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Don’t Fall In Love With A Writer

Advice To My Younger Self | Six Word Story | Don't Put Down The Pen

Don’t fall in love with a writer

They can never love someone

As much as they love their own books

They can never spend as much time with you

As they do on their writing

They will choose their art over you

Any day

They will break your heart into a million pieces

And write a bestseller about it

So don’t fall in love with a writer

Don’t fall in love with me.

Another poem where I am very happy with the title. Surprisingly, perhaps for the first time in my life, I came up with the title before the poem. “Don’t Fall In Love With A Writer” is the first title I am actually very happy with. I guess getting off cough syrup does wonders for the brain too.

The only problem is that I don’t love the poem. I think it could be significantly better. But it is what it is. Nothing is ever perfect I guess.

What can I say about the poem? I have been the writer that has broken someones heart. And I have dated writers that have broken my heart. I have experienced both ends of the spectrum and this poem was something I wrote from my own experiences. I guess it’s not just writers. Most people that create tend to be obsessed with their creations. And that’s okay. It’s just difficult for those that love them.

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173 responses to “Don’t Fall In Love With A Writer”

  1. Feets Avatar
    Feets

    Well, that’s depressing. The author’s note makes it better.

    I’ve never had romantic love or had someone spew their heart out like they truly loved me. I’ve done it before. I just can’t fathom how ugly I looked doing that.😂

    But, man, I don’t understand this from a personal perspective, but I do love the words.

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    1. Pooja G Avatar
      Pooja G

      Haha don’t worry I’m sure you’ll be on the receiving end soon. But unfortunately it’s not all flowers and butterflies. Love is really hard. Or maybe I’m the problem 😂

      Reply
      1. Feets Avatar
        Feets

        😂 who knows. Romance is only fun I’m books, people seem too needy and frustrating.

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        1. Pooja G Avatar
          Pooja G

          Totally, romance in real life is not fun 😂

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        2. Ana Daksina Avatar
          Ana Daksina

          Me, I’m like, “You love me because I’m a poet, or you’d be with someone more ordinary ~ and now you don’t want me to write it? It’s like saying I have to look good for the party in two minutes! You want beauty, you have to give time for dress and makeup. Want the soul of a poet? Find something interesting to do yourself when I have to write, or go find someone who isn’t a poet.” Right?

          It’s like marrying a relief worker ~ you already knew they give everything to their work. Like, quit complaining and find some work to do too. It’s not like there’s any lack of it among us!

          Ooh, I get mad when genius is accused of selfishness. Sometimes that reputation never goes away, but in many cases it’s the direct opposite of that ~ total self-sacrifice to a cause.

          Take a second look at both your sweet creative self and your expectations of others, this poet advises.

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          1. Feets Avatar
            Feets

            I get that, but if you love someone you put time into it. You can’t complain that you are upset or lonely and someone has to wait for your time to do something. I have tons of visual art friends who I adore, but their communication is only on their time and when they don’t want to talk or even have a conversation they don’t respond. That’s fine for a friendship, but someone who is a spouse or a companion, that’s like having a child, raise them to five then give up and expect them to ask for your attention and work on your time. That’s ridiculous.

            If it was the opposite way, would you like a partner that works for countless hours, comes home and doesn’t talk to you and when you ask about them, they put you on Reddit(or similar) and complain for upvotes.

            I know I can’t be in a relationship and I have very dodgy vibes so I don’t bother even trying even though being lonely sucks, but if I don’t care about doing anything but doing a solitary activity (I draw and write) I will not waste my time pursuing someone just to look normal.

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            1. Ana Daksina Avatar
              Ana Daksina

              Don’t know anything about Reddit or upvotes, but so long as a partner of mine is happy, it does not bother me if they don’t feel like speaking. I love my silence.

              That said, I think the relationships of the future will not be between exclusively enslaved partners, but between autonomous people. I’ve given up on anything we’re calling a relationship right now too.

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              1. Feets Avatar
                Feets

                That is a platonic relationship or just a companion, but that’s not romantic. At all. Many writers throughout history had companions of people and would stay over their house and hang out. If you’re going to be mostly into your craft, why choose someone who wants romance and attention for someone you bond with but don’t bother you until you need them?

