Sometimes We Miss What’s Right In Front Of Us

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I didn’t plan on sharing this post today but decided to anyway. For the last few hours, I’ve been thinking about how sometimes we miss what’s right in front of us.

It all started when my mum told me my sugarcane juice was on the table. I looked for it everywhere in the kitchen and couldn’t find it. So, I went back to the table to check again and lo and behold there it was. And there it had been the whole time. Right under my nose. And yet I had missed it the first time I checked.

And that’s how it often is on a larger scale in life too. We miss so much that’s right in front of us. We freak out when things don’t go exactly to plan, when we don’t get something we want. But the truth is, we only get what we’re supposed to at the time we’re supposed to get it. Humans are always in a rush, life is not, the universe is not. Things happen when they’re supposed to, things unfold exactly as they’re supposed to.

It took me the longest time to learn and accept that. To let go of the permanent anxiety in my chest because I was so afraid of change, of things not going according to plan. But once I learnt to accept my destiny, I found myself much more at peace. And I think the juice incident was a good reminder of the lesson.

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74 responses to “Sometimes We Miss What’s Right In Front Of Us”

  1. Amazing lesson in this for every single one of us.

    1. Thanks so much, I think so too.

  2. Awesome lesson we all should learning every day, great analogy

    1. Thanks so much. It’s a lesson that’s hard to learn but worth it.

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    1. So true, reality is different than what we perceive or want it to be. I’m so glad you’re living for yourself now!

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        1. Thank you as well! 😊

  4. Yes, i think you’re right, now that you develop it, about the notion of missing what is there. Your added insight regarding life’s and the universe’s own pacing, regardless of our own, is substantial reasoning. I’ll have to remember that, that we have our own velocity but the cosmos has its own that’s not subservient to ours. And we’d add to our wisdom as well as lack of stress if we embraced what is real. I’m still suffering from trying to breath in my mildewed place while I to to move, but I thought I’d let you know I’m also trying to read (reread) Macus Aurelius. So far, I’m impressed with what regard he has for sponsorship and community in the foundation of his work. I hope it’s not too hot there for you and you’re about to start a fine week.

    1. Thank you so much. Oh that’s so great, Marcus Aurelius has so much wisdom. I’m still rereading Meditations too. It’s hot but not too bad. Hope it’s not too cold there and that you’re able to move soon. That doesn’t sound like a healthy place to live.

  5. We get caught up in our daily life and don’t see what we need to see sometimes…

    1. Yup, exactly. It’s so easy to be too preoccupied with the little stuff that we miss the big picture.

  6. I haven’t tasted sugarcane juice since getting it crushed on the streets at stalls in India.

    1. My mum grew up drinking it in India and still loves it.

  7. Ah, love this. Happens constantly and yet we so easily think we should have our eyes on everything at all times.. finding it embarrassing to make mistakes even when we’re learning new things.

    1. Yes, exactly we get so flustered even though mistakes are a part of life.

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  9. This really hit home for me. Thank you for sharing this.

    I love your juice story. It’s so true. I’ve been there, looking everywhere for something that was right in front of me the whole time. It’s a good reminder to slow down and look properly, in life too. What you said about things happening when they’re supposed to really calmed me. I worry a lot when things don’t go to plan. Reading your words helped me feel less alone and more trusting.

    Also, congratulations on your book! That’s amazing. I’m going to look it up right now.

    Keep writing like this. It helps more than you know.

    1. Thank you so much. Exactly, I feel like most of us have experienced this in one way or another and understanding that life happens regardless of our plans really helps get rid of the anxiety.
      I’m happy to hear that and will do!

  10. That is a great lesson. Thanks for sharing.

    1. Happy to share it, thanks.

  11. I fully agree Pooja. Sometimes what we need is right in front of us and we can’t even see it. It takes us stopping, sometimes being forced to stop, to realize the truth and accept it.

    1. For sure, I’ve had that experience quite a few times.

  12. What’s in front of me right now is a picture of Renee Good

    1. It’s heartbreaking what the world has come to 💔

  13. Wonderful analogy, and very relatable. Sometimes, we have to step back and take in the whole picture.

    1. Thank you so much, yes exactly.

      1. You’re welcome, Pooja.

  14. Good reminder!

  15. “Life moves fast. If you don’t slow down once in a while, you’re going to miss it.” Ferris Bueler. 🤣😎🙃

    1. Yup, he was absolutely right!

  16. Great post, thank you for sharing! ❤️

    1. Thank you so much! ❤️

  17. A & J PEI Treasures/E Jean Simpson, BEd, BA, MA Avatar
    A & J PEI Treasures/E Jean Simpson, BEd, BA, MA

    Very true. Great post.

