How To Manage Anxiety When You Feel Overwhelmed

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I know I’ve been a little M.I.A because of my WiFi not working but it’s finally back as am I. Today, I thought I would share a mental health related post because I haven’t done one of those in quite a while. Plus, this year has really pushed my boundaries and tested me which sucked but I also ended up learning a lot from it. There were a lot of moments which felt overwhelming and that helped create this post about how to manage anxiety when you feel overwhelmed. I hope it helps anyone else out there also struggling with this.

Here is how to manage anxiety when you feel overwhelmed:

The 5-4-3-2-1 Method

The 5-4-3-2-1 method is one my therapist taught me and has helped with anxiety quite a bit. This method uses your five senses to help you stay present and reduce anxiety. When feeling overwhelmed and/or anxious, you close your eyes and identify 5 things you can see, 4 things you can touch, 3 things you can hear, 2 things you can smell and one thing you can taste. It helps you instantly feel more grounded in the present moment instead of out of control.

Breathing Exercises

Breathing exercises can also be incredibly helpful. With breathing exercises I would recommend trying different ones until you find one that works best for you.

Overall Health

One thing that helps so much with when you’re overwhelmed is having good overall health/mental health. Mental health isn’t something you can fix instantly for the most part. Working on it even on good days makes a huge difference during bad days. For example, if you take up journaling to help with anxiety don’t only journal when you’re already anxious. Do it daily, even when you feel perfectly fine because it needs to become a regular habit for it to work.

And don’t forget about the importance of your physical health too. Get enough sleep, drink enough water, eat healthy regardless of how tempting junk food is when we’re stressed out, don’t smoke or drink excessively. Your physical and mental health are very much connected and having good physical health often leads to better mental health.

Mindset

Your mindset makes a HUGE difference when it comes to mental health. Being able to change our mindset can literally rewire your brain and change your thought patterns. I’ve been following Dr. Mullen for quite a few years now and he has so much great content about neuroplasticity and the way in which it relates to recovery from anxiety disorders. Read more about it on his blog. And FYI, this isn’t sponsored or anything I just find his posts to be incredibly informative and helpful.

Final Thoughts

I hope these tips helped you better understand how to manage anxiety when you feel overwhelmed. Let me know in the comments below how you cope when you feel overwhelmed.

Disclaimer: If you or someone you love are experiencing mental health problems please talk to a professional or someone you trust. Please seek help if you feel that it is necessary. There is absolutely nothing wrong with needing help.

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72 responses to “How To Manage Anxiety When You Feel Overwhelmed”

  1. Thank you for coming up with this post, Puja!
    I’m someone who feel overwhelmed by anxiety often. I’ve read the points you have written, earlier, by my own research.
    But it feels good to hear it from a friend. The boys of my class never talk about anxiety openly. They face it but don’t discuss it.

    Some small corrections I suggest:
    1. “When feeling overwhelmed and/or anxious, you close your ideas and identify 5 things you can see, 4 things you can touch, 3 things you can hear, 2 things you can smell and one thing you can taste.”
    Ideas: eyes
    2. “Being able to change our mindset can literally rewire your brain and change your thought patters.”
    Patters: patterns

    Good Morning! 🌄

    1. Int his day and age, unfortunately most of us are overwhelmed and anxious which is why I wanted to share the post. A lot of people are still afraid of the stigma that is around mental health related topics. It’s sad because being open about our struggles would really help others and ourselves.

      Thank you, will fix those!

      1. Correct!

        My family don’t address it.

        1. Yeah, most families are like that.

  2. Great post, thanks for sharing

    1. Thanks and happy to share it.

  3. Lately I have noticed that there is the link between physical and mental health, you wanna get back in shape and eat well to feel better and your precious self. If you have headaches or joint pain you can’t be the best version of yourself. And it’s easier said than done. I tried to find the reason and learned quite recently that it’s my sinuses giving me all kinds of problems like headache, earache and so on. I also noticed the other direction of the same issue, when I get angry at my husband my ear really starts to hurt. So I learned it the hard way… Also the knee problems can make you cranky, sometimes it’s related to kidney issues. So get some cranberry juice to feel happy 😊 I could go on and on…

    1. That’s so true, whenever I don’t sleep well I end up feeling really down. Or when I don’t eat well. I’m having the same issue with my sinuses and got a humidifier, hopefully it will help. Yes, our moods have a big impact on our health too. Yup, do what makes you happy and focus on that as much as possible 😁

  4. I’ve found as I’ve gotten older, stress is a problem more than anxiety….and anger control? I can control myself, but sometimes….I really need to 10, or just ignore a lot…but at some point, well….yell?

    1. I know what you mean, often my temper rises quickly. I’ve learned to remove myself from the situation when I feel myself getting frustrated. Also, stress and anger is where rechanneling out mind comes in. It helps build new pathways that teach us to deal with anger in healthier ways.

  5. glad to have your wi fi back ..😋

    an insightful share, Pooja …🤍

    1. Thank you so much 😊💕

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    1. Thank you! Dancing is great for out physical and mental health, it helps us deal with stress and anxiety in a healthy way. Both dancing and singing have shown huge improvement for patients with anxiety!