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                1. Ana Daksina Avatar
                  Ana Daksina

                  You’re right ~ the fault lies as much with the artist as with the partner for choosing inappropriate mates 👌

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                  1. Feets Avatar
                    Feets

                    I think it’s the fault of the person to not create their own boundaries. If something is a dealbreaker that makes you furious and rant and you stay just because, then that’s your fault. Especially when it’s not an abusive relationship or a codependent one. We all have control over our partners for the most part. Maybe it’s the partner’s fault but since we are both the artist, we will stay with that framework.

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                    1. Ana Daksina Avatar
                      Ana Daksina

                      Check, on all of those insights. Clear and consistent expectations are key in any interaction, and we almost never provide them for one another, do we?

                    2. Feets Avatar
                      Feets

                      For real, that’s a good one. I wouldn’t know, I’ve never been in a romantic relationship, I’ve had friends and they are quite similar enough but, I don’t know. Probably? I feel like too many people lie to get someone, but I guess it’s hard during these times to have people care about you at all. We all hope to get attention and care. I know I do, especially when I write something. I expect people to care about me when I talk to them, but not everyone will—in fact, most people don’t because I’m not related to them, someone that helps with self preservation, attractive, useful, or relatable/memorable. I have to cope with the fact that some people aren’t going to listen to me talk, hear me out, care, or find me bearable and that doesn’t make them a bad person, just a person who doesn’t care. Relationships hardly are different, that’s why it’s best to constantly think of your values and see if the person aligns with them and see which ones you’re okay with breaking.

                    3. Ana Daksina Avatar
                      Ana Daksina

                      👌

              2. Feets Avatar
                Feets

                And I don’t think they’re enslaved but more have a bond that requires patience, attention, care, respect, trust, and romance. Not everyone can give that so it isn’t a requirement.

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    2. Alan Billingsley Avatar
      Alan Billingsley

      I love your poem. Shows spunk and self-assuredness.

      Reply
      1. Pooja G Avatar
        Pooja G

        Thanks so much.

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    3. Keeping It Magical Avatar
      Keeping It Magical

      I fell in love with a beautiful woman who was a writer she was a poet just like me
      We had the keys to each others hearts and minds we set each others love free

      Are words flowed together like two rivers joining together creating a current
      This was the romantic interlude of love the both dreamed of words of reassurance

      They say a writer is hard to fall in love with writing is how they spend their time
      When these two brilliant minds came together Keeping It Magical was like rhythm and rhyme

      In one years time they got married and created a web site a YouTube channel and Facebook page
      Writers know how to feel and what true love really is Keeping It Magical is the new rage

      This writer wrote another writer into the world they penned their hopes and desires
      A romance so beautifully written could inspire the world and set hearts and souls on fire

      Kevin Killoren

      #keepingitmagical

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      1. Feets Avatar
        Feets

        That’s cute! And you’re lucky you found someone that works with you!

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        1. Keeping It Magical Avatar
          Keeping It Magical

          You can find us at Keeping it Magical on Facebook YouTube and keepingitmagical.com and our book Keeping It Magical Wanderlove

          Reply
  2. Dr Namrata, Ph.D. Avatar
    Dr Namrata, Ph.D.

    👏👏

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    1. Pooja G Avatar
      Pooja G

      😊

      Reply
  3. Quantez Xihuitl Avatar
    Quantez Xihuitl

    I’m not a writer, but If hearts are broken. The lottery odds of two writers loving each other forever is possible.

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    1. Pooja G Avatar
      Pooja G

      Thanks and yeah that is true.

      Reply
  4. 9erick Avatar
    9erick

    Yeah, breaking hearts sounds like it would be easy enough for any artist to do.

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    1. Hilary Tan Avatar
      Hilary Tan

      My thoughts exactly.

      Reply
    2. Pooja G Avatar
      Pooja G

      Yeah I think so too.

      Reply
  5. PeaceEqualsBlessings Avatar
    PeaceEqualsBlessings

    I really enjoyed this!

    Reply
    1. Pooja G Avatar
      Pooja G

      Thank you!

