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Would You Still Love Me?

Would you still love me?

Would you still love me

If I showed you the real me

The true me

I think you would hate me

Even loathe me

If the real me

That I keep hidden in me

Came out and became me

Would you still love me?

Would You Still Love Me?

I think this is something I ask myself a lot. As a lot of you know, I started blogging as a teenager. This was many moons ago. And blogging for so many years showed me there are so many aspects of my personality. But it also meant I know exactly how to be the person I need to be depending on who I’m talking to. I think that’s pretty normal for most of us. We all sort of change a little depending on who we’re with. But sometimes I wonder how many people would actually like me if I was the real me 24/7. 

I don’t know if this makes sense. I may just be rambling nonsensically. I’ve been busy as you can probably tell from the lack of post yesterday (sorry!).  But enough about me, myself and I. Even though that’s why this blog is here lol. I have a question for my readers today, do you think you would like me if you knew the real me? Both the good and the bad combined? And do you think people do or would like the real you? Let me know in the comments below because this is something I’ve been thinking a lot about lately. Or simply stop by and say hi!

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142 responses to “Would You Still Love Me?”

  1. Brian, Snarebox Avatar
    Brian, Snarebox

    I would still love you even if you smelled like wet dogs

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    1. DEVANG UPADHYAYA Avatar
      DEVANG UPADHYAYA

      😝

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    2. Pooja G Avatar
      Pooja G

      Lol, thank you 🐶

      Reply
  2. Rita Avatar
    Rita

    I think the more you let yourself show the more you find your true friends. You get to a point in life where it doesn’t really matter what other people think. (I’m still so young 😜 and waiting to get to that point!) JK. Actually, I care less and less the more years that pass by. ‘Cause honestly, I’m awesome and if you don’t think so, that’s on you!

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    1. Pooja G Avatar
      Pooja G

      I think you’re right because I care a lot less than I did as a teenager about what others think of me. Maybe over time I won’t care at all. Thanks and you’re far from old lol!

      Reply
    2. Susi Bocks Avatar
      Susi Bocks

      What Rita said!

      Reply
  3. John Avatar
    John

    I would love to meet you and spend some time with you, Pooja! Really get to know you. ❤️

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    1. Pooja G Avatar
      Pooja G

      Aw thanks, I think we would get alone well ❤️

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      1. John Avatar
        John

        Me too. ☺️

        Reply
  4. TheUnknownReilly Avatar
    TheUnknownReilly

    Yeah. I’ve known you through here and online for a couple years and I feel I know you well.

    But… The distance is too much (emotional & physical). I appreciate having you as a friend 🙂. Hope this current darkness you’re in resolves.

    Reply
    1. Pooja G Avatar
      Pooja G

      Yeah, I think sometimes when we don’t meet someone in person we don’t know them fully even if we know them well. Appreciate having you as a friend too and thank you 😊

      Reply
  5. Tamara Kulish from https://tamarakulish.com/ Avatar
    Tamara Kulish from https://tamarakulish.com/

    Do it! Be you, fiercely you! Our mental health suffers when we try to keep hiding from everyone, instead of just taking the risk to be ourselves. Yes, some people may be offended if they see the real you, but are they in the tribe you really belong in? 🤔

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    1. Pooja G Avatar
      Pooja G

      Thank you! I agree, it’s so important for our mental health to be ourselves. I’m trying really hard to work on being more myself 😊

      Reply
  6. Karima Hoisan Avatar
    Karima Hoisan

    It’s an interesting question, Pooja and I am not really sure I know the real me and I am Old now:) but I still surprise myself. I think I have been revealing the real me through my poetry and just recently what counts as “Real Life Real Me” but I think what you see in my poetry and comments, Is the real me. Unless you were a hidden serial killer or cruel or unkind, I bet I could handle knowing the real you:) I sense you have good sentiments and care about people:)

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    1. Pooja G Avatar
      Pooja G

      I think as humans we change very often and we find new aspects of ourselves all the time. Haha thanks so much:)

      Reply
  7. A & J PEI Treasures/E Jean Simpson, BEd, BA, MA Avatar
    A & J PEI Treasures/E Jean Simpson, BEd, BA, MA

    Finally found a back door into the comments. Wouldn’t let me do anything for ages. Perhaps learning to love oneself is more the secret than whether others love you or not. It is all inter-related.

