the light

And stop feeling so blue

Because life is worth the fight

I Choose Me

About “I Choose Me”:

This poem was inspired by Kevin’s No Theme Thursday prompt for the week. He has so many great images as always. You can check out his prompts for the week here.

This post was supposed to go up tomorrow for Valentine’s Day but I guess technically it would have been too late since it would be the 15th in Kenyan time by the time it went up. So I decided to post it today. Also, the post I was supposed to share today is so far from done I had to give up on it for now. I’ve been typing for almost two hours and I’m only half way through. So I’ll share that tomorrow instead. It’s like 2am here and I don’t have the strength to finish it today lol.

Anyhoo, back to the poem. I’ve been on a journey of self-love for quite a while now. I’m finally learning to value myself and put myself first when I need to. And that’s what inspired this poem. It feels amazing to no longer have to walk on eggshells and just live my life as I want. I choose me, I will always choose me.

Happy Valentine’s Day! It’s past midnight here so it counts. Whether you have plans or don’t, have an awesome day.

Anyway, I hope you enjoyed my little poem. What did you think of it? What are your plans for Valentine’s Day if you celebrate it? Let me know in the comments section located below. Or simply just stop by and say hi!

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113 responses to “I Choose Me”

  1. John Avatar
    John

    Good words, Pooja. Always be loyal to you…

    Reply
    1. P. J. Gudka Avatar
      P. J. Gudka

      Thank you and yes absolutely, you need to put yourself first when you can.

      Reply
  2. Herald Staff Avatar
    Herald Staff

    I really like that poem!
    –Scott

    Reply
    1. P. J. Gudka Avatar
      P. J. Gudka

      Thank you so much!

      Reply
  3. jesusluvsall Avatar
    jesusluvsall

    Good to take care of yourself

    Reply
    1. P. J. Gudka Avatar
      P. J. Gudka

      Absolutely, self-care is important.

      Reply
  4. Christopher Hall Avatar
    Christopher Hall

    Happy Valentine’s Day to you too! I’m so glad you’ve gotten to that place in your life. I hope that those who are feeling lonely on this day, can glean comfort from your words. 💕😊

    Reply
    1. P. J. Gudka Avatar
      P. J. Gudka

      Thank you so much! I hope so too, we’re never truly alone because we’ve got ourselves 😊

      Reply
      1. Christopher Hall Avatar
        Christopher Hall

        EXACTLY! You’re very welcome! 😊

        Reply
  5. katiemiafrederick Avatar
    katiemiafrederick

    Indeed Dear Pooja You Have
    The Potential For All Seasons
    Of Spring to Love Yourself Within

    In Peaceful
    Easy Ways
    That Spread
    All the Places You Go

    Whatever Weather Comes Next
    Whatever Home You Come to Be

    Happy Valentine’s Day
    to You Feeling THere
    Are No Limits
    For You
    To Gain
    Even More
    Colorful Wings
    oF LoVE iN Peace Within

    Best PArt Of All Yes No Limits
    Now Defying Gravity For How High
    The Peace Within Will Spring New

    Colors
    oF LoVE
    For All
    With SMiLes

    ALL A WaY
    ACRoSS Your
    Lifespan of Wings..:)

    Reply
    1. P. J. Gudka Avatar
      P. J. Gudka

      Thank you so much. Absolutely, we can do anything we put our mind to. Have a wonderful day.

      Reply
      1. katiemiafrederick Avatar
        katiemiafrederick

        All my
        Pleasure
        You Too☺️🙌

        Reply
  6. Z.F. Thrimej Avatar
    Z.F. Thrimej

    Your choice is wise; I agree with you. I like that the serene view and light can be relieving and recharging..

    Reply
    1. P. J. Gudka Avatar
      P. J. Gudka

      Thanks so much. Yes, absolutely. It can feel like a fresh breath of air.

      Reply
  7. Stephanie Avatar
    Stephanie

    A Valentine for yourself, just perfect. <3 <3

    Reply
    1. P. J. Gudka Avatar
      P. J. Gudka

      Thank you, we have to put ourselves first sometimes 😊

      Reply
      1. Stephanie Avatar
        Stephanie

        It’s true. When I receive someone’s attention through their own self-love, meaning, their attention is given freely because they truly wish to and it nurtures them to do so, that’s the best best best sort! <3

        Reply
        1. P. J. Gudka Avatar
          P. J. Gudka

          Exactly, it’s different when their attention is given freely and by their own choosing.

          Reply
  8. LoveLifeHappiness&More💙💙 Avatar
    LoveLifeHappiness&More💙💙

    Great choice, Pooja!
    Self love is the best love. ❤️

    Reply
    1. P. J. Gudka Avatar
      P. J. Gudka

      Thank you and I so agree! ❤️

      Reply
      1. LoveLifeHappiness&More💙💙 Avatar
        LoveLifeHappiness&More💙💙

        💗💗

        Reply
  9. singlikewildflowers Avatar
    singlikewildflowers

    Happy Valentine’s Day!

