The Cult Experience- Why Do People Join Cults?

Why do people join cults? And why is it that we consciously or unconsciously associate ourselves with certain groups while mocking or distancing ourselves from others? Nerds, geeks, jocks, we all somehow belong to a group or stereo type. But why are cults associated with negativity whereas joining a political or religious group would be perfectly normal? More importantly why or what drives someone to join a cult even though they know the aftermath could be catastrophic?

What Are Cults?

A cult is a group with a strong social identity that tends to be exclusive in nature led by a charismatic leader. Along the way there have been some very dangerous, violent and just plain creepy cults such as Branch Davidian whose behaviour was clearly extreme.

When we see members of cults we see them as creeps or freaks, however, what we don’t understand is that they too were perfectly “normal” once but have now been “brainwashed” into believing that only what their leader believes is true and that anyone who is not part of the cult is a potential threat.

Why People Join Cults

One of the reasons why people join cults could be to find a place where they belong. Most people if not all tend to need to feel like they are a part of something. A place with people they can identify with. That would actually explain why cult members have such strong bonds towards their in-group (the group they belong to) while having such negative feelings towards their out-group (a related group they do not belong to).

Cult leaders typically tend to be charismatic and capable of coercive persuasion. This encourages strong in-group identification. Furthermore, according to obedience, we follow orders from an authority figure so even in a cult, cult members are more likely to blindly follow their leaders even if it means committing atrocities.

Another reason why people join cults could be due to dependency (the wish to be taken care of- to find a home, a parent). Teenagers and adults are not expected to usually behave this way but rather are expected to be autonomous. This covert dependency- the wish to have parents and the parallel wish to be admired, loved and sheltered by ones group- continues throughout life in everyone. This fantasy or dream can transform into a wise, strong and protective parent with whom we feel secure.

Your Thoughts

Have you ever been in a cult? Why do you think people join cults? What is the weirdest cult you’ve ever heard about or been in? Leave a comment below telling us what you think!


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56 responses to “The Cult Experience- Why Do People Join Cults?”

  1. This is very interesting. Question: can Foxfire be considered a cult? f yes, does that mean we formed a cult once?

    1. Well technically yes to both

  2. Awesome blog. I think many people join a cult bcos they get a sense of belonging..

    1. Ya that’s one of the reasons

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  4. This is fascinating! No- I’ve never been in a cult- the closest I’ve ever come is reading a book called Divine Madness (part of a series called Cherub)- have you ever heard of it? It’s a more fun and more realistic version of Alex Rider

    1. Thank you! No I have never read it but I loved the Alex Rider series so I’ll definitely check it out!

      1. Yeah it’s a fun series- there’s some really cool bits cos it deals with things that are more true to life like drugs and cults (rather than some crazy guy that’s just out to destroy the world)

        1. Ooh that sounds really interesting! I will definitely read them

          1. Awesome- let me know if you do- I’d like to know what you think

            1. Yes I will definitely let you know!

  5. Have never even considered it.

    1. That’s really good it means you have a strong sense of who you are and you’re not easily deterred.

  6. Reblogged this on By the Mighty Mumford and commented:
    BEEN HERE AND WAS INVITED TO DO THAT. THANKFULLY DIDIN’T! VERY WISE, OH NEW POSGT PRODUCER! 🙂

    1. Haha thanks!

  7. Any belief system satisfies the desire of the ego to regard its self as superior
    Racism, sexism, elitism, relegiosity, all make the individual feel superior
    Others that support this belief make one feel even more special
    And since ones ego is now dependent on ones belief, one holds this very dear indeed

    1. Thanks for sharing that information! Very interesting!

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  10. Very interesting first post!!! I have never been in a cult. Eep!

    1. Thank you! Haha I think that’s a good thing!

      1. 🤣🤣🤣🤣 Im glad you think so because I agree

  11. […] My first post was a serious hassle. I typed it, retyped it, edited it like a million times till I had pretty much retyped it again and then edited it some more. It about what I was learning in my psychology class which was the psychology behind cults. I was so nervous to press publish but I finally hit the publish button, logged out and had massive anxiety for like half an hour. Nothing compares to the feeling you get when you publish your first post and you’re all excited and nervous and scared. I loved it and also simultaneously hated it. […]

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  17. Interesting blog Pooja!!!
    This blog of yours is very different, haha

    1. Thanks, yes I had a very different vision for Lifesfinewhine back then lol.

      1. I can see that 😛
        Your writing style has changed a lot 😃

        1. Haha yes it has.

  18. I think you nailed it. Seven years ago? wow!
    What’s happening today in the USA is very cultish. Even (especially) with the “well-educated”.

    1. Thank you. Yes, all over the world people are moving to more extremes. It’s interesting but also concerning.

  19. I can understand the need to want to belong to something or find people you feel that you can relate to. But what I can never understand is how someone can have the need to be loved so much that they will do harmful things to others like some of these cults do. Good post Pooja.

    1. True, I think everyone wants to be loved but to go to such extents and hurt people or try to hurt people is crazy.

  20. I have never been in a cult, but Scientology freaks me out.

    1. Yeah that’s a very creepy one. They have some scary rules.

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  23. What an interesting first post. You’ve definitely improved as a blog writer over the last 9 years 😀

    1. Thanks so much 😊

  24. You’ve come such a long way and that’s saying something, considering how good you were at this point

    1. Thanks so much, I’ve definitely improved and am so happy with the progress.

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  27. It’s really odd reading this post 11 years on!
    With the advent of social media and its continuous evolution I think being in a cult has evolved beyond anything anyone could have ever imagined.
    There is no doubt that many people utilise social media to advocate their views and attract “normal folk” of all ages to disappear down a “rabbit hole” created by algorithms such as Andrew Tate.
    The wonderful series “Adolescence” created by Stephen Graham clearly shows cultism in it’s worst format.
    No one could have foreseen this back in 2105

    1. Yes, unfortunately, the internet and especially social media has worsened cult like behaviour as well as modified it. The algorithms on most platforms seem to want to push people towards extremes, all of which are harmful.
      “Adolescence” was fantastic, so powerful. It really showed the dangers of social media/the internet and what it does to people especially those that are vulnerable like children.

  28. Hey Pooj,
    I love your first blog post. I was in a cult for years, I joined seventh day adventist church as a child. Been there for 20 years at least, left before I turned 30. My gran brought me there, I loved it as a kid. It wasn’t super weird, but I am glad I left it when I did. Church is a strange place historically and socially, it serves you as protection if you are in danger of your own family. Not to be too dramatic here now I realize it was the only other safe place for me besides school. School has always and will always be my number one home.

    1. I didn’t know that, that’s interesting. We have a lot of seventh day adventist churches in some parts of Kenya. I think religious institutions are almost always like that. They can serve as a safe space but at the same time I wish they would allow people to be more independent in their thinking. School is a good escape/safe space for many kids too.

      1. Seven day Adventists have their own school and hospital network which is super helpful. I went to one of their schools actually

        1. That’s great, definitely helpful and more affordable I’m sure.

          1. Yes, it has a good reputation. I paid very small sums to be in a private school which I loved

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