      Reply
  6. DEVANG UPADHYAYA Avatar
    DEVANG UPADHYAYA

    Good thing is I’m not a writer but only a blogger. A true writer is someone who can vary their work and writes something different everytime. You have your own style, yet you have the capability to write as if it’s not written by you. You can show beautiful variation with your work, style and genre. That’s something I’m trying to learn, and you are best person from whom I can learn this. As I’ve learn a lot about blogging from you.
    .
    About the poem, it’s beautiful and the reason why you are not satisfied because you are an extremely talented writer/poet. People will agree with me in this: if the writer/poet or an artist is ever satisfied with their work, that means they have stopped thinking about the possibilities. I’m sure Pooja, you can write 20 more variation of this poem and still you will not be satisfied because you will keep thinking how to make it better. That’s the power of yours or any other talented writers capability.

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    1. Pooja G Avatar
      Pooja G

      I don’t know, I consider most bloggers writers too. I think you’re a writer but I hope you have better luck with love than I have had.

      Thanks and I agree, a writer is never fully satisfied.

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      1. DEVANG UPADHYAYA Avatar
        DEVANG UPADHYAYA

        Well, I’m trying to find someone.
        Marriage age is getting near 😜

        I wish you luck in all the aspects buddy.
        Keep smiling.

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        1. Pooja G Avatar
          Pooja G

          Thanks so much and good luck to you as well 😉😅

          Reply
  7. Poet of the Light Avatar
    Poet of the Light

    If love was a matter of choice, I’d have far fewer scars but I’d also know nothing about love.

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    1. Pooja G Avatar
      Pooja G

      That’s the problem with love, we don’t have much choice in it.

      Reply
  8. Hilary Tan Avatar
    Hilary Tan

    Don’t fall in love with a writer because they can break your heart with their words. Written word is so powerful, and words can break a person 💔

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    1. Pooja G Avatar
      Pooja G

      Thank you so much and totally agree 💖

      Reply
    2. TheUnknownReilly Avatar
      TheUnknownReilly

      He’ll hath no fury like a scorned writer. Lol

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      1. moribascorner Avatar
        moribascorner

        He’ll hath no fury like ONE WHO FEELS scorned BY A WRITER…!
        🇯🇲🏖️

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        1. TheUnknownReilly Avatar
          TheUnknownReilly

          LOL!

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          1. moribascorner Avatar
            moribascorner

            Touché…!
            🇯🇲🏖️

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  9. Renard Moreau Avatar
    Renard Moreau

    🤔 Pooja, are you telling women around the world not to fall in love with me?

    I am a natural-born writer who happens to blog.

    On a serious note, that was a lovely piece of writing that you produced.

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    1. Pooja G Avatar
      Pooja G

      Haha I will let them know that you’re the exception 🙂
      Thank you so much.

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      1. Renard Moreau Avatar
        Renard Moreau

        🙂 You are most welcome, Pooja.

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  10. singlikewildflowers Avatar
    singlikewildflowers

    Great title and poem!

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    1. Pooja G Avatar
      Pooja G

      Thank you so much!

      Reply
  11. Michele Lee Avatar
    Michele Lee

    I do like the title, Pooja. You’re right, nothing is ever perfect, especially writing, but your ending is as close as it gets! Writers may be hard to love for the reasons you mentioned, but writers/artists sure can love and live passionately! 💞

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    1. Pooja G Avatar
      Pooja G

      Thanks so much. Yes, that’s so true and one of the best parts of being a writer/artist! 😊

      Reply
      1. Michele Lee Avatar
        Michele Lee

        ✨💞✨

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  12. Stacy-Ann Campbell Avatar
    Stacy-Ann Campbell

    Well I love it.

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    1. Pooja G Avatar
      Pooja G

      Thank you so much.

      Reply
  13. Bewilded Avatar
    Bewilded

    Lovely words Pooja 🤍

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    1. Pooja G Avatar
      Pooja G

      Thank you so much 😊

      Reply
  14. ianscyberspace Avatar
    ianscyberspace

    Any kind of profession or venture that takes all time and attention can be a marriage destroyer.

    Reply
    1. Pooja G Avatar
      Pooja G

      Yes, I absolutely agree.

      Reply
  15. Vidah Avatar
    Vidah

    I loved it, Pooja.
    For me, i never knew i could write, until the day i randomly created my website.
    You can make any work more or more better, you’ll never get satisfied with it, because you have got that talent!