    Reply
    1. P. J. Gudka Avatar
      P. J. Gudka

      Happy Valentine’s Day to you as well!

      Reply
      1. singlikewildflowers Avatar
        singlikewildflowers

        Same to you!

        Reply
  10. Milena Alien Avatar
    Milena Alien

    Because life is worth the fight
    I will be alright, I’m young and bright
    No need to worry day and night

    Reply
    1. P. J. Gudka Avatar
      P. J. Gudka

      Yes, exactly! That’s a perfect continuation to the poem.

      Reply
      1. Milena Alien Avatar
        Milena Alien

        Happy Valentine’s day!!!

        Reply
        1. P. J. Gudka Avatar
          P. J. Gudka

          Happy Valentine’s day! Hope you have a wonderful one.

          Reply
          1. Milena Alien Avatar
            Milena Alien

            Thank you!

            Reply
            1. P. J. Gudka Avatar
              P. J. Gudka

              You’re very welcome!

              Reply
  11. Jixi Fox Avatar
    Jixi Fox

    The reasons are open,
    I chose me,
    Deal or no deal,
    I would rather be lonely.

    🙂 I enjoyed your post.

    Reply
    1. P. J. Gudka Avatar
      P. J. Gudka

      Yes, perfectly said 👏🏽 Thanks so much 😊

      Reply
  12. wrookieschu Avatar
    wrookieschu

    Lovely poem and it’s good to put yourself first.

    Reply
    1. P. J. Gudka Avatar
      P. J. Gudka

      Thank you and yeah I’m really learning that and it feels nice to put myself first.

      Reply
      1. wrookieschu Avatar
        wrookieschu

        Good on you Pooja.

        Reply
  13. Joseph Glidden Avatar
    Joseph Glidden

    I like the poem. Happy Valentine’s Day.

    Reply
    1. P. J. Gudka Avatar
      P. J. Gudka

      Thank you so much, have a great one.

      Reply
  14. Kevin Avatar
    Kevin

    An excellent approach indeed! Love thine own self first and foremost! Happy Valentine’s Day to you too, Pooja! Personally, I am working all weekend lol

    Reply
    1. P. J. Gudka Avatar
      P. J. Gudka

      Thank you! Absolutely, we have to prioritise ourselves. Lol I’ll be working too but hopefully we’ll still have a nice day/weekend!

      Reply
  15. shivatje Avatar
    shivatje

    Happy valentine’s day 🙏🌹

    Aum Shanti

    Reply
    1. P. J. Gudka Avatar
      P. J. Gudka

      Have a great one, thank you 🙏🙏

      Reply
  16. Ranjana Avatar
    Ranjana

    Happy Galentine’s Day to my favourite Gal. Always stay happy and healthy. 😘

    Reply
    1. P. J. Gudka Avatar
      P. J. Gudka

      Happy Galentine’s Day to you as well, thanks so much 🤗

      Reply
  17. Sadje Avatar
    Sadje

    Beautiful , Pooja!

    Reply
    1. P. J. Gudka Avatar
      P. J. Gudka

      Thank you!

      Reply
  18. WellsFiction Avatar
    WellsFiction

    Very good poem, Pooja. Happy Self Care Day aka the best days 🙂

    Reply
    1. P. J. Gudka Avatar
      P. J. Gudka

      Thanks so much. I so agree 🙂

      Reply
  19. Opher Avatar
    Opher

    In the midst of the chaos I’m in at present Valentine’s Day kinda slipped past.

    Reply
    1. P. J. Gudka Avatar
      P. J. Gudka

      Sorry to hear that but hope you still have a good day.

      Reply
  20. Laura Avatar
    Laura

    Self-love is the best kind of love you can give yourself – Happy Valentine’s Day, Pooja! 💘 Celebrate you and do something nice for yourself! (And ouch! Writing for 2 hours! Been there) ✍️ Enjoy the day!

    Reply
    1. P. J. Gudka Avatar
      P. J. Gudka

      I so agree and thank you so much! Hope you have an amazing day too 💕💗

      Reply
  21. Benjamin Nambu Avatar
    Benjamin Nambu

    Happy Val’s Day, Pooja♥️. Today, I’m celebrating my Val’s Day indoors, just me and music and good food😅

    Reply
    1. P. J. Gudka Avatar
      P. J. Gudka

      Thank you so much 💕 That actually sounds like a lovely way to spend the day.

