Goodbye September, Hello October

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Goodbye September. It’s officially nearing the end of September. Well, by the time you read this it will actually be October in my time zone but some of you may have a few hours of September left. To be honest, I’m very read to say goodbye to September. I’m ready to say goodbye to 2025. It’s been a particularly difficult year for me. I’ve learnt many things about myself and those around me. I’ve seen who has really supported me through tough times and those that have back away or made my life more difficult as soon as I set boundaries.

This month has especially been difficult, I talked about that in my last post so I won’t repeat myself.

But truthfully, it’s not been all bad. And I don’t want to only fixate on the bad. Lots of great things have happened this year too. I feel like my mental health is doing much better, I’m finally learning to put myself first and set boundaries for probably the first time. I’ve done more reading and art rather than just staring at a screen all day. And I’ve made a lot of happy memories with friends and family.

For October, all I really want is a little bit of peace and quiet.

What are your plans for October? Do you have anything you’re looking forward to this month? Let me know in the comments section below because I would absolutely love to hear from you. Or simply stop by and say hi!

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114 responses to “Goodbye September, Hello October”

  1. Welcome October, a new month and continued progress

  2. Hi my friend…. I so wish you have a better October than September.

    1. Thanks so much, wishing you a lovely October too.

  3. I have all three of my “Garratyverse” books being produced into audiobooks; “Reunion: A Story” is well underway and it MIGHT be ready for a November-December release. “Reunion: Coda” and “Comings and Goings” are also in-progress, although I believe only one of them will be out by the end of the year.

    1. That’s so exciting, wishing you the best with the audiobooks!

      1. It’s been definitely an eye-opening, er…aurally exciting…experience.

  4. I hope October is a good month for you. I plan to take a short holiday/ trip with my husband next week. Looking forward to it. Besides it is my husband’s birthday on 3rd and my Son’s birthday on 7th.

    1. Thanks so much. That’s nice, hope you have a lovely trip and both birthdays go very well.

      1. Thank you dear friend.

        1. You’re very welcome.

          1. 🙏🏼♥️🧡

  5. Keep your borders set in place, Pooja. It’s still September here at 5;15PM Pacific.

    1. Thanks, will do. Hope you had a nice end of September!

      1. Yes indeed!

  6. I guess this year seems to have gone by like a freight train and soon we will be facing the Christmas shopping circus trying to find things we can afford to buy 🙂

    1. Yes, it’s really moved so fast. It’ll be over in the blink of an eye 🙂

  7. I hope and pray that your October is awesome.

    1. Thanks so much, have a great October too.

  8. Hi Pooj, you are not alone. Tough times will not last forever. Stay strong and keep evolving!
    The month of October is very busy for me, we are flying to Tbilisi to see my family, it’s super stressful for all parties involved. But good news is everyone is alive ( thank God ) and well. My sister survived a crocodile attack while being pregnant, and my brother is still kicking. Some days are rainy but the sun will come out. Wait and see

    1. Thanks so much! That does sound like a lot but glad your family is well and hope you have a wonderful time with them.

      1. I hope so too. But we shall see

  9. I’ll be building out my cabin in the woods. Perhaps my final destination. Who knows? I’ll keep you posted.🙂👍hang in there.

    1. Oh wow, looking forward to reading all about that. A cabin the woods sounds perfect right now 🙂

  10. all the best for October, Pooja di!
    for me it’s going to be (hopefully) another month of peace and reading and studying 🙃

    1. Thank you so much and have an awesome October too!

  11. We still have September here in Texas but in Washington DC it is already October and the government just shut down. I was planning to organize a zoom meeting with Senator Ted Cruz office to discuss climate related legislation. Despite that not being his cup of tea they’ve always granted us meetings before but with a government shutdown I can forget about it. However, we just became grandparents to a little baby. Our son and his wife and baby lives in Baltimore. We are planning to go visit them but with a government shutdown flying may not be a good idea. Driving seems far but we’ll figure it out. But at least Oktoberfest is not shut down so I’ll have a few beers.

    1. Oh no, why did the government shut down? I’ve been too busy to check the news so I have no idea what’s happening in the world to be honest. Yeah, many visit when things calm down more. Enjoy some beers and stay safe till then.

  12. This is such a heartfelt and honest reflection. Thank you for sharing a piece of your journey—it takes real strength to acknowledge a difficult season while also consciously choosing to spotlight the good that grew within it.

