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Lisa Olivera Quote

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The reason I decided to share this Lisa Olivera quote was because it’s something I struggle with. I’m someone that likes to be fiercely independent and sometimes that means I don’t reach out to friends and family when I’m struggling and should. It’s hard for me to be vulnerable around others and even though I am pretty vulnerable and open on this blog I’m not that way in real life. So, this quote is a reminder to myself and others that’s it’s okay to need others and to let them in.

In other news, which I am sure will be of no surprise to my fellow WordPress bloggers, there was yet another glitch today. Unfortunately, the like button on a large number of sites were not working including my own. Thankfully, I got a rather helpful Happiness Engineer (it’s really like gambling because you can get a great one or the worst one) who assured me they were working to resolve the issue. And later confirmed that the issue had been resolved. Is it just me or are these glitches getting more and more frequent because it really feels like there is a new glitch every other week. It’s honestly getting pretty irritating to deal with.

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How has your week been? Did you experience the glitch? Do you have a hard time letting others in? Let me know in the comments below because I would love to hear from you. Or simply stop by and say hi!

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89 responses to “Lisa Olivera Quote”

  1. Daily Interesting Blogs Avatar
    Daily Interesting Blogs

    There are always errors on my site regarding followers, followers, likes and comments. I couldn’t understand what was happening. But I couldn’t do anything. But I’m glad you always bring up these topics through your blog. And I enjoyed them a lot😊🥰🤗👌👏👏

    Reply
    1. Pooja G Avatar
      Pooja G

      Yeah, these errors are common, unfortunately. Thanks so much 😊

      Reply
      1. Daily Interesting Blogs Avatar
        Daily Interesting Blogs

        My pleasure, Girl😊🥰🤗🙏

        Reply
  2. Geoff Stamper Avatar
    Geoff Stamper

    I’ll never be showered with riches because I’m stalked by a family of Glitches.

    Reply
    1. Pooja G Avatar
      Pooja G

      Lol, same.

      Reply
  3. John Avatar
    John

    WP is almost one big glitch at times, Pooja! The Like button think is gone, but I can’t comment on some sites because the comment area won’t fully load or it does something wonky… No problem with your comment form. I like the quote!

    Reply
    1. Pooja G Avatar
      Pooja G

      Urghh, so annoying! Glad my site is okay though but still annoying- these glitches need to be fixed 😞

      Reply
      1. John Avatar
        John

        🤙🏻🤙🏻🤙🏻

        Reply
  4. DEVANG UPADHYAYA Avatar
    DEVANG UPADHYAYA

    It’s hard to find a person and be vulnerable infront of them.
    This works on a trust. That trust takes time to build. We can’t just randomly show our true self to others. It takes time. But, I feel it also takes interest. The person with whom you are sharing should be available and interested to hear you out.
    For me, I’m like that with few people and they are like that with me. We need to be available to build a foundation. 🙂

    Reply
    1. Pooja G Avatar
      Pooja G

      Yeah, it’s tough. Even when I fully trust someone and they listen to me I just don’t like being that vulnerable. It’s something I’m working on.

      Reply
      1. DEVANG UPADHYAYA Avatar
        DEVANG UPADHYAYA

        I hope you find what’s best for you 🤗❤️

        Reply
  5. mic Avatar
    mic

    👌👌👌✒️🎼🎵🎶🎞️ Have a wonderful day dear Pooja🌹😘🌞

    Reply
    1. Pooja G Avatar
      Pooja G

      Thanks and you too 😊

      Reply
  6. Milena Alien Avatar
    Milena Alien

    As far as I understand you have to be very selective when it comes to letting ppl in, venting is only helpful around certain friends and not anyone and everyone. I learned it the hard way, or should I say still learning … When things go wrong not everyone is able or willing to help you fix them. I wish you the best of luck even if glitches happen!

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    1. Pooja G Avatar
      Pooja G

      I’m very selective but the issue is I’m not good at opening up even with close friends. True and thanks so much!

      Reply
  7. Poet of the Light Avatar
    Poet of the Light

    I’ve learned: we are never as alone as we oft feel to believe. Relatable post… and I agree with its author.