    Reply
    1. DEVANG UPADHYAYA Avatar
      DEVANG UPADHYAYA

      Best decision of making the website, because you write exceptionally well. You have shown multiple times how good you are. If you can come up with 6 different poems a week with different genres, you can do everything. Never stop.

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      1. Vidah Avatar
        Vidah

        Thank you, D😊

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        1. DEVANG UPADHYAYA Avatar
          DEVANG UPADHYAYA

          Shine V

          Reply
    2. Pooja G Avatar
      Pooja G

      Thank you so much. I’m very glad you decided to create the website. It helped you find one more talent of yours.

      Reply
      1. Vidah Avatar
        Vidah

        Yes! 😊

        Reply
  16. Shahbaz Ashraf Avatar
    Shahbaz Ashraf

    Warning for those who are prone to develop softer feelings for the writers. Ah..

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    1. Pooja G Avatar
      Pooja G

      Yes, exactly. It’s sad but true.

      Reply
  17. The Mango People Avatar
    The Mango People

    Cough syrups are good he he 😛

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    1. Pooja G Avatar
      Pooja G

      Haha absolutely.

      Reply
      1. The Mango People Avatar
        The Mango People

        😁😁

        Reply
  18. Akshita gupta Avatar
    Akshita gupta

    Well, I really love the poem and the title is really attractive 😃

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    1. Pooja G Avatar
      Pooja G

      Thank you so much 😊

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      1. Akshita gupta Avatar
        Akshita gupta

        Your welcome😊

        Reply
  19. Ankush Taraporewala Avatar
    Ankush Taraporewala

    I totally disagree with not falling for writer. Why? Because only a writer will surely write about how deeply he or she loves and appreciates lovers. Heartbreak inspires sure. But it is the love which keeps us writers moving. Love, chasing it or sometimes just admiring it from far. I find us writers the deepest lovers who often find solemn and peace in writing. In fact I remember writing something after seeing just a glimpse of glow in someone’s eyes. Besides these days it’s better to rise in love instead of falling. That’s my say. But I still love the poem. It’s one of a kind.

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    1. Pooja G Avatar
      Pooja G

      Thank you and I most definitely understand your point of view too.

      Reply
  20. Niharika Avatar
    Niharika

    Nice 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼

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    1. Pooja G Avatar
      Pooja G

      Thanks 😊

      Reply
  21. bloggersud Avatar
    bloggersud

    Well knitted

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    1. Pooja G Avatar
      Pooja G

      Thank you so much

      Reply
  22. reeydah Avatar
    reeydah

    I loved this poem, and I see the truth in it. And your point about people who create… I think the poem just applies to artists in general – people who create

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    1. Pooja G Avatar
      Pooja G

      Thank you and yes I think it speaks for most people that create.

      Reply
  23. Doug Avatar
    Doug

        When you say, “The only problem is that I don’t love the poem. I think it could be significantly better,” I assume it’s not false humility. OK, so don’t blame me if I suggest something.
        For feelings of regret, look at something like “You Were Always On My Mind” by Willie Nelson. The chorus is interesting for the intensity of the feeling.
        It needs some details and could be more direct. So let me throw out some speculative rambling for you:

    Never love someone who writes the day away
    ’cause they’ll break your heart in two,
    oh do the noble thing, guy, and
    just walk two steps away, ’cause

    you know they’ll hurt you
    ’cause when over you in time
    they’ll choose art or rhyme
    in no time for you.

    Oh, can you be the fantasy guy
    in the writing —
    you’ve got the hair
    the handsome look
    the jaw, and the laugh

    But they’ll choose art over you:
    choose a hero, a rogue
    choose super powers
    and they’ll tower over you

    Never love someone who writes the day away
    ’cause they’ll break your heart in two

    Write off your love stirrings
    and don’t stew, just
    ride away from fantasy words
    before they break you in two

    So don’t fall in love with a writer
    Don’t fall in love with me.

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    1. Pooja G Avatar
      Pooja G

      I appreciate your suggestions. I really did mean it when I said I didn’t love how it turned out. And I really like your version.