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        1. Very true! 😊

  7. 🙏🌹

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  8. Great post. I often find myself overwhelmed atm, I’ve just gone back to work after maternity leave so find myself stressing about fitting everything in. I’m learning to take 5 minutes and breathe and accept I can’t actually do it all and decent nights kip is more important than the washing 😂

    1. Thank you. I can completely understand that, it must be hard changing your schedule again after being on maternity leave. It good to take some time to breathe and relax even if it’s only a few minutes. That’s totally fair haha!

  9. A great post, thanks for sharing.
    Lately, if I feel overwhelmed with tasks, I focus on one small thing I can do quickly and do that. Even if it is not the most important thing that I need to get done, it gives me a sense of making progress and provides inspiration and confidence to move onto the next thing.

    1. Thanks so much. Yeah, focusing on small tasks that lead to bigger ones helps so much. You feel more accomplished which is motivating and less worn out.

  10. These are great tips Pooja. Thanks for sharing.

    1. Thanks, happy to share them.

      1. Thank YOU

  11. I am glad you included the link to that Rechanneling site. I checked it out and plan on slowly reading through various posts.

    1. Happy to do so, it’s a blog that has helped me immensely over the years and I truly hope it’ll do the same for others.

  12. Great tips. Love the 5,4,3,2,1 one!

    1. Thanks and yeah that one is super helpful!

  13. Good stuff Pooj!

  14. Thank you for this post, Pooja. I love the 5-4-3-2-1 method. Lately, I stress over anything, and for no reason. I can’t fret over what I can’t control. I find music, and writing, helps tremendously. 💖

    1. Oh no, sorry to hear that and yeah the 5-4-3-2-1 method is great for moments like that. Absolutely, music and writing are both great distractions 💗

      1. Thank you, Pooja!😊

        1. You’re very welcome! ☺️

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    Some good advice.

    1. Thanks so much.

  16. I’m glad you’re figuring out ways to nurture your mental health. It can be a long struggle, but so worth it 🙂

    1. Thank you so much. Yes, definitely worth it 🙂

  17. Those was useful tips there Pooja.

    1. Thanks so much.

  18. I woke up to my heart racing this morning. I practice breathing exercises and that helped me a lot. I have a lot of anxiety about my job lately, and it’s coming out that way.

    Hope all is well with you.

    1. I’m glad to hear breathing exercises are helping you as well and so sorry to hear that your job has caused anxiety issues. I hope things improve soon. I’m well, thank you.

  19. Very good advice! For me personally, when I start to feel anxious, I’ve learned to check in with myself and ask myself questions like: what’s going on, where is this coming from. Sometimes I get my answers quickly, other times I need to sit with my feelings for a little to allow them to sort through.

    Once I can get a feel of why I’m anxious, then I can get to work talking to myself. I remind myself that I’ve been able to get through so many other situations, that I’ll be able to do so again, and that usually my fears and worries never come true, so why worry about what hasn’t happened.

    Often I find that it’s never as bad as my worry or nerves would want me to believe so I take the time afterwards to work on reassuring myself and filing the experience away in my mind d as another thing I was able to successfully get through.

    The after pep talk is important I’ve found, because it helps build a stronger platform in my mind to handle other situations.

    1. That’s great, figuring out the source of our anxiety helps so much. I also like to ask myself if my anxiety is rational or not because sometimes it’s really irrational and unnecessary.

  20. Pooja, great post with some practical, doable self-help techniques. Anxiety and depression seem to be much higher than just a few years ago 🫤

    1. Thank you so much. Yes, unfortunately both are still on the rise 🙁

  21. Your therapist’s lesson offers a distraction from the cause of anxiety. I like this!

    1. Yes, it’s a great distraction which helps ground us. Thank you!

  22. You absolutely cannot go wrong with any of these tips! These are so freaking important! Getting over that whole binge eating on Junk food when I’m stressed out kind of vibe has been a rough challenge to fix for myself personally. LOL! 😅

    1. Lol I do the same so I totally understand, these days I’ve been forcing myself to eat fruits instead but it’s hard 😭

  23. I like the suggestion of the method… 5 4 3 2 1. I usually count in slow methodical breaths when the anxiety spikes. Helps for me to stay grounded.

    1. Breathing definitely helps a lot too, it helps slow down our heart rate which reminds our brain that we’re okay.

  24. These are all really good pieces of advice, Pooja. I had never heard of the 5-4-3-2-1 method before.

    1. Thanks so much. Yeah it was new to me too but has been quite helpful.

      1. My pleasure, and I’m glad it worked well.

  25. Great advice, Pooja!

      1. You’re welcome!

  26. Thank you for the tools, Pooja! 💞💞💞

    1. Always happy to share! 💕

  27. Thank you for sharing this. Anxiety can feel so isolating, and posts like yours help break that. I write a lot about coping tools and real-life anxiety recovery on my blog — your words reminded me why this kind of honesty matters so much.

    1. I totally agree, it can be so isolating but sharing content about anxiety and our experiences can help so many. I’m happy to hear you do that too and will definitely check out your posts.

  28. That 5-4-3-2-1 technique sounds super helpful for those overwhelming moments. And yes – physical health totally affects mental health. Great tips.

    1. It can be really helpful to bring us back down. Thanks so much.

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