    “Someday you’ll be old enough to start reading fairytales again. ~C S Lewis~

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    1. Pooja G Avatar
      Pooja G

      Thanks so much and I like the quote you shared too. I wait for that day to come, I miss the younger version of myself very much.

      Reply
  8. Warren Avatar
    Warren

    i had a doctor appointment today to renew a prescription….when he asked how I was, I said fine….I was lying. there are a few things not quite right, but, I’m a guy and I figure eventrually I’ll get better….and yeah, asking for anything isn’t something I do…..

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    1. Pooja G Avatar
      Pooja G

      Yeah, that happens. It’s hard to open up even with medical professionals.

      Reply
  9. Steve Avatar
    Steve

    Great post and quote, and a good reminder to let trusted people in when we need support. The song is catchy and relates well with the topic!

    Reply
    1. Pooja G Avatar
      Pooja G

      Thanks so much. Absolutely, sometimes we need to let people in. And glad you enjoyed the song!

      Reply
      1. Steve Avatar
        Steve

        My pleasure!

        Reply
  10. realtlkaj Avatar
    realtlkaj

    Doing things alone gets you places faster but doing them with teamwork gets you farther. 💯

    Reply
    1. Pooja G Avatar
      Pooja G

      Yes, that’s exactly it.

      Reply
  11. Michele Lee Avatar
    Michele Lee

    Glitchy, yes. Little hiccups here and there. Relevant quote you’ve shared, Pooja. 🌻

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    1. Pooja G Avatar
      Pooja G

      Thanks so much 😊

      Reply
      1. Michele Lee Avatar
        Michele Lee

        Welcome so much. 🌻😊

        Reply
  12. muktaverma Avatar
    muktaverma

    This is a personal struggle with vulnerability and a reliance on independence while acknowledging the importance of reaching out for support.

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    1. Pooja G Avatar
      Pooja G

      It’s definitely a struggle.

      Reply
  13. Carol anne Avatar
    Carol anne

    I’ve been lucky not running into glitches with WP! I hope it stays that way too!

    Reply
    1. Pooja G Avatar
      Pooja G

      That’s great, hope so too these glitches are annoying so hope you never have to experience them!

      Reply
  14. clcouch123 Avatar
    clcouch123

    So far, I haven’t experienced this glitch except generally–which is to say I have problems selecting “like” on certain sites from Canada. Now what’s that all about? The quotations is right for me as well. Especially when facing physical challenges, heart health and such, I tend not to ask for help because I do like to do things on my own and also I don’t like to bother people. I get grief for these attitudes. Maybe you do, too. My week has been all right so far. Today I worked on expectations, meaning my own regarding how to handle Christmas for a few friends and family. I’m too poor to do much more, and I’m juggling dollars as it is. Sigh. Well, I hope your adventures large and small this week all go successfully.

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    1. Pooja G Avatar
      Pooja G

      Yeah, I have the same issue. I don’t want to bother others with my problems but sometimes friends message me when I don’t reach out and tell me I should. I hope you have a good Christmas regardless. I know money is an issue for many. Even here in Kenya things have gotten so expensive in the last two years.

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      1. clcouch123 Avatar
        clcouch123

        I’m sorry to hear about costs rising in Kenya. (Ouch.) Here I am astounded simply going to the grocery store. It’s probably mentally healthier if I don’t consider how much things used to cost. I hope you have a terrific Christmastime.

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        1. Pooja G Avatar
          Pooja G

          It’s not your fault, it’s hard not to think of how much things used to cost because they’re so much higher in cost now. But, it is what it is. Thanks so much. Have a great one too.

          Reply
  15. J M Negi Avatar
    J M Negi

    True indeed, thanks.

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    1. Pooja G Avatar
      Pooja G

      Thanks so much.

      Reply
  16. drpoonamchaubey Avatar
    drpoonamchaubey

    Healing is a slow process so help is never a bad idea!

    Reply
    1. Pooja G Avatar
      Pooja G

      Absolutely, sometimes help is necessary!

      Reply
  17. singlikewildflowers Avatar
    singlikewildflowers

    Thank goodness you encountered a helpful and responsive Happiness Engineer! Makes all the difference in your blogging experience.
    It’s hard to reach out and ask for help when you’re hurting! But I’ve noticed that the people who care about you want to listen and they care. Something I struggle with too. I wonder that if I share my inner struggles with others that I’m becoming a burden to them. Good and thoughtful friends and even strangers surprise me with their kindness!

