Interview With Jessica Ciencin Henriquez

Today, I wanted to share my interview with Jessica Ciencin Henriquez. She will be releasing her poetry collection called Burn After Reading on the 25th and was kind enough to talk to me about how the book came about, what inspires her to write and much more. I hope you enjoy the interview. I hope to share my full review next week but for now I hope you enjoy this interview. And that it piques your interest in the book!

Interview With Jessica Ciencin Henriquez

Interview With Jessica Ciencin Henriquez

1. Could you please tell the readers a little bit about your book, Burn After Reading?

Burn After Reading is a collection of poems about love and loss, motherhood and identity, grief and the parts of ourselves we bury to survive. It’s about learning how to hold contradictions—how we can be both heartbroken and healing, both fragile and fierce, both lost and finding our way. These poems are raw and personal, written in the quiet moments. Burn After Reading is a book for anyone who has ever felt like they had to walk through fire to get to the other side.

2. The poetry collection is so personal and intimate, what gives you the courage to share your innermost thoughts and experiences in this way?

I’ve been writing for a long time and I never think of fear when I write about things that are this intimate or this personal. Fear exists when you’re thinking of judgment or someone misunderstanding you. When I’m in the writing process, I don’t think about the millions of people who may read this book—I think about the one reader I want to connect with.  I write for the person who needs these words. In this way, the writing feels more like an offering. I also believe that when we’re honest about our own experiences, we make space for others to feel seen in theirs. That’s the only reason I share what I do: because maybe, somewhere, someone is reading and thinking, Oh. Me too. 

3. Do you have a favourite poem from the collection?

My favorite poems in this collection (and they’ll likely change as time goes on) are the ones about my son. He actually reads them in the audiobook which was such a beautiful gift! He’s growing so fast, and anything that puts a timestamp on our life together feels like a tiny act of preservation. Why Not and One Answer are two that I hold especially close for that reason.

And then there’s Ours—a poem about losing a partner I loved. That one still moves me, even after reading it a hundred times. I can’t read it without getting emotional because I land right back in the time when we love one another so much. That’s the power of poetry, it turns you into a time traveler. 

4. Your poem, No Mistakes, explores the negative relationship so many women have with their bodies. It’s one of the poems that really stood out to me. How do you combat your insecurities and what advice would you give others that may be struggling with theirs?  

I have so much compassion for women who look in the mirror and can’t see the beauty that exists. We live in a world that is constantly signaling to us that we are not enough that there is something wrong with us. I don’t buy it. I don’t let that message penetrate. For that reason, I don’t have any insecurities around my body, and I know that’s a wild thing to say. But the truth is, I stopped measuring beauty the way the rest of the world does. I think wrinkles are beautiful. I think cellulite, bumps, scars, and greys are evidence of a life lived. They create a map of our existence, and I refuse to call that ugly just because some beauty brand or influencer wants to sell me something.

I honor my body. I respect it. And I am constantly reminded of how strong it is, how much it has supported me. And I think when you change your reference for beauty—when you stop looking at yourself through the lens of an industry built to make you feel not enough—you start to see everything differently. Not just yourself, but the whole world.

5. What made you want to be a writer and what advice would you give to other writers out there hoping to share their writing as you’ve shared yours?

I became a writer because I had no choice. This was my blueprint—writing is the gift I came into this world to share. I’m lucky enough to have known that from a young age. So often people don’t know what their blueprint is and I suggest that they’ll know it once they find it—it is the thing that allows you to breathe, that allows time to expand and contract without any care. That’s always been writing for me. It feeds me, and in turn, I use it to feed others.

My advice to other writers? Move out of the way and let the words come through you, not from you. Stop waiting for permission. Stop worrying about whether your work is good enough. Stop shaping it into what you think people want to hear. Write what is true. Write what makes your heart race. Write the things you are afraid to say out loud. And then, if you can, be brave enough to share them—because someone, somewhere, is waiting for the words only you can offer.


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58 responses to “Interview With Jessica Ciencin Henriquez”

  1. PJ, your dedication to crafting a platform for thought-provoking interviews shines through! We truly value the professional insights you’ve integrated to enhance the experience. Keep up the amazing work!