    Reply
    1. A & J PEI Treasures/E Jean Simpson, BEd, BA, MA Avatar
      A & J PEI Treasures/E Jean Simpson, BEd, BA, MA

      Loving oneself and loving others is inter-twined and is not easily separated out.

      Reply
      1. Pooja G Avatar
        Pooja G

        It’s true, the two are very connected.

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    2. Pooja G Avatar
      Pooja G

      I’m so glad to see you back here in the comments. Your comments were missed. I think you’re right, loving yourself is very vital.

      Reply
      1. A & J PEI Treasures/E Jean Simpson, BEd, BA, MA Avatar
        A & J PEI Treasures/E Jean Simpson, BEd, BA, MA

        Thanks. It took me forever to trip over it. It’s a part on WordPress I hadn’t looked at before. Opened stuff up and I can do stuff again. Was very frustrating.

        Reply
        1. Pooja G Avatar
          Pooja G

          I’m sure it was, WordPress doesn’t make things easy for us. But glad you figured out how to get back in.

          Reply
  8. Steve Avatar
    Steve

    I agree with Rita’s comment. Being yourself is the best way to attract love, whether romantic or platonic. It’s just simpler!

    I think I am (mostly) the real me at this stage on my life, and I’m getting to the stage where it’s less of an issue to seek people who like me. Either they will or they won’t, and for me the most important part is how I feel about me. From that foundation, I am more likely to be read/understood and liked.

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    1. Pooja G Avatar
      Pooja G

      Yeah, I think so. It’s best to just be yourself!

      I think as adults we’re more comfortable with being ourselves. When I was younger I was not really myself but the older I get the better I have become at being me.

      Reply
  9. WellsFiction Avatar
    WellsFiction

    I love always love you and follow you to the ends of the earth friend 🙂

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    1. Pooja G Avatar
      Pooja G

      Aw thanks so much, love you too my dear friend 😊

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      1. WellsFiction Avatar
        WellsFiction

        Thank you so so much!!! Writers forever!!!

        Reply
        1. Pooja G Avatar
          Pooja G

          You’re welcome! Absolutely!

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  10. DEVANG UPADHYAYA Avatar
    DEVANG UPADHYAYA

    Ohhh I infact do love you 😍
    Not just because you are my favorite blogger
    Not just because you are so helpful always
    Not just because you are beautiful from inside and out( without make-up I don’t know 😝)

    But, you are dear friend. Whenever, I talk to you, I feel I am talking to a dear friend. Who believes in lifting others. Who actually cares about people, rather than posting randomly.

    I would love to meet you some day, although I will be speechless in admiration.
    But yes, would infact like to meet you some day.
    You seem harmless 😝
    And an amazing person to hang out with.

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    1. Pooja G Avatar
      Pooja G

      Wow, thanks, that’s so kind of you to say. I definitely think we have become friends thanks to this platform and it would definitely be lovely to meet in person someday. India isn’t far away so you never know 🤷🏻‍♀️

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      1. DEVANG UPADHYAYA Avatar
        DEVANG UPADHYAYA

        Well you do have Indian roots

        Maybe you will visit it someday.

        I just want an autograph when we meet.
        Even if you don’t acknowledge me as a friend, I’m a friend and you cannot get rid of me now.

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        1. Pooja G Avatar
          Pooja G

          Lol don’t worry you’re definitely a friend now 😅

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          1. DEVANG UPADHYAYA Avatar
            DEVANG UPADHYAYA

            Okay 😝

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  11. Jeremy Kamwaro Avatar
    Jeremy Kamwaro

    Remaining yourself always, reveals who other people are

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    1. Pooja G Avatar
      Pooja G

      Very true.

      Reply
      1. Jeremy Kamwaro Avatar
        Jeremy Kamwaro

        For sure

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  12. Vidah Avatar
    Vidah

    I would definitely like to know the real Pooja, and i am pretty sure i’ll love the real you.

    I don’t know if people would like the real me😅🤷

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    1. DEVANG UPADHYAYA Avatar
      DEVANG UPADHYAYA

      Well….
      So far you are good girl.