      Reply
  22. Eugi Avatar
    Eugi

    I love your poem expressing the importance of self-love. We’re spending Valentine’s Day at home. I have a bottle of red wine waiting for me to pop the cork. Happy Valentine’s Day, Pooja! 💝

    Reply
    1. P. J. Gudka Avatar
      P. J. Gudka

      Thank you so much. That sounds like a lovely way to spend it. I’m always a fan of staying in. Happy Valentine’s Day to you as well! 💗

      Reply
      1. Eugi Avatar
        Eugi

        You’re welcome, Pooja.

        Reply
      2. Pennize Pics Avatar
        Pennize Pics

        Very good. Self love is important. Hope that you had a nice Valentines Day. I worked lol.

        Reply
        1. P. J. Gudka Avatar
          P. J. Gudka

          Thanks so much. Lol I worked too but it was still a nice day.

          Reply
  23. SHALOM JAPHET Avatar
    SHALOM JAPHET

    I choose me 🥹 that’s lovely. Happy Valentines Day PJ 🫶🏾

    Reply
    1. P. J. Gudka Avatar
      P. J. Gudka

      Aw, thanks so much. Happy Valentines Day 💕

      Reply
  24. Karima Hoisan Avatar
    Karima Hoisan

    Self discovery and self love are very important, Pooja I wish you many blessings on your Life journey. Happy Valentine’s Day!!

    Reply
    1. P. J. Gudka Avatar
      P. J. Gudka

      I so agree and thank you so much, hope you have a great one too 💕

      Reply
  25. Mr. Ohh's Sideways View Avatar
    Mr. Ohh’s Sideways View

    Pretty poem and very true. Remember, If you don’t love yourself, you can’t love anyone else. 🤣😎🙃

    Reply
    1. P. J. Gudka Avatar
      P. J. Gudka

      Thank you and so true!

      Reply
  26. Baydreamer - Lauren Scott Avatar
    Baydreamer – Lauren Scott

    An important poem for you and for all of us, Pooja. Self-love comes before loving and caring for others. Happy Valentine’s Day! ❤️

    Reply
    1. P. J. Gudka Avatar
      P. J. Gudka

      Thanks so much, I so agree self-love is so vital. Happy Valentine’s Day to you as well ❤️

      Reply
  27. festo_sanjo Avatar
    festo_sanjo

    I think I am in that phase, too. I’ve come to realize that while most people are struggling to make Valentine’s Day super, some just do so not to feel lonely and isolated. I think I have a ton of inner work to do, some of which I just realised today. It’s a journey, and instead of numbing the mismatch, I’d better face it head-on.

    Reply
    1. festo_sanjo Avatar
      festo_sanjo

      Also, happy Valentine’s to you.

      Reply
    2. P. J. Gudka Avatar
      P. J. Gudka

      I so agree. And yes, it’s all about working on ourselves. And focusing on becoming a better person.

      Reply
  28. clcouch123 Avatar
    clcouch123

    I hope you’ve been having a pleasant day. Your poem is an excellent reponse to the prompt. Many things try to isolate us e.g. for commercial or political purposes. But this is not self-love, certainly not from the inside. A healthy sense of self works well, among other things, in effectiveness with others. But each day starts with each of us, and there should be some joy in that. Good verse, good teaching from you.

    Reply
    1. P. J. Gudka Avatar
      P. J. Gudka

      Thanks so much. Hope you’ve been having a good day too. I’m glad you enjoyed the poem. Yes, it’s easier to isolate us when we don’t know our value and need outside validation. But when we love ourself we know exactly what we stand for. Thanks, have a lovely day.

      Reply
  29. pk 🌎 Avatar
    pk 🌎

    ❤️🧡Happy valentine’s Day ❤️💝

    Blessings fron 🇪🇦

    Reply
    1. P. J. Gudka Avatar
      P. J. Gudka

      Happy Valentine’s Day 💗

      Reply
  30. RasmaSandra Avatar
    RasmaSandra

    Happy Valentine’s Day! When I had to continue by life’s journey alone me. myself, and I became the very best friends anyone could ever have.

    Reply
    1. P. J. Gudka Avatar
      P. J. Gudka

      Thank you! Yeah, I think when you have to live life on your own you learn to be there for yourself and it’s a wonderful feeling to know yourself so well.

      Reply
  31. Mary K. Doyle Avatar
    Mary K. Doyle

    You’re right, Pooja. We have to love and care for ourselves or we can’t love and care for anyone else.

    Reply
    1. P. J. Gudka Avatar
      P. J. Gudka

      Yes, absolutely. I think so too. Hope you had a lovely day.

      Reply
  32. Janice Reid Avatar
    Janice Reid

    Yes girl…self-love is key!

    Reply
    1. P. J. Gudka Avatar
      P. J. Gudka

      It definitely is!