    Reply
    1. Pooja G Avatar
      Pooja G

      Yeah, it helped that the HE was so helpful.
      It’s definitely a struggle but I think sometimes we need to let others in and it honestly just helps to talk to someone. True, so many are kindness.

      Reply
  18. Sadje Avatar
    Sadje

    Doing it alone may be satisfying but when needed one should ask for help.

    Reply
    1. Pooja G Avatar
      Pooja G

      I absolutely agree, when necessary we should ask for help. Even just talking can help unburden you a bit.

      Reply
      1. Sadje Avatar
        Sadje

        Indeed, it’s a load shared, a load halved.

        Reply
  19. Opher Avatar
    Opher

    Life’s a glitch. We all need our happiness engineers!

    Reply
    1. Pooja G Avatar
      Pooja G

      Lol, agreed!

      Reply
  20. Stella Reddy Avatar
    Stella Reddy

    Good Morning Pooja… I can appreciate how that glitch would get on your nerves and I am sorry it keeps happening to you and others. I hope it is a permenant fix now! I also hope you are all better from the cold you had!

    I use to be very independent but thru therapy after my breakdown I had in 2018, I learned that being vulnerable makes you stronger and your relationships with others, stronger. I learned how to open up and be authentic.

    Allowing yourself to be fully seen, warts and all, also gives you peace as you no longer have to hide away who you really are and what you think. There is freedom in that.

    Learning to be vulnerable leads to personal growth as over time you gain a better understnding of yourself and your emotions which in turn leads to others also understanding you better. This in turn brings you closer together. I found it to be a benefit instead of a curse… lol

    Wishing you a fantastic day!

    Have you read any of Brene Brown’s writings? I found her books a few years ago, which helped me understand vulneraility better. It takes courage to start but once I did, I felt better for it.

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    1. Pooja G Avatar
      Pooja G

      Thanks so much. I very much hope so. These glitches are quite annoying.

      Therapy is helping me a lot too. It helps me practice being more open and vulnerable. I hope to reach that point one day where I can be totally me.

      Have a fantastic day too! I’ve heard to Brent Brown but not read any of her books. I’ll check them out though, thanks for the recommendations.

      Reply
  21. Bookstooge Avatar
    Bookstooge

    They ARE breaking things at a much more rapid pace than they used to. I have a year left on my plan and I’ll be using that time to look into other options. Stability means a lot and wp no longer supplies that.

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    1. Pooja G Avatar
      Pooja G

      Yes, it’s becoming a serious issue. Like things are glitching every other day. Look into self-hosting. It’s a little more work but more stable. And at least you don’t lose your followers and comments.

      Reply
      1. Bookstooge Avatar
        Bookstooge

        I’m checking out going w a static site via html. It is a lot of work, but would be stable. I’m just concerned about the comments section…

        Reply
        1. Pooja G Avatar
          Pooja G

          Yeah, make sure you don’t lose your comments because that happens sometimes.

          Reply
  22. Clurichaun Avatar
    Clurichaun

    I have not experienced the glitch, as it has been some time between posts. Writing is troublesome again which has led to the book release being delayed again.

    Reply
    1. Pooja G Avatar
      Pooja G

      Sorry to hear that but I understand. Hope everything goes well with the book when you’re able to release it.

      Reply
      1. Clurichaun Avatar
        Clurichaun

        Thank you, good lady. Are you feeling better?

        Reply
        1. Pooja G Avatar
          Pooja G

          You’re very welcome. Yeah, I’m okay now except my cough which is taking a while to leave.

          Reply
          1. Clurichaun Avatar
            Clurichaun

            I’m glad to hear that. I hope the cough clears up soon.

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            1. Pooja G Avatar
              Pooja G

              I hope so too, it’s a little annoying lol.

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              1. Clurichaun Avatar
                Clurichaun

                I know that’s right, lol.

                Reply
  23. Manoj Mehra Avatar
    Manoj Mehra

    What I have learnt from my experience in life is that unless someone is very close to you, you shouldn’t share your feelings and private things because people use these things against you when you no longer have a good relationship with them.