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      1. Vidah Avatar
        Vidah

        Thank you 🤗

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    2. Pooja G Avatar
      Pooja G

      Aw thanks so much! I don’t know about everyone but I think I would like the real you 😊

      Reply
      1. Vidah Avatar
        Vidah

        So glad to hear that ☺️

        Reply
  13. Ludmilla Louissaint Avatar
    Ludmilla Louissaint

    People tend to love only the facets they want to see or manipulate in someone. No one is perfect. We have thousands of layers. And we show these layers depending on who we are with. We have an angelic, kind, respectful and even evil side. Depending on the person you are with, if they truly accept you, they will love the real you.

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    1. Pooja G Avatar
      Pooja G

      I very much agree. Many people only love you when you’re the person they want you to be but it’s never that simple.

      Reply
  14. Joseph Glidden Avatar
    Joseph Glidden

    Your poem, to me, speaks to insecurities and a search for validation. I think it is a natural thing in an early-stage relationship, but it could turn to clinginess which I know from experience women flee from, men less so, lol.
    We all have parts of ourselves that we keep hidden away; as long as you are not an AI brain-eating zombie or have a penchant for eating human flesh, you are fairly normal, in my opinion. The Billy Joel song “The Stanger” puts it nicely.
    As for me, in my younger years, I was very sarcastic, which many people don’t know how to take. I have toned it down a lot in the last 15 years, mostly because of changing corporate culture. It is all about the audience you are in.
    Some say when a person is drunk, it brings out the true character. A friend said she liked me better when I was drunk because I was a fun and happy drunk, lol.
    Another friend said she likes how I see the world in a unique and different way than most people.

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    1. Pooja G Avatar
      Pooja G

      True, during the start of relationships we’re more concerned about pleasing the other person and making sure they like you.
      Yes, we all have good and bad. That’s exactly what I was talking about. Different situations require you to behave differently. I don’t think it’s possible to always say what you’re thinking out loud in ever situation. I’m the opposite lol, I’m a sad drunk.

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  15. SelmaMartin Avatar
    SelmaMartin

    I believe that in our lives we wear different hats–for different situations. Guess, what, I also believe they ALL represent us. Oh yes, they do!! All authentic. And not only you–allof us. I would love you regardless. It’s a deep question. I already love the hat you’re wearing that you let me see. I see you and like you. Blessings, Pooja. Be YOU!!

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    1. Pooja G Avatar
      Pooja G

      Absolutely, I think our personalities have so many aspects and we behave differently depending on the situation we’re in. Thank you so much!

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      1. SelmaMartin Avatar
        SelmaMartin

        Always a pleasure. You are authentic. Stay as you are. XoXo

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  16. Milena Alien Avatar
    Milena Alien

    Love is a hard topic, I don’t consider myself an expert at all when it comes to love. Bur I know for a fact that loving someone means acceptance and respect. Loving others is accepting their limitations and respecting their weaknesses, I didn’t mean to preach here but it’s so tempting:

    ‘Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It does not dishonour others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, and it keeps no record of wrongs.’

    As for real me, people can love or hate me, it will never change who I am. I will be myself with or without their approval (or disapproval). Haters will hate. Lovers will love even if you are tired of them by now, lol
    Carpe Diem!

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    1. Pooja G Avatar
      Pooja G

      I very much agree with you. As humans we all have the good and bad in us and to love successfully we have to accept the good and bad in others. Too bad that many are unable to do that.

      Carpe Diem is a good way to live!

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      1. Milena Alien Avatar
        Milena Alien

        It’s a skill we are learning to have, sometimes it’s easier said than done, yet we have to keep trying

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  17. Destiny Avatar
    Destiny

    “do you think you would like me if you knew the real me…”

    Is there more 😋
    I think when a person writes the way you do… it’s real already.
    We’ve read
    the good the bad
    the sad and happy
    the angry… (we would be scared to make you angry😋)
    the humor(my favorite)
    and so much more you share.
    It reads authentic to me🤍
    … and everyone is entitled to the the flip side of their coin 😉

    so, to answer your question 😋
    is there still more😋

    love your poem🤍🤗

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    1. Pooja G Avatar
      Pooja G

      Aw thanks a lot. I think through writing we show so much more of ourselves than in person. At least that’s how it is got me 🤷🏻‍♀️ Haha yes, there’s still some more of me no one has seen 😅

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      1. Destiny Avatar
        Destiny

        you welcome, Pooja. 😉

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  18. Sadje Avatar
    Sadje

    I think it’s the biggest challenge we face; too love/ like ourselves as we are and not wish we were different.