    Your progress is truly inspiring. To be learning to set boundaries, to prioritize your mental health, and to find joy in reading, art, and loved ones… these aren’t small things. They are profound victories. It’s clear you’ve been doing the deep, often unseen work of healing, and that deserves so much credit.

    Wishing you a October filled with exactly what you’re seeking: deep, restorative peace and quiet. May this new month be a gentle, soft chapter for you.

    As for me, I’m looking forward to the crisp autumn air and the quiet inspiration it brings. Thanks again for the lovely invitation to connect—sending you kindness and calm for the weeks ahead.

    1. Thank you so much. Yes, it’s been difficult but I’ve tried to put in the work and be a better version of myself this year.

      Have a lovely autumn, enjoy the cooler weather.

  13. 🙏🌹☯️

    Aum Shanti

  14. 🌸 “Wishing you a beautiful October filled with peace, gentle joys, and little victories each day. You’ve shown such strength and honesty in your reflections—it’s truly inspiring. May this month bring you rest, renewal, and unexpected moments of happiness.”

    1. Thank you so much, hope you have an amazing October too 💕

  15. SMiLes Dear Pooja Glad to See the Positives
    In Your Life Manifesting in Greater Well Being
    Wishing You Quiet Peace For October and

    Hehe We aRe All Looking Forward to
    Respite From Fall Summer Heat

    As Fall May Come to Visit
    And Stay For a While
    Hopefully Soon for

    A Cool Change

    Next

    A Cool Change
    How Wonderful the
    Gift of Change Will Break
    Through Worthy of a Darker Season too

    With
    SMiLEs..:)

    1. Thank you so much, enjoy fall!

      1. Thanks! It is finally getting
        A Bit Cooler At Night☺️🙌

  16. I am glad to hear you made some happy memories. I am looking forward to wrapping up my outside house maintenance and getting back to creative fun.

    1. Thank you so much. Ooh nice, hopefully you can do that soon.

  17. A new month and a new framing to start October with Pooja! I love it! Today is “Narnia’s” birthday and you gotta love that we’re heading to the pumpkin patch on her 42 birthday.
    If you find peace and quiet, send it over… I want some too. 😝

    1. So fun, hope she had a lovely bday with the family! Haha will definitely share some peace and quiet if I ever find it 😅

      1. It was crazy chaotic fun with juju scared of the fire and show, Renee and Sienna having a ball! Thanks! Ditto on finding it!😝

        1. You’re so welcome and sounds like a blast!

          1. Great memories for sure!!!
            💗

  18. Glad you are focusing on the positive. It can really make a difference to do so. Here’s to a good October 🙂

    1. Thank you so much, absolutely I’ve noticed that mindset makes a huge difference. Hope you have a great October 🙂

      1. It is going well so far 🙂

  19. I’m just going to continue to do what makes me happy and try avoid negative people and situations. Try to enjoy life if possible. Tomorrow isn’t promised. ❤️✌️

    1. That’s awesome and honestly the best way to live. ❤️

  20. Will buy your book electronically on Kindle. Will make more reference to you in my public journal in this blogosphere…

    1. Thank you so much, I truly appreciate your support so much.

      1. Back at cha 🙏

    2. What a way to support her… Thank you

      1. Thanks too. Please read my blog. I’d love to share where I am stepping out of.

  21. I’m glad your mental health is better, Pooja, and you’re focusing on yourself more. I hope this October is filled with positive things for you, and many congrats on the book being published!!💐😊

    1. Thank you so much! Have a lovely October too 😊💕

  22. A & J PEI Treasures/E Jean Simpson, BEd, BA, MA Avatar
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    Glad that your mental health is improved.

    1. Thank you so much.

  23. Happy October – I wish you a month of peace and quiet! And the same for the rest of 2025…

    1. Thank you so much, wishing you a great October and rest of 2025 too 🙂

  24. Wishing you a wonderful October, Pooja. October is my favorite month of the year, and even though the ongoing saga with the building where we live continues, I’m going to make the best of it. 🎃🧡

    1. Thank you so much, wishing you the same. October is such a beautiful month. Sorry to hear about the building issue but hopefully you’ll still have a good month 🍁🧡

      1. You’re welcome, Pooja. It’s finally fixed! Yay! 😃

        1. Oh yay, that’s great!

  25. I love fall! What I really like is partaking in all of the seasons! Thanks!

    1. Thank you and yeah every season has something to love about it!

  26. Here’s to peace and quiet in October! Wishing you the best, Pooja!

    1. Thank you so much! Have a great October too!

  27. Happy New Year, 2026 is just around the corner!

    1. That’s true, this year has flown by!

  28. Doing good Pooj!
    Looks like Summer’s over – here’s to next Summer!!

    1. It’ll be here before you know it!

  29. Peace and happiness to you, dear Pooja.

    1. Thank you so much. Have a great October.

  30. “I’ve learnt many things about myself and those around me. I’ve seen who has really supported me through tough times and those that have back away or made my life more difficult as soon as I set boundaries.”

