Why Writing Is Hard (Guest Post)

Why Writing Is Hard

Why Writing Is Hard By E. S. Foster

There’s a lot that goes into writing. Sometimes, it’s difficult to keep going when there is so much to take care of and so many techniques to practice. It’s easy to get discouraged when things don’t go the way you want them to. But why is writing so difficult? How do you handle discouragement when things get hard? Here are a few good reasons why writing is hard and what to do about it. 

It’s More than just Writing

For one thing, there’s more to writing than just words. Besides editing, outlining, worldbuilding, and putting an entire novel together, writers have to tackle thoughts of self-doubt and stress. It becomes difficult to write when negative thoughts get in the way. 

It’s not simple to just push the negative feelings aside. But there are a couple of things you can do to keep yourself focused on writing instead of the things that hold you back. 

1) Your writing will get better. All writers begin from the beginning, and their writing starts out rough. Allow yourself to make mistakes. Eventually you’ll see progress. 

2) You’re stronger than those thoughts. The fact that you’re making progress proves this because you’re fighting against them. You need to fight them every day, but as long as you show up and keep moving forward, you’ll prove those thoughts wrong. 

Want to combat writing anxiety? Check out my post on writing anxiety here

Writing Takes Practice, Not Perfection

Hemingway once said, “We are all apprentices in a craft where no one ever becomes a master.” 

Good writers never stop trying to better themselves. However, when they expect perfection, that’s when writing starts to get difficult for them. 

Writing takes lots of practice, but it can be difficult and discouraging when the words just won’t appear, or something isn’t quite right. When writers obsess over small details, writing becomes much harder than it needs to be. There are a few things to keep in mind to stop obsessing over perfection:

1) You have time. Your work doesn’t need to be great right away. And eventually the only thing you can do is let things go and know you did your best.

2) You’re getting better. The more you write, the more you practice. And the more you practice, the better you get at writing. When you look back, you’ll see the progress you made. 

3) Other people will still like your work. Even if you don’t think it’s “perfect” that doesn’t mean it’s bad. Chances are others will look at it and enjoy what you wrote. No matter what, you should feel proud for completing a piece. 

We Put a Lot of Pressure on Ourselves

This one is probably the most obvious. Writers are their own worst enemies when it comes to writing. So when they sit down to write, they engage with their self-doubt, believing they aren’t good enough, smart enough, or experienced enough to write what they’re currently working on. 

All of these different fears work to keep writers from moving forward. So in this case the writing itself isn’t difficult. It’s just difficult because writers make it that way. 

You can cut out a lot of the difficulty when you get out of your own way. When you sit down to write, remember the following:

1) You’re practicing the art of writing, not the art of being perfect at writing

2) You’re supposed to learn from your mistakes, practice, and keep trying. Otherwise there’s no challenge to better your craft or any room for growth.

Sometimes putting words down is difficult. But you can make things easier on yourself. Don’t engage with your self-doubt and know that you don’t have to be perfect. Pretty soon you’ll realize that you’ve made tons of progress. 

Happy writing!

About The Author

E. S. Foster is a fiction writer and graduate student at the University of Cambridge. Her work has appeared and is forthcoming in multiple literary journals, including Aberration Labyrinth, Alien Dimensions, and MetaStellar. Her chapbooks have been published by Yavanika Press (2022) and Ghost City Press (2023). You can find more of her articles at E. S. Foster.


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63 responses to “Why Writing Is Hard (Guest Post)”

  1. I agree, sometimes, writing is very hard, but we do it because we love it, well I speak for myself, I love it, and I enjoy the challenge. X

    1. I think what’s most important is that you love what you do!

    2. I agree. If I didn’t love it, I probably would have stopped writing long ago. Thanks for reading!

    3. That is what the “A.I.” people don’t understand. We WANT to do the writing ourselves.

  2. It is very true that we are our own worst enemy. 🤷‍♀️

    1. For sure, I agree with that point too 😩

  3. Good post
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    Aum Shanti

    1. Glad you enjoyed it 😀

    2. Thank you for reading!

  4. A great article and advice for all writers.

    1. Glad you enjoyed the post.

    2. Thanks for reading!

  5. Positive and constructive advice there…

    1. Glad you enjoyed the post.

    2. Thanks for reading!

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  7. sic
    hence
    why do you write?