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    2. Janet Bailey West Avatar
      Janet Bailey West

      And then we are left without the soul. I have little trust in those who correct the art. Art is art. Learning a craft is essential, but at the heart of it, know your piece and Its voice. No one could “correct” Ansel Adams’s stark photography. It is a passion.

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      1. Doug Avatar
        Doug

            I take the original artist’s original lament seriously that improvement is possible. And I assume the veracity of the response: “I appreciate your suggestions. I really did mean it when I said I didn’t love how it turned out. And I really like your version. ”
            Ansel Adams would not ask me for help (only perhaps one of his students might have asked for his help in the past).
            This doesn’t call for a deep philosophical discussion. Comments can be rejected or erased when necessary.
            Art is not art necessarily. The asterisk in the quotation marks that follows: * is my masterpiece. I require you to praise my art. That asterisk is my soul. I’ll have little trust in you if you correct my art.
            I am insulted that you would criticize my asterisk.

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        1. moribascorner Avatar
          moribascorner

          Don’t feel insulted Doug… Janet only ‘momentarily lost touch’ of the soul in Pooja’s poem, and couldn’t ‘find’ the soul in your version of the poem… but all is not lost, for your soul, Pooja’s soul, and Janet’s soul shall find communion… for my soul ‘hopes’ to intercede… unless… alas… Pooja is right: ‘Don’t fall in love (or like) with a writer…’
          🇯🇲🏖️

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  24. ken riddles Avatar
    ken riddles

    Great thing about poetry is it doesn’t have to reflect our own ‘stance’. It can be total fiction. So I don’t need to find your outlook in it. I tend to try to not take myself too seriously. I certainly don’t live to write. Anyone who writes anything, in my view is a writer. Others usually like to decide if it’s good or bad. But it is usually within a person, part of their makeup to want to write. Go with it is my view. The poem is an attention getter – well done.

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    1. Pooja G Avatar
      Pooja G

      Thank you. Yes, I love that about poetry too. True, I believe everyone who writes is a writer too.

      Reply
  25. Jaye Marie and Anita Dawes Avatar
    Jaye Marie and Anita Dawes

    Now you have me wondering if love is possible between two writers…

    Reply
    1. Pooja G Avatar
      Pooja G

      It may not end well lol…

      Reply
      1. Jaye Marie and Anita Dawes Avatar
        Jaye Marie and Anita Dawes

        Nothing new there then…

        Reply
    2. moribascorner Avatar
      moribascorner

      Yes it is possible… as long as they realize that the wall between them as a small door, and they don’t allow a spider’s web to seal it shut…!
      🇯🇲🏖️

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  26. Ib Avatar
    Ib

    Hands down one of my favorite poems I’ve read this year. I love it

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    1. Pooja G Avatar
      Pooja G

      Thank you so much, really appreciate that.

      Reply
  27. Shaunelius Sterns Avatar
    Shaunelius Sterns

    Nice Poem. I like it.

    Reply
    1. Pooja G Avatar
      Pooja G

      Thank you so much.

      Reply
  28. Athira Avatar
    Athira

    The title is really attractive..It can be taken as a suggestion / advice too😃 I don’t wish to fall in love Pooja I think it’s complicates us..🤣

    Reply
    1. Pooja G Avatar
      Pooja G

      Thank you so much 😊 Haha I feel the same way 😂

      Reply
      1. Athira Avatar
        Athira

        My pleasure 😊

        Reply
        1. Pooja G Avatar
          Pooja G

          💕

          Reply
  29. Third Culture Kid Avatar
    Third Culture Kid

    You really nailed a lot about that. It reminds me of a line in a Catherine Hepburn movie that says, “Lawyers shouldn’t marry other lawyers”. Your poem could easily be applied to lawyers too since they make a living with their words. Did you see the tributes to Ruth Bader Ginsberg from her colleagues on the Supreme Court? Every one of them, except Brett Kavanagh’s, was brilliant! I sometimes feel like I was destined to be a writer because whenever I stood up for myself, my Dad always said to me, “use your words”. Now, I feel like when I do stand up for myself, whoever is insulting me backs off. There are other examples in my life too, not just standing up for myself. Overall, I found being a writer and having a way with words because of it has been the most beneficial thing in my life

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    1. Pooja G Avatar
      Pooja G

      Thank you so much. My parents told me the same thing and encouraged me to read and write. I guess that’s how many writers start out.

