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My Safe Haven

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Your arms

Were always my safe haven

With you I was no longer afraid

All my worries seemed to evaporate

I miss that feeling

But it’s funny

How someone who once made you feel so safe

Can become

The person you’re most afraid of

I was hoping to share a YouTube video today. But life had other plans. There was a nationwide power outage in Kenya. This happens very rarely but it does happen. Sometimes when life hands you lemons you just have to freeze them and throw them at people that annoy you. Or water that saying is…

Anyway, this poem has been in my head for a while now. But I just couldn’t find the words. Luckily I did today and that helped me get a post together last minute. It’s past midnight here as I’m writing this. I finished all my work and this poem just sort of came to me. I know my brain and I have differences but at times like these it really comes through for me which I appreciate. Yes, my brain made me write all that because I complain about it malfunction too often these days.

So “My Safe Haven” is pretty much about life, love and relationships. And how you sometimes don’t really know the person you’re with until you see a darker side to them. Wolf in sheep’s clothing and all that. I’m sleepy so just create your own interpretation of it in your head.

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71 responses to “My Safe Haven”

  1. Feets Avatar
    Feets

    I feel this with my heart and chest. I’ve also been that person before when I would just emotionally abandon people. Ugh, it’s difficult being here with people sometimes because some people just come and go out of your life and you wanted them there, but they’re a mess.🥲 We all learn.

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  2. Rita Avatar
    Rita

    What a great poem! So true!

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  3. seankfletcher Avatar
    seankfletcher

    Very succinctly put, Pooja. This is a situation that most will understand and doesn’t need a litany of verses to unpack what has happened. Coincidentally, I just finished the first episode of Divorce Attorney Shin, so your poem is reflective of what happened during this episode 😊

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  4. Shahbaz Ashraf Avatar
    Shahbaz Ashraf

    So, the safe haven is no more as the protector becomes the predator. These contrasts have become the hallmark of your poetry. I have observed that many of your poems open on a positive note and then take a sudden U-turn, and leave the readers bewildered. This is a good style and deserves critical appreciation.
    Brevity is another feature of your poetry. You are able to infuse some serious thoughts into so few words. Great going Pooja!

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  5. Milena Alien Avatar
    Milena Alien

    Not sure why but it reminded me of the supermarket chain called Safeway, for some reason we always call it Un-Safeway, it’s sort of an irony that the ‘safest’ things are not actually safe after all.

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    1. Pooja G Avatar
      Pooja G

      I’ve never heard of Safeway but I understand why this would remind you of it since the wording is similar. Yup, very ironic.

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      1. Milena Alien Avatar
        Milena Alien

        We usually use it as an example of something you want to avoid

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        1. Pooja G Avatar
          Pooja G

          I think I’ll be saying that from now on too haha

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      2. Hilary Tan Avatar
        Hilary Tan

        We have Safeway in Alberta, Canada. It’s an overpriced supermarket chain with Starbucks. You’re not missing much. It smells like freshly baked bread and the smell is overpowering; makes me want to buy donuts and bread rolls. Safeway is almost identical to the supermarket chain called Sobeys in Ontario, Canada. I’m not sure if you’ve been to Sobeys, which can be found in Toronto.

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        1. Pooja G Avatar
          Pooja G

          Yeah we had a Sobeys, I definitely get what you mean. I think Sobeys is pretty overpriced too if I remember correctly.

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    2. cheryloreglia Avatar
      cheryloreglia

      I agree, our Un-Safeway (local grocery store/chain) has recently had two shootings, one resulted in a death. I race through the store now and never feel safe! Great poem Pooja! Hugs, C

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      1. Milena Alien Avatar
        Milena Alien

        So sorry to hear that, hags

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      2. Pooja G Avatar
        Pooja G

        Wow, that’s really awful. No one should feel unsafe just going shopping.

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  6. Vidah Avatar
    Vidah

    Loved the poem, Pooja.
    These last minute writings’ are the best💛

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    1. Pooja G Avatar
      Pooja G

      Thank you so much 😊

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  7. ✿ Lovely Panda Mom ✿ Avatar
    ✿ Lovely Panda Mom ✿

    This one hit me hard. I had a boyfriend in high school turn abusive and super scary and I’ve never gotten over it, because we were best friends, and he changed overnight the second we started dating. He still stalks me online. I usually don’t share that, but your poem made me want to open up.