      Reply
  33. Michele Lee Avatar
    Michele Lee

    Wonderful to read of your journey of self-love, Pooja. Inspiring and your post is beautiful, in verse and image. Happy Valentine’s to you! 💟

    Reply
    1. P. J. Gudka Avatar
      P. J. Gudka

      Thanks so much, hope you had a lovely Valentine’s Day 💗

      Reply
      1. Michele Lee Avatar
        Michele Lee

        You’re very welcome and thank you P.J. 😊

        Reply
        1. P. J. Gudka Avatar
          P. J. Gudka

          😊💕

          Reply
  34. Michael Sammut Avatar
    Michael Sammut

    That is the best choice. Hard but worth the fight.

    Reply
    1. P. J. Gudka Avatar
      P. J. Gudka

      Thanks so much. Yeah, very much worth the fight.

      Reply
  35. Michael Sammut Avatar
    Michael Sammut

    Wishing you a Happy weekend, Pooja.

    Reply
    1. P. J. Gudka Avatar
      P. J. Gudka

      Thanks, wishing you the same.

      Reply
      1. Michael Sammut Avatar
        Michael Sammut

        🤗 Thank you.

        Reply
        1. P. J. Gudka Avatar
          P. J. Gudka

          You’re most welcome 😊

          Reply
  36. pk 🌎 Avatar
    pk 🌎

    Beautiful 💓

    Reply
    1. P. J. Gudka Avatar
      P. J. Gudka

      Thanks 😊

      Reply
  37. Bianca Alina Avatar
    Bianca Alina

    So beautifully written, Pooja! ♥️🌹

    Reply
    1. P. J. Gudka Avatar
      P. J. Gudka

      Thanks so much! ❤

      Reply
      1. Bianca Alina Avatar
        Bianca Alina

        It’s my pleasure, Pooja! 💕

        Reply
  38. Cindy Georgakas Avatar
    Cindy Georgakas

    Such a wonderful poem and more wonderful is finding self love, Pooja!! 💓

    Reply
    1. P. J. Gudka Avatar
      P. J. Gudka

      Thank you so much! 💓

      Reply
  39. THE LEGALPOINTS Avatar
    THE LEGALPOINTS

    Superb

    Reply
    1. P. J. Gudka Avatar
      P. J. Gudka

      Thanks.

      Reply
  40. ianscyberspace Avatar
    ianscyberspace

    Safe choice there Pooja 🙂

    Reply
    1. P. J. Gudka Avatar
      P. J. Gudka

      Thanks haha 🙂

      Reply
  41. Dawn Avatar
    Dawn

    What a wonderful message and choice, Pooja! 💞💞💞 After a long week at work, I had an extra day off and chose me as well. It was a lovely day of rest, writing, reading, and relaxation.

    Reply
    1. P. J. Gudka Avatar
      P. J. Gudka

      Thanks so much! 💕 That’s wonderful, glad you got the day off to enjoy yourself and relax 💗

      Reply
  42. Tamara Kulish from https://tamarakulish.com/ Avatar
    Tamara Kulish from https://tamarakulish.com/

    In a world where we’re pressured to couple up, particularly for V Day, it places too much pressure on people and they often choose someone who isn’t right for them, just so they won’t be alone and be branded with the negative rhetoric that people lime to judge with.

    Choosing ourselves, prioritizing our well-being is becoming more common and more acceptable, thankfully! Good for you!

    Reply
    1. P. J. Gudka Avatar
      P. J. Gudka

      I so agree, it places too much pressure on people while ignoring the real reason for V Day. Thanks!

      Reply
  43. SiriusSea Avatar
    SiriusSea

    Such a refreshing and freeing choice in a beautiful poetic form! And sharing the secret to success pertaining to the day of love and the entire objective. <3 You can't give what you don't have. If a person doesn't love themselves first, how can they give or express love anywhere else. As cheesy as it sounds and after many years, I can say openly, I love moi and mwah to you! Love ~ Always 😀

    Reply
    1. P. J. Gudka Avatar
      P. J. Gudka

      Aw thanks so much! Absolutely, we always have to learn to love ourselves first. That’s awesome, self-love is so important! Love and hugs 🤗

      Reply
  44. Belladonna Avatar
    Belladonna

    You know I love this!!!!! Keep choosing you everyday!

    Reply
    1. P. J. Gudka Avatar
      P. J. Gudka

      Thank you!!

      Reply
      1. Belladonna Avatar
        Belladonna

        You’re welcome!

        Reply
  45. Not all who wander are lost Avatar
    Not all who wander are lost

    Well done

    Reply
    1. P. J. Gudka Avatar
      P. J. Gudka

      Thank you.

      Reply
  46. KC Avatar
    KC

    Nicely done.

    Reply
    1. P. J. Gudka Avatar
      P. J. Gudka

      Thank you.

      Reply

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