      Reply
      1. Third Culture Kid Avatar
        Third Culture Kid

        I think you’re right!

        Reply
    2. Pooja G Avatar
      Pooja G

      By the way, I was trying to view your site on my Reader and it was being very weird. Like the text was moving around on the page. Search your site on the Reader and click it and you’ll see what I mean. I’m not sure why that’s happening or if it’s just me but I just wanted to let you know.

      Reply
      1. Third Culture Kid Avatar
        Third Culture Kid

        Oh, thank you. I’ll check it

        Reply
  30. Luna Phoxx Avatar
    Luna Phoxx

    I love it! Have you seen “Wednesday” on Netflix? It’s all about Wednesday Addams (my forever shero). This poem reminds me of her.

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    1. Pooja G Avatar
      Pooja G

      I’ve just seen the trailer and so excited to watch it! I absolutely love her too. Omg thank you, what a compliment!

      Reply
      1. Luna Phoxx Avatar
        Luna Phoxx

        Let me know what you think after you watch! I loved it 🙂

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        1. Pooja G Avatar
          Pooja G

          Will do, I’m sure I will love it too!

          Reply
  31. Mark Edward Jabbour Avatar
    Mark Edward Jabbour

    Ha! there’s piece in THE WASHINGTON EXAMINER (Nov. 22-29, 2022) by Rob Long titled “Writers Marry up”. Which is funny and something that is wished for but … rarely works out. It’s a true story.

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    1. Pooja G Avatar
      Pooja G

      How interesting. Wish I could marry up haha. Just kidding.

      Reply
  32. Reaseaorg Avatar
    Reaseaorg

    I am sure most people reading this will relate to the words of the poem. I like the poem because it captures the challenge of supporting someone to achieve something. Giving without needing or expecting something back. I therefore think both the title and poem are good, however I think since I am such an introvert who has such engaging interests, I think I would be more tolerant of others who are similar, but also require more patience from someone else 🙂

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    1. Pooja G Avatar
      Pooja G

      Thank you so much. I am an introvert too and I sympathise with other introverts as well. But I am not someone who has a lot of patience which may perhaps be the problem lol.

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      1. Reaseaorg Avatar
        Reaseaorg

        Haha yes I see your point. It requires a lot when someone is so into something to support them, and still enjoy a satisfying relationship 🙂 have a lovely weekend

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        1. Pooja G Avatar
          Pooja G

          Thanks and you too 🙂

          Reply
  33. Cindy Georgakas Avatar
    Cindy Georgakas

    love your Title and happy that you do which is the most important thing.
    Great poem too.
    Oh for the writers in love…. it does work out at times but most of the time they are in love with love and heartbreaks do occur.
    How is it opposites attract and then drive each other crazy too.
    Maybe neither work.. hahaha🤣

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    1. Pooja G Avatar
      Pooja G

      Thanks so much! Lol I think it works if you find someone with lots of patience 😂

      Reply
  34. Violet Roy Avatar
    Violet Roy

    I thoroughly enjoyed the poem (and found it relatable).

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    1. Pooja G Avatar
      Pooja G

      Happy to hear that.

      Reply
  35. Vanya Wryter Consulting Avatar
    Vanya Wryter Consulting

    Great poem! Got me thinking. I write non-fiction. Maybe that helps. I like to live in and outside of my writing.

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    1. Pooja G Avatar
      Pooja G

      Thank you so much. Yes, that could be it.

      Reply
  36. BabyFunbo Avatar
    BabyFunbo

    Haha 😂
    Fair warning I must say.

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    1. Pooja G Avatar
      Pooja G

      Right? lol 😂

      Reply
  37. Pennize Pics Avatar
    Pennize Pics

    It’s funny how you mention different times that you have trouble coming up with a good title. I for some reason think of my title fairly quickly and can usually work the story after it. Who else thinks of their title first? Good poem though Pooja.

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    1. Pooja G Avatar
      Pooja G

      Wow that’s impressive. Often it takes me longer to come up with a title than the poem itself.