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    1. Pooja G Avatar
      Pooja G

      I very much agree, loving ourselves is very difficult but I think that’s the most important love of all.

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      1. Sadje Avatar
        Sadje

        Absolutely right.

        Reply
  19. Opher Avatar
    Opher

    Our personalities have many facets and some of them are dark. We all have dark sides. The art of life is to cyultivate the good and allow the dark to wither. We love the self we really are because the core is good, good, good. So, yes we would!

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    1. Pooja G Avatar
      Pooja G

      I very much agree, our personalities are not just black and white there’s so much in between. It’s best to nourish the good parts and continue to grow. Thanks!

      Reply
  20. kounselling Avatar
    kounselling

    we all feel that way at that age… I imagine… Because what else would we do with the rest of our lives but to learn to love ourselves just as we are… And I am sure you will too…

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    1. Pooja G Avatar
      Pooja G

      Thanks, that’s something I’m working on right now. The good news is I’ve made a lot of progress. I love myself much more now than ever before.

      Reply
  21. David Booker Avatar
    David Booker

    We are who we are and the total sum is the real you. Until a person is truly connected to another we only show the sides that are agreeable to that person or to society as a whole. I would prefer to know the whole person. So, yes.

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    1. Pooja G Avatar
      Pooja G

      True, we only show small parts of ourselves to most people but the real us is always there. I’m the same way and would prefer to see all of someone rather than small parts of them.

      Reply
  22. Jaye Marie and Anita Dawes Avatar
    Jaye Marie and Anita Dawes

    The real me has been buried for so long, I don’t know if it could be dragged out of hiding…

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    1. Pooja G Avatar
      Pooja G

      Unfortunately, that’s the case for many people…

      Reply
  23. Bookstooge Avatar
    Bookstooge

    Would someone still like me if they knew the real me?
    I think being comfortable with who you are is a big part of that equation. Once I learn to accept that I’m introvert who would rather stay in than go out, then I can use that as a foundation. and once I accept who I really am, I can let others see that without the fear of rejection.

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    1. Pooja G Avatar
      Pooja G

      True, how we see and accept ourselves is very connected with how we are around others.

      Reply
  24. Stella Reddy Avatar
    Stella Reddy

    Great poem! Yes, Pooja, I think I would like the real you. Your honesty comes through your writing and the things you write about are meaningful. We all have bad parts, but I know that if someone cares enough, they will accept them with all the good as well.
    As for me, the people who know me like who I am, good and bad. I have changed a lot the past few years, become a bit more cynical and it shows unfortunately, but I am working on that…

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    1. Pooja G Avatar
      Pooja G

      Thanks so much! I agree, if someone truly loves you they’ll love all of you.
      It’s hard not to become cynical these days but with some inner work we can become better/more positive.

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      1. Stella Reddy Avatar
        Stella Reddy

        Thanks Pooja, I am working on being more positive and having more positive experiences…hope you are having a great week!

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        1. Pooja G Avatar
          Pooja G

          Good luck with that and thank you, have a great week too!

          Reply
  25. meghanmisguided Avatar
    meghanmisguided

    Beautifully written, you say what a lot of us are thinking

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    1. Pooja G Avatar
      Pooja G

      Thank you so much.

      Reply
  26. Shraddha Govekar Avatar
    Shraddha Govekar

    Ahh that’s an interesting question Pooja. But I feel being real or honest helps us to find true friends isn’t it?
    I don’t know you personally but I follow and read your post from past few weeks and I really think you are talented and hard working girl 🤘🏼🤘🏼

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    1. Pooja G Avatar
      Pooja G

      Thanks and I definitely agree. Being honest is the best way to go 😊

      Reply
  27. Eugi Avatar
    Eugi

    I feel we need to embrace ourselves for who we are and not be concerned with what others think. It took years for me not to worry about what others think of me. I would like to get to know you better, Pooja, because you are sincere and have a beautiful soul.💖

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    1. Pooja G Avatar
      Pooja G

      True, it’s important to embrace ourselves and who we truly are. Thanks so much and right back at you too 💖

      Reply
      1. Eugi Avatar
        Eugi

        💖

        Reply
  28. David Avatar
    David

    I think I would recognize myself in the “real you”. I would say “same. me too”. And I think I already recognize you, already see you, too.