    It sounds like this is a tough transition time. Setting boundaries with people who don’t respect us and then needing to follow through is hard. (“When you say or do thus-and-such, I cannot be around you. If you choose to speak kindly and respectfully to me, I will reconsider spending time with you.”)

    When we do the work to become mentally, emotionally and physically healthier, there will be some lost relationships, unfortunately not everyone likes the new 2.0 version of us.

    I encourage you to keep walking this path. Your mental health is far more important than anything. As you become stronger and well-practiced with these new skills, your demeanor will change and will in turn attract other who choose to live the same way.

    1. Yes, that’s definitely the case and those transitional periods are usually quite difficult as so much changes. I agree, not everyone likes us with boundaries and self-compassion but those that truly love us will do so regardless. Thank you so much.

  31. My, peace and quiet. Sounds great. I hope you have it (them).

    1. Thank you so much, so far so good. Have a lovely October!

  32. Wishing you all that you desire for your October and beyond, dear Pooja. 💗

    1. Thank you so much, I hope everything is going well with JBB 💗

      1. You’re so welcome and lovely to hear from you. All is moving forward. Thank you! 💗

        1. Happy to hear that and you’re so welcome! 💗

  33. She’s laying down those boundaries! Giving them that Lifesfinewhine wink and saying, you see that line right there? Nice try! But you can’t cross this! Sorry! But not sorry! 😉 Lol.

    1. Haha yes exactly! 😅

  34. Happy October. I hope this is a 10/10 month for you

    1. Thank you so much. Hope you have a great October too.

  35. Glad to see you are back. Wish you all success the coming days👍👍👍

    1. Thank you so much 🙏

  36. I hope October brings more of the good things as you say farewell to the less pleasant stuff of September!

    1. Thank you so much, hope so too!

      1. My pleasure!

  37. Happy October <3 … I hope it's chill! Raining here and quiet (as I look over my shoulder in shock) … yeah, been a crazy year! Now not the greatest of times to ask, but have you ever thought of you and your family moving here (selfish reasons … lol)? Here's to the rest of this year going smooth (er)! 😀

    1. Thank you so much, so far so good! It’s raining a lot here too and it’ll continue to be rainy in October which I’m happy about. Haha well, have you thought about moving here?? The weather’s always perfect 😜

      1. I have !!!! 😀 definitely want to visit, you may find this interesting, but Kenya comes up a lot here !!!

        1. I would never have guessed that, very cool that Kenya comes up a lot!

  38. October has always been my rebirth month. Aside from my birthday, it starts the fall, and holiday seasons. Some see these as a big finish, but I see them as as a great beginning to the greatness to come. 🤣😎🙃

    1. That’s wonderful, have an awesome birthday month 😊

  39. Happy october 🍁

    1. Happy October 🙏💕

  40. My grandson turns 1 this month, but besides that, just gearing up for winter and work is getting ready for the holiday season in retail.

    1. Wow, that’s so nice- hope he has a lovely first birthday. And have a great month 💗

  41. Pooja, you didn’t tell us you’re back from the break 🙄

    1. Technically I wasn’t back just ushering in the new month but I’ll be back tomorrow 😊

      1. Can’t wait to have you fully back to blogging 💃💃

        Meanwhile, what’s the name of this your blog theme? I love it… I don’t mind using it on my blog

        1. Thanks so much, it’s called Bitacora.

          1. I thought as much. I once used and liked it.

            But then, I decided to switch to the NEVE theme

            1. Oh I see, that’s a nice theme too. I like the minimalist themes most.

  42. I love this time of year, Pooja, so Happy October to you! 🧡🍁

    1. Happy October to you as well, have a great month! 😊🧡

  43. Here’s to a peaceful, happy October full of books, art, and good vibes 🥮🍂

    1. Thank you so much 😊🍁

  44. Pooja, may the month of October light’s fill your heart with harmony. As for my October, I am more than ready for the autumn season to kick into high gear.

    1. Thank you so much and have a lovely October.

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