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      1. Pennize Pics Avatar
        Pennize Pics

        Thank you Pooja. It’s still all a learning experience for me though.

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        1. Pooja G Avatar
          Pooja G

          Yes, of course but that’s how we get better over time.

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        2. Pooja G Avatar
          Pooja G

          Yes of course but that’s how we get better over time.

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  38. haoyando Avatar
    haoyando

    So true. For example, a writer like Philip Roth will be a disastrous partner. So narcissistic and so insensitive towards women… However a writer like E. B. White is probably a tolerable partner. I am not trying to be pessimistic about it, but it is true that love can be risky for women even with a man one really loves. I mean it is still a lot of work and responsibility etc.

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    1. Pooja G Avatar
      Pooja G

      Yes, love is difficult as it is and it is particularly so for women. And writers tend to be so self-absorbed/obsessed with their work so it makes it even more difficult.

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    2. Pooja G Avatar
      Pooja G

      And yes, I would not want to be with a writer like Philip Roth lol. That would be a disaster. And he would probably write a bestseller about it.

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  39. Kirsten Avatar
    Kirsten

    Love this poem. I always wanted to know what dating a writer would be like. I’ve always fallen for guys who are opposite my personality haha.

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    1. Pooja G Avatar
      Pooja G

      Thanks so much. Let me tell you, you are not missing anything lol 😂

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      1. Kirsten Avatar
        Kirsten

        Haha! Good to know! 🙂

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  40. Janet Bailey West Avatar
    Janet Bailey West

    My thoughts…..poetry is its own beast. Enjoy it as it is. Let it be.
    As for relationships, for some, it isn’t easy. I have some depth perspectives to help. My husband adores me, and I love him. We have full-time jobs as well as our arts. Balance, love, and strengthening another–it’s living generously because life is long.

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    1. Pooja G Avatar
      Pooja G

      That’s sounds like a great relationship. I’m glad you two have found a balance. And yes poetry is like that and I doubt I will ever be fully satisfied anyway.

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  41. dustyreviewer Avatar
    dustyreviewer

    Great poem and true. Love and marriage requires choosing self-sacrifice at times, to benefit your partner or the marriage itself. Being an artist sometimes requires selfishness. It’s a tricky balance.

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    1. Pooja G Avatar
      Pooja G

      Thank you so much. Yes, that’s absolutely it. Being an artist requires you to spend a lot of time on your own with your art and that can make your partner feel unloved.

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        dustyreviewer

        Yeah, exactly. Art doesn’t have to be selfish but it often is. It’s difficult to have a career of mining one’s own mind for kernels of truth / beauty / etc. without forgetting to invest / not having time to invest sufficiently in someone else.

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        1. Pooja G Avatar
          Pooja G

          Yes, absolutely. It’s easy to forget those you love when you’re so invested in your art. I don’t think we do that on purpose but it does happen.

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  42. Eva Chatterji Avatar
    Eva Chatterji

    I agree completely. As a writer, I know that my writing obsesses me and only me. The world I step into is, for a time, the only world that exists. In it I don’t need anyone else. Fortunately I married an artist!

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    1. Pooja G Avatar
      Pooja G

      Wow, that’s lucky haha!

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  43. Desiree Future Avatar
    Desiree Future

    Great poem & title suits it well.

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    1. Pooja G Avatar
      Pooja G

      Thank you so much.

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  44. Michael Foglietta Avatar
    Michael Foglietta

    I don’t know much about falling in love with a writer or artist. It’s never happened to me. I hope my girlfriend doesn’t feel that way, but she might not consider me to be a writer yet. Life is always interesting and every day is something new.

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    1. Pooja G Avatar
      Pooja G

      Life is certainly very interesting. I hope your girlfriend doesn’t mind the time you spend writing. Some people genuinely don’t have a problem with relationships with writers.

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  45. Belladonna Avatar
    Belladonna

    This was great Pooja and somewhat true!

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    1. Pooja G Avatar
      Pooja G

      Thanks so much!