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    1. Pooja G Avatar
      Pooja G

      I’m so sorry you experienced that. It’s best to stay away from people like that. Although many abusers do have the tendency to still stalk their ex’s and get obsessive so Im not surprised. Stay safe.

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  8. Destiny Avatar
    Destiny

    A very deep poem, Pooja….and interpretations could vary according to an individuals stance in life.
    “Safe Haven” being the perfect title for your thoughts.
    Love it🤍

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    1. Pooja G Avatar
      Pooja G

      Thank you so much 😊

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      1. Destiny Avatar
        Destiny

        Most welcome

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      2. Destiny Avatar
        Destiny

        Oops, I think I replied on someone else comment 🥴sorry

        Most welcome 🤍

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        1. Pooja G Avatar
          Pooja G

          Lol, don’t worry it’s fine 😅

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  9. Joseph Glidden Avatar
    Joseph Glidden

    This poem resonated such sadness at the end. I was not quite expecting that. I guess the romantic in me was hoping for everlasting love and bliss, lol.

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    1. Pooja G Avatar
      Pooja G

      Lol well you know Lifesfinewhine is usually the place romance comes to die haha. Just kidding, yeah I wanted it to be a really stark contrast between the first and second half of the poem.

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  10. drpoonamchaubey Avatar
    drpoonamchaubey

    Yes! life cant be managed by our ways and wishes. It’s an unknown path we tread on, as much we think we know it. Especially people can be unpredictable.

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    1. Pooja G Avatar
      Pooja G

      Yes, life and people are extremely unpredictable and often we end up surprised.

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  11. haoyando Avatar
    haoyando

    You remind me of a writer in the early 20th century. She met him (both writers); he protected her; they got married; then he became increasingly frustrated with her desire for self expression, which often contradicted with his view; they broke up.

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    1. Pooja G Avatar
      Pooja G

      That’s so sad. But I’m not surprised. I think after marriage people often change and are comfortable enough to show their true colours.

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  12. Margaret's Diaries Avatar
    Margaret’s Diaries

    Wow, I fully resonate with the poem and it really applies to various relationships.

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    1. Pooja G Avatar
      Pooja G

      Thank you so much, I’m happy to hear that.

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  13. vesnab7 Avatar
    vesnab7

    Couldn’t agree more! Really loved this one!

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    1. Pooja G Avatar
      Pooja G

      Thank you so much!

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  14. Opher Avatar
    Opher

    Sad to think that those closest to us can become our darkest enemies.

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    1. Pooja G Avatar
      Pooja G

      Yes, it’s a sad truth.

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  15. WellsFiction Avatar
    WellsFiction

    Great peom, Pooja. It’s scary how you really can’t tell who someone is until their actions reveal their true motives. Always be cautious of who you give your trust to.

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    1. Pooja G Avatar
      Pooja G

      Thanks so much. Yes, that’s why I get a bit paranoid about trusting people sometimes. It’s definitely best to be cautious.

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  16. factzone1211 Avatar
    factzone1211

    Hi you had liked my post and i am very much glad for it if you are available pls text me i want to talk to you sometime about business..

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  17. DEVANG UPADHYAYA Avatar
    DEVANG UPADHYAYA

    Don’t worry, I’ll wait for the video patiently. I’m so excited, I can’t tell you. 🤩
    .
    About the poem, I will not say anything, because I don’t know what to say.
    One thing is sure, you are an excellent writer. You work so well in multiple niche PG 🤗.
    One can learn a lot from you, and I’m learning TBH 😁

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    1. Pooja G Avatar
      Pooja G

      Thanks so much 😊

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  18. cheryloreglia Avatar
    cheryloreglia

    This hits close to home, hugs, C

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    1. Pooja G Avatar
      Pooja G

      Thank you.

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  19. Jasmine ♡ Avatar
    Jasmine ♡

    Wow, the ending! I loved this Pooja. It can be a scary and heartbreaking thing when someone reveals their true colors. Everything “good” you knew about them, seems like a strange lie. 😦 Wolf in sheep’s clothing, you’re right about that!