    We’re all broken. Some of us just try to hide it more than others.

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    1. Pooja G Avatar
      Pooja G

      Thank you, it’s always nice to know we’re not alone.

      Reply
  29. Divya Goyal Avatar
    Divya Goyal

    This post makes me realize that I’m probably a people pleaser…

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    1. Pooja G Avatar
      Pooja G

      I am too ☹️

      Reply
  30. Poet of the Light Avatar
    Poet of the Light

    I would say yes, in general terms assuming, you allowed the real you to be seen unfiltered but I read this as rhetorical statement, not as a question as I found love has a mind and nature of its own and I- merely its eager and tangible servant.

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    1. Pooja G Avatar
      Pooja G

      That’s true, love is not something we can really control.

      Reply
  31. Maryanne Avatar
    Maryanne

    I think liking people goes beyond their flaws; it’s more about connection and give/take.
    Example, I can think someone is the greatest, most admirable person in the world, but if they are just “me-me-me” and show ZERO interest in me as a person; as a friend, then I’m not interested and I distance myself, no longer into being friends.
    Of course you have to have common ground, but I do have friends that I have hardly anything in common with — we just like and respect each other.
    One of my best friends died during the pandemic. We’d get into fights with each other, that is normal, but deep down we knew we loved each other as friends, so we’d always make up and it was like nothing bad ever happened. We never missed a beat. Now that he’s gone, I still say he was a stubborn person, but he made me laugh so hard and was so good-hearted.
    If people dislike you for your flaws, just let it go, they are not the right people for you. (ESPECIALLY when you get successful, people may find reasons to dislike you because they get jealous it’s not happening to them. That’s a truth they never teach you in school, and they should. Other successful people have agreed with me on this!)

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    1. Pooja G Avatar
      Pooja G

      I agree, often it’s about mutual respect for one another. If someone cares about you and you care about them then you can be friend or more. If someone just keeps taking but never giving back it’s not going to work.
      Yeah, sometimes jealous people can be like that. Not everyone is happy for your success.

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  32. rimaparkar Avatar
    rimaparkar

    It depends from person to person. Just try being you 24/7. The ones who truly love you will stay with you no matter what. And those who won’t will show their true colors sooner or later.

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    1. Pooja G Avatar
      Pooja G

      Thanks and that’s good advice.

      Reply
  33. iambrotherlove Avatar
    iambrotherlove

    it starts with learning to also love yourself [which can be tough at times] and learning to improve who you are, and regardless of the bad side anyone may have, the right people will love you and will continue to do so 😀

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    1. Pooja G Avatar
      Pooja G

      I absolutely agree, the first thing is accepting and loving ourselves. And the right people will find you 😊

      Reply
  34. Yaksh singh Avatar
    Yaksh singh

    It’s all about how you see and look yourself and How you feel when you are just with you! And talking about you I think that you are very beautiful by heart and yes we all will always admire you and learn a lot from such great Blogger! And as I said earlier, we are all always there for you😌🤘😁

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    1. Pooja G Avatar
      Pooja G

      True, how we see ourselves is important. Thanks so much! 😊

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      1. Yaksh singh Avatar
        Yaksh singh

        Absolutely point said Pooja! Really true and most welcome😊😁

        Reply
  35. Janice Reid Avatar
    Janice Reid

    Hey, there is good and bad in all of us and eventually if we get to know someone long enough, we will see both sides. People like each other good and bad unless you are a jerk who is mostly bad than good, then you’re on your own😊.

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    1. Pooja G Avatar
      Pooja G

      I agree, we all have good and bad and much of the bad can be looked past 😊

      Reply
  36. utahan15 Avatar
    utahan15

    swear you saw me standing there
    care oh my
    you re the babe
    of ma dreams
    it seems
    ha!

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    1. Pooja G Avatar
      Pooja G

      😀

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      1. utahan15 Avatar
        utahan15

        i dig a pony. a pgymy well do tell. a roadhog a road block penetration is the key. see the intrepetation is subject to mood for ya day. ok?

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        1. Pooja G Avatar
          Pooja G

          I feel like everything is subject to ones mood lol.