    1. Thinking about why we write definitely helps us want to write more.

      1. more than that Pooja. you are good at it . it is your God given talent. but you too , are trying to earn bucks. that s the hard part, translating your talent into money. difficult!

        1. Thanks. It’s particularly difficult right now because I’m not even making enough from writing so I’m freelancing which takes up too much time and then I don’t have enough time to write.

          1. time is never a mulligan. precious. so what takes precidence Pooja. that s an adult question and decision. good luck of course. higest hopes and well wishes too!

  8. An excellent and helpful post, E.S. Foster and Pooja. I feel writers put too much pressure on themselves and we can be our own worst enemy.

    1. So glad you enjoyed it. Yes, that’s so true. I think many of us can be perfectionists but as E.S. Foster mentioned, it’s not about being perfect.

    2. I definitely struggle with perfectionism still, but it’s important to remember that every draft starts out rough and there’s time for editing later.

      1. I completely agree, ES.

  9. Thanks for the support, Pooja. Although writing can be difficult, it’s also very rewarding. We desire to craft our tales and must not lose sight of that. You’re an incredible writer. Grateful for you sis.

    1. Thanks and always grateful for you too. I’m so glad you enjoyed the post, E.S. Foster did a great job with it.

    2. I love the way you worded that. Thanks for reading!

      1. You’re welcomed 🙂

  10. for them that can. writing is ez. do it. writers write.

  11. Good points and you’re right–it takes time to learn the skill. Many think they can simply sit down with a pen and paper and jot their thoughts.

    1. Absolutely it takes time and a lot of practice to get better at writing.

    2. They can just sit down and write; they just have to understand the result is a rough draft.

  12. Well written and much appreciated viewpoints! The Hemingway quote is a positively brilliant addition. Writing is hard, therapeutic, and rewarding! 🙂 Thank you for sharing ~ <3

    1. Happy to share it, so glad you enjoyed the post!

    2. I mostly write SF/F, but every couple of years I write something that is pure therapy (and thus usually sarcastic).

  13. great advice, Pooja….thanks to you and E.S Foster for sharing this…🤍

    1. Happy to share it, thank you 💕

  14. Wow! I love this🤩. So insightful! I’ve saved it to read again and again. Thank you for sharing.

    1. So glad you enjoyed it 😊

  15. “Even if you don’t think it’s “perfect” that doesn’t mean it’s bad.” – so true – keep writing people! Linda xx

    1. Yes, perfectionism shouldn’t stop us. Plus, practice helps a lot so even if it’s not good enough we should keep writing till we get better. Thanks for commenting!

    2. The perfect is the enemy of the good. I don’t remember who said that before.

  16. Yes so correct, ideas and thoughts are only small part of the story; building the narrative, editing, grammar…and foremost ” will this connect to the reader”

    1. So glad you agree, thanks for reading the post.

    2. Honestly, I’m can’t be sure what specifically connects to readers. All we can do is be honest and hope if we drill deep enough into ourselves we find our common humanity.

  17. This is all relatable. We put our heart and soul as well as our passion in our writing. Good post, Pooja.

    1. Yes, we really do. So glad you enjoyed the post.

  18. Loving this post! So relatable 🙌

    1. So glad you enjoyed it! 😊

  19. You forgot what I think is very important. “Don’t over think and let it flow” Sure it might be gibberish but that’s what editing is for. 🤣😎🙃

    1. Very true, sometimes just letting the words flow helps so much!

    2. I have a writer friend slowed down by her perfectionism, but she did get five novels published before her career ran out. I have another friend who was so hindered by perfectionism, he never finished his novel; he mostly wrote poetry.

  20. Apparently the hardest thing for me to write is a convincing query letter.

    1. I think a lot of people can relate that.

  21. Incouraging words

    1. Glad you enjoyed the post.

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