    1. Thank you so much, I’m so glad you enjoyed the interview!

  2. Wise words. Great interview, Pooja!

    1. Thank you, glad you enjoyed it!

  3. Great interview.

  4. Beautiful words, and interview. Definitely learned about the writer/author. I love the title and topics is covers.

    1. Thanks so much, I also really liked the unique name for the book and the story behind it.

  5. Nice share, thank you

    1. Thanks so much.

  6. 🙏🌹🕉

    Aum Shanti

    1. 🫴🫴🫳🙇

  7. Great Interview Dear Pooja
    Particularly Like the Parts
    About Reaching One Person

    Even Only Ourselves Enough

    And Just Allowing
    The Words to

    Flow Through

    Us What i Love
    to Call a Song
    of Our Soul

    Hehe or ‘Self’
    As ‘Whitman

    Once Described
    Back in the Day When
    Freedom of Expression was so muted
    Yet one of many Pioneers to Move Us
    Forward

    And
    Freer
    With SMiLes

    “Body Electric” True
    i Surely Celebrate the
    Within and the Outside too

    Naked Enough Whole Complete
    As
    Usual..:)

    1. Thank you so much. Yes, it’s wonderful that so many fought for freedom of expression and continue to do so.

      1. So Wonderful
        Indeed☺️

  8. It is a very interesting and thought provoking interview. Great questions and great answers.

    1. Thanks so much, I’m really glad you enjoyed it.

  9. Tells it like it is! I like that!!

  10. I love her perspective on her gift. Thank you for sharing this interview, Pooja.

    1. Thank you, so glad you enjoyed her answers.

      1. You’re welcome, Pooja.

  11. I LIKE these interviews. I know I say that every time, but really, it feels like you are opening up whole new worlds by introducing us to bloggers who we might have never run across on our own.
    Thanks for that Pooja! 🙂

    1. Thanks so much. It’s also really great for me to meet new people and connect, it’s a lot of fun to and everyone has their own story to tell 😀

  12. What a great interview! I love how she said “let the words come through you, not from you,” so important! 😊

    1. Thanks so much! Yes, I so agree with her on that 💕

  13. I love the questions and answers, #5 especially! 💞💞💞

    1. Thank you, I really strongly agreed with her answer on that question too! 💕

  14. “And then, if you can, be brave enough to share them—because someone, somewhere, is waiting for the words only you can offer.”
    This is so true. Poets will often write words that others cannot. When I made the decision to publish my poetry, I hoped that it could help others as much as it helped me.

    1. Yes, she was so right about that. And I very much agree, poets express the thoughts and feelings that not everyone else can effectively.

  15. Great interview, questions and answers

    1. Thank you so much, I’m so glad you enjoyed it.

  16. Very good interview. She has a strong and inspiring voice.

    1. Thank you. Yes, she does and I was so happy she took the time to answer each question so honestly.

  17. I really enjoyed your interview with Jessica. She has a lot of solid advice to people, and I like how she says she’s writing for that one reader she wants to connect with.

    1. I’m so glad to hear you enjoyed the interview. Yes, I think her advice is excellent and what she said about writing was something so many of us writers can relate to.

  18. This is an interesting interview, Pooja.

    1. Thank you, glad you enjoyed it.

  19. Holy freaking crap she is super inspiring! WOW! This is beautiful stuff right here! ❤️

  20. Terrific writing and interesting article, thank you

    1. Glad you enjoyed it, thanks.

  21. Answer to question number two was beautiful ❤️

    1. Yes, she answered very well 👏

  22. A great Interview Beautiful

    1. Thanks so much, glad you enjoyed it.

  23. This is such a deep and thought provoking interview PJ. I really enjoyed reading this. Especially the 5th question about why she writes. It’s so beautiful and made me question myself as well.

    1. Thanks so much, I’m really glad you enjoyed the interview. I think she answered the questions exceptionally well too.

  24. This interview is so profound. I love the way straight to the point she is. We always know what to do. Deep down, we have everything we need to become whoever we want. Also, about self view among not only women but society as a whole is much affected by the media. We always need to have that balance, but what we see and hear versus what we know ain’t true. I’m in a position in my life where I have to review and relearn a lot of things, both about myself and the world around me.

    1. I’m so glad you enjoyed it. Yes, she answered so well, I enjoyed them very much. I think the learning really never stops.

  25. Wise Words 💯🧡

    1. Yes, she answered very wisely 😊

  26. I very much enjoyed your interview, such wonderful Q & A’s! 😀

    1. Thanks, so glad you did. She did a fantastic job with the answers too!

  27. […] Burn After Reading by Jessica Ciencin Henriquez was very well written. If you’ve read my interview with Jessica Ciencin Henriquez that I shared a couple of days ago, you know that she is well spoken. Her answers were precise, […]

  28. Stephanie (singing gecko) Avatar
    Stephanie (singing gecko)

    Brilliant interview, Pooja! Very nicely done, and I love what she says about fear. Love the strength that came through this, and your well targeted questions!

    1. Thank you, so glad you enjoyed the interview and yes her answers were great too. I’m grateful she was so honest and intelligent with them!

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