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  46. TheUnknownReilly Avatar
    TheUnknownReilly

    Or you both are writers and have a shared cruel Mistress: Writing. 😉😆🤦

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    1. Pooja G Avatar
      Pooja G

      Somehow that makes it even worse 🥲

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      1. TheUnknownReilly Avatar
        TheUnknownReilly

        I’m not experienced with BDSM, so maybe someone with more experience can say… It feels like a Dom-Sub relationship LOL. So it can work with good communication and boundaries. 😉🤐🪢 😅

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        1. Pooja G Avatar
          Pooja G

          It’s totally a Dom-sub relationship, trust me… kidding 😂 Or am I? 🙂

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          1. TheUnknownReilly Avatar
            TheUnknownReilly

            Guess we will have to find out 😜😏 🤫👀😈

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            1. Pooja G Avatar
              Pooja G

              😬😉😂

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  47. Erik Magnus Avatar
    Erik Magnus

    Glad you’re off the cough syrup!

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    1. Pooja G Avatar
      Pooja G

      Thanks so much!

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  48. moribascorner Avatar
    moribascorner

    I think the act of ‘falling in love’ IS the problem… since falling can result in hitting one’s head… walk into love… eyes wide open… and don’t think of honey, or anything sweet…!
    🇯🇲🏖️

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    1. Pooja G Avatar
      Pooja G

      Haha agreed, maybe we should stop falling and instead take small cautious steps 😊

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  49. Susi Bocks Avatar
    Susi Bocks

    I’m married to a musician. We get it. 🙂

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    1. Pooja G Avatar
      Pooja G

      Well as long as you balance each other out 😉

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      1. Susi Bocks Avatar
        Susi Bocks

        I don’t think we do actually since we’re technically the same! lol

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        1. Pooja G Avatar
          Pooja G

          Lol that’s the problem I have in relationships with other creators!

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          1. Susi Bocks Avatar
            Susi Bocks

            I feel your pain! 😉

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  50. One Sentence Story #5 – Lifesfinewhine

    […] saying this all of a sudden. I highly doubt that’s ever going to happen. As you know, I don’t think writers make very good partners […]

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  51. My Rollercoaster Journey Avatar
    My Rollercoaster Journey

    Loved the poem. I guess being romantically involved with a writer is a bit tricky. We have a flare for drama, we overthink and overanalyze everything, and we go into a trance when we are inspired to write.

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    1. Pooja G Avatar
      Pooja G

      Thanks. Yes, it can be pretty tricky since we give so much time to our writing,

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  52. jkaybay Avatar
    jkaybay

    I love it! Esp the last line.

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    1. Pooja G Avatar
      Pooja G

      Thanks so much 😊

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  53. Avatar
    Anonymous

    I especially liked this one. great stuff

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    1. Pooja G Avatar
      Pooja G

      Thank you so much.

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  54. Keeping It Magical Avatar
    Keeping It Magical

    My husband and I are both writers…and I wouldn’t have it any other way…. 🥰

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    1. Pooja G Avatar
      Pooja G

      Aw, that’s so sweet 😊

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  55. Keeping It Magical Avatar
    Keeping It Magical

    I fell in love with a beautiful woman who was a writer she was a poet just like me
We had the keys to each others hearts and minds we set each others love free
    Our words flowed together like two rivers joining together creating a current
This was the romantic interlude of love they both dreamed of words of reassurance
    They say a writer is hard to fall in love with writing is how they spend their time
When these two brilliant minds came together Keeping It Magical was like rhythm and rhyme

    In one years time they got married and created a web site a YouTube channel wrote s book and Facebook page
Writers know how to feel and what true love really is Keeping It Magical is the new rage
    This writer wrote another writer into his world they penned their hopes and desires
A romance so beautifully written could inspire the world and set hearts and souls on fire

    Kevin Killoren
    #keepingitmagical

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    1. Pooja G Avatar
      Pooja G

      Wow, it’s really a blessing to find someone you can connect with in that way that you have so much in common with. I don’t know if I’ll ever get that lucky, but I hope so someday.

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  56. dog treats Avatar
    dog treats

    Fantastic

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      Pooja G

      Thank you so much.

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  57. James Odhiambo Avatar
    James Odhiambo

    Wow! This is talking to me in a way, though I’ve not broken and been broken I just love my art more than anything else. This is awesome.

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    1. Pooja G Avatar
      Pooja G

      Thanks so much, glad it resonated with you.

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