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    1. Pooja G Avatar
      Pooja G

      Thank you so much. Absolutely, it’s so heartbreaking when someone isn’t the person you thought they were.

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  20. Da FuNNIEST GURL evuuur Avatar
    Da FuNNIEST GURL evuuur

    That was indeed beautiful! ✨

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    1. Pooja G Avatar
      Pooja G

      Thank you so much! 😊

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  21. sentikijamir Avatar
    sentikijamir

    Your poem gives off Joe from You vibes 😂but thoroughly enjoyed reading it!

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    1. Pooja G Avatar
      Pooja G

      Lol I love that, I guess my brain is preparing for the new episodes 😂 Thanks!

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  22. Ashita Chauhan Avatar
    Ashita Chauhan

    I just started reading, the start was beautiful until the end. It is a rather deep one.

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    1. Pooja G Avatar
      Pooja G

      Thank you so much.

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  23. Brian, Snarebox Avatar
    Brian, Snarebox

    I think I missed that you were back in Kenya! Last time I was actively blogging you were still in school in Canada, I think. How’s it been (apart from the power outages, lol).

    I’ve known a lot of wolves in sheeps clothing, unfortunately. My old life turned me into a magnet for near-narcissist friends (I think the word is overused so I don’t think most “narcissists” are actually narcissists, haha). A lot of the women I know and have known seem to be in relationships like the one in your poem, but very few ever realize it. It’s frustrating, but people have to want help, right?

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    1. Pooja G Avatar
      Pooja G

      Yeah, I’ve been back for a while and minus the power issues lol, it’s been pretty fun. I’m just enjoying the weather and people.

      Yeah, unfortunately it’s hard for some people to know when they are being manipulated. And it’s sort of not possible for us to help them when they don’t realise they need it.

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  24. Cindy Georgakas Avatar
    Cindy Georgakas

    love your poem and your safe haven ended up to be a power Pooja so you could share it Pooja! 🥹💞

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    1. Pooja G Avatar
      Pooja G

      Thank you so much! 💕

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  25. randyjohnson52 Avatar
    randyjohnson52

    Love this poem. Definitely hit home for me. The Wolf in sheep’s clothing made oodles of sense,too. Thanks for sharing,Pooja!

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    1. Pooja G Avatar
      Pooja G

      Thanks so much, glad you enjoyed it!

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  26. Janice Reid Avatar
    Janice Reid

    “when life hands you lemons you just have to freeze them and throw them at people that annoy you” 🤣🤣. I like this 🤣.

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    1. Pooja G Avatar
      Pooja G

      Lol, it’s my life motto 😂

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      1. Janice Reid Avatar
        Janice Reid

        It’s a good one, definitely keep you safe for sure 🤣.

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  27. Pennize Pics Avatar
    Pennize Pics

    Really good poem and so many females especially run into that type of relationship which is sad. As for your frozen lemon joke that’s hilarious, I love it.

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    1. Pooja G Avatar
      Pooja G

      Thanks so much. Yes, very true I think a large number of females have experienced this sort of fear in relationships.

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  28. R Carter Avatar
    R Carter

    A wonderful and relatable poem great work!!!

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    1. Pooja G Avatar
      Pooja G

      Thank you so much!

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  29. My Rollercoaster Journey Avatar
    My Rollercoaster Journey

    Love the poem. So true

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    1. Pooja G Avatar
      Pooja G

      Thank you so much.

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      1. My Rollercoaster Journey Avatar
        My Rollercoaster Journey

        Anytime

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  30. Michelle Avatar
    Michelle

    Great poem and so relatable. Sometimes we think we know someone and we really don’t.

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    1. Pooja G Avatar
      Pooja G

      Thanks. Yes, sometimes people are really good at hiding their true selves.

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  31. Brewing Blogging Avatar
    Brewing Blogging

    This is the poem 💔

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    1. Pooja G Avatar
      Pooja G

      💔

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  32. Mr. Ohh's Sideways View Avatar
    Mr. Ohh’s Sideways View

    OUCH!!! 🤣😎🙃

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    1. Pooja G Avatar
      Pooja G

      😂

      Reply

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