    As far as the like button glitch is concerned, this glitch is very old and hasn’t been fixed yet.

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    1. Pooja G Avatar
      Pooja G

      Yeah, being open means leaving room for someone to hurt you which sucks. And many people do end up hurting you.

      Reply
  24. 🌍 Thoughts and personal and comprehensive development. Avatar
    🌍 Thoughts and personal and comprehensive development.

    Nice Post 💙💚❤️

    Blessed and Happy day from Spain 🇪🇦

    Greetings 👋

    I

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    1. Pooja G Avatar
      Pooja G

      Thanks so much 😊

      Reply
  25. Eugi Avatar
    Eugi

    The WP glitches are frustrating. Some blogs I can comment on and others I can’t. Yet, yesterday, I could comment on the blogs I can’t comment on today.

    I like to figure things out myself before I ask for help. Sometimes it works for me and sometimes not. I am the opposite of vulnerable and probably over skeptical.

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    1. Pooja G Avatar
      Pooja G

      That’s so annoying. The glitches are becoming more frequent which is what is difficult.

      I’m a skeptical person too and rarely ask for help unless it’s the last option.

      Reply
  26. Belladonna Avatar
    Belladonna

    I know the feeling! Great quote

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    1. Pooja G Avatar
      Pooja G

      Thanks so much!

      Reply
  27. Destiny Avatar
    Destiny

    a great quote shared, Pooja

    to WP issues… 🙄

    🤍✨

    Reply
    1. Pooja G Avatar
      Pooja G

      Thanks so much. Lol yeah, the issues never end on WP 😢

      Reply
      1. Destiny Avatar
        Destiny

        most welcome 🌹

        Reply
  28. sigmablu1914 Avatar
    sigmablu1914

    Thank you and you insight is always so enlightening to me 🙏🏾

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    1. Pooja G Avatar
      Pooja G

      Thanks so much 😊

      Reply
  29. Vanya Wryter Consulting Avatar
    Vanya Wryter Consulting

    Glitches are frustrating.

    Reply
    1. Pooja G Avatar
      Pooja G

      They are and what’s most frustrating is how frequently this happens.

      Reply
  30. Chiru Avatar
    Chiru

    Great post and yes most of the times we don’t let even our closed ones to understand us.. it becomes hard and slow over the time then..

    Reply
    1. Pooja G Avatar
      Pooja G

      Yes, that’s so true. I think so too.

      Reply
  31. Baydreamer - Lauren Scott Avatar
    Baydreamer – Lauren Scott

    I’ve had a few issues with WP too and it seems to be going around, Pooja. 🙂 The quote is great, and it’s always good to ask for help and not feel like you’re all alone with your emotions. 💞

    Reply
    1. Pooja G Avatar
      Pooja G

      Yeah glitches are common on WP. I agree, we should ask for help when needed 💓

      Reply
  32. Joseph Glidden Avatar
    Joseph Glidden

    The comments section and like button not working has happened before, but usually I just refresh the browser and it works.

    Nice quote.

    Reply
    1. Pooja G Avatar
      Pooja G

      Yeah, this was a more major glitch and took a few hours to fix. Luckily it’s okay now. Thanks.

      Reply
  33. Cindy Georgakas Avatar
    Cindy Georgakas

    Oh Please, can’t you do all mind too,, lol 💕

    Reply
    1. Pooja G Avatar
      Pooja G

      Lolll 😅

      Reply
      1. Cindy Georgakas Avatar
        Cindy Georgakas

        ❤️😜

        Reply
  34. Janice Reid Avatar
    Janice Reid

    Great quote!! We can’t do life alone!

    Reply
    1. Pooja G Avatar
      Pooja G

      Exactly, we need others too!

      Reply
  35. A & J PEI Treasures/E Jean Simpson, BEd, BA, MA Avatar
    A & J PEI Treasures/E Jean Simpson, BEd, BA, MA

    Great quote!

    Reply
    1. Pooja G Avatar
      Pooja G

      Glad you enjoyed it!

      Reply
  36. TCKlaire Avatar
    TCKlaire

    I’ve learned this year that if someone pushes you away because they aren’t ready to let you in, it’s important to respect that too

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    1. Pooja G Avatar
      Pooja G

      Absolutely, it’s important to respect boundaries.

      Reply

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