    1. Thanks so much.

  18. We can’t just see everything at once, that’s the truth

    1. Yes, exactly. Sometimes we miss the big picture.

  19. the rule generally is simple and is just hard to learn the rule. There where days when I was working and spent hours on a technical issue, the minute I walked away, generally driving home I would get that “oh shit ” moment and true enough that was it. Slower is faster.

    1. Yeah, for sure. I think sometimes we need to slow down and calm down before we can truly see the whole picture. Anxiety and stress distorts everything.

  20. this happened today in the kitchen and i remembered this post and started laughing at myself.🤭 It is truly applicable to lot of things in our lives🥰

    1. Haha yes, I think it’s such a human experience 😅

  21. When things don’t happen the way I want it to or expected it to, I remind myself that there’s a bigger picture I’m not seeing right now so I need to trust that everything is happening and working out for the best. Of course it’s easier said than done but the perspective helps.

    1. Reminding ourselves that truly does make a difference.

  22. Accepting life as it is and letting go of things that no longer sustain us is a life long goal. My sugarcane juice is there and yet I somehow overlook it.
    Fear of change may be one of the reasons, while the lack of fear is another possibile one. I want to be happy by finding the golden mean, the pot of gold and the answer to the main question of life: what are we going to eat today?

    1. I have to continuously remind myself of it as well, us humans have a tendency to freak out about everything lol.
      You know, I think I ask myself that question more than anything. And oftentimes the answer has to do with fries…

      1. I’m totally freaking out about all the travel to be done in the next couple of months. But I will be fine, I know …
        Garlic fries is my go to, I can’t say no to those

        1. Garlic fries are always so good.
          Don’t worry, you will definitely get through it even though it seems stressful right now.

          1. I’m sure I will. Every day offers a lesson at how to be more resilient

  23. It’s funny how everyday things make us think about deeper issues in our lives. Good example!

    1. It really is, thank you!

      1. My pleasure!

  24. A huge turning point in my thinking came when I realized that the universe/God/my angels all love me, they have my back and are working everything out for the best. This allowed me to release all the years of worrying and trying to figure things out beforehand. Now I can allow the flow to happen, knowing I’m exactly where I’m supposed to be. If it isn’t where I want to be, then I’ve learned that I need to ask myself, “who do I need to be or what do I need to learn in order for things to move forward?” When I’m honest with myself, I see the lesson, and what I need to learn.

    Bravo to you for learning this lesson!

    1. YESSS! I keep reminding myself that too, there’s a plan for us and no matter how much we think we’re in charge that’s not the case. And that’s a good thing. We may not understand now but in the future we’ll look back and realise what felt like problems actually pushed us in the right direction and taught us so much.
      Thank you!

  25. Willie Torres Jr. Avatar
    Willie Torres Jr.

    So true … Sometimes what we need is right in front of us. Peace comes when we trust the timing.

    1. Yes, exactly. We just have to trust that there’s a reason for everything.

  26. Very wise, Pooja. I love, “Humans are always in a rush, life is not, the universe is not. ” Right!

    1. Thanks so much.

  27. My mama used to say “there is a time for everything under the Sun”, for me it means to go with the flow. Life does not flow upstream and when we try to make it go upstream, we struggle. This lovely writing is a good reminder, thank you Pooja.

    1. That’s absolutely true. When we scream and kick it really makes no difference except making our own experience more difficult. Thank you so much.

      1. Always a pleasure

  28. Great post. Sometimes it’s in the last place we look.

    1. Thank you and yes that happens so often.

  29. You’re absolutely right- not n only the sugarcane juice but everything else too comes at the right time.

    1. Yes, I think we only see things when we’re meant to.

      1. Oh yes, I agree with you 100 💯 %

  30. So very much truth in this piece, well said, Pooja! 💞

    1. Thank you so much! 💗

  31. That’s a great observation, Pooja. Usually, we figure out what is lost when it’s gone.

    1. Yes, exactly. Thanks so much.

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