          Reply
  37. Manoj Mehra Avatar
    Manoj Mehra

    I think it will be mixed reaction. If you show your true side, some people will like you and some people won’t. The people who are themselves real, like those who are real.

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    1. Pooja G Avatar
      Pooja G

      True, I think some people like the real you and some don’t.

      Reply
  38. Kevin Avatar
    Kevin

    No-one is one-dimensional – it’s the multifaceted nature that makes a personality worth exploring.

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    1. Pooja G Avatar
      Pooja G

      I agree, our personalities are multifaceted and also continuously changing.

      Reply
  39. Doug Avatar
    Doug

    I don’t know. I think we’re born real but not with a developed personality. What we are taught and experience about love and hate makes us unreal. To be the real me, I’d have to unlearn a lot of lessons. I don’t think I’d want to see everything you’ve accumulated. I think many things we’ve learned are not real or are untrue. The real essence of us deserves for good things to happen. I noticed the “imposter syndrome” tag, so in countering that, you deserve whatever good things have come your way.

    Reply
    1. Pooja G Avatar
      Pooja G

      True, we’re sort of a blank slate and we learn about life and develop our personalities accordingly. Thanks so much.

      Reply
  40. Ranjana Avatar
    Ranjana

    I don’t judge people quickly and I also take time to open up to people. I mean I only started interacting actively with bloggers after 8 months ( that’s the height of introversion ). But I only recognise people from their actions and their vibe. I guess I will like you if I knew the real you. 😊

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    1. Pooja G Avatar
      Pooja G

      I’m quite introverted too, I keep a lot of stuff inside. So I definitely understand. Thanks, I think I would like the real you as well 😊

      Reply
  41. Geoff Stamper Avatar
    Geoff Stamper

    I think most people would be surprised at how much others already know about their friends. Many of my friends date from when we were in high school and college. We all know who the bullshitters are. We know who is vain, who exaggerates, who lies about certain things. If the flaws are showstoppers, you disconnect but if your good qualities outweigh the human flaws, true friends can be very forgiving. You fool less people than you think.

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    1. Pooja G Avatar
      Pooja G

      It’s true, a lot of people catch on and start to see the real you over time. I think with real life friends, I’m pretty much myself. Especially with high school and university friends.

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      1. haoyando Avatar
        haoyando

        Well, if I loudly announce what I really believe in the conservative community here, I know I will be “banished”. LOL. For example, I can just say “women should spend time taking care of themselves rather than cooking” int the grocery store here and I would be “stoned” to metaphysical death by angry shoppers.

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        1. Pooja G Avatar
          Pooja G

          Lol, I totally get it. You just have to keep some stuff to yourself otherwise no one will speak to you again.

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    2. haoyando Avatar
      haoyando

      I tend to get carried away by other people’s posing and exaggeration. Only recently I have become more discerning. It is paradoxical though since I always have misgivings just about everything.

      Reply
  42. Gertrude_n Avatar
    Gertrude_n

    Am one of those people who like knowing the good and bad about others, so yes I would still love you. 😊

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    1. Pooja G Avatar
      Pooja G

      Aw thank you 😊

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      1. Gertrude_n Avatar
        Gertrude_n

        You are welcome.😊

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  43. Shahbaz Ashraf Avatar
    Shahbaz Ashraf

    Hi Pooja! Great poem as always. However, what’s wrong with your blog? It doesn’t appear in my Reader. And when I try to search your site by typing Lifesfinewhine, it doesn’t show either. What’s going on?

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    1. Pooja G Avatar
      Pooja G

      Wow, that’s so odd. Everything seems to work on my end but I’ll double check just in case. It may be an issue on your end though. Did you use the “Search Followed Sites” option or the regular “Search” option?

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      1. Shahbaz Ashraf Avatar
        Shahbaz Ashraf

        I used search followed site option.

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        1. Pooja G Avatar
          Pooja G

          So it seems you’re no longer following my site, I checked in my subscribers list. Sometimes WP automatically unfollows sites so try re-following me.

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  44. Interesting Blogs Avatar
    Interesting Blogs

    👍👍👍👍👍👍

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      Pooja G

      😊

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  46. Baydreamer - Lauren Scott Avatar
    Baydreamer – Lauren Scott

    I think your poem reflects what we all think at times. Letting the mask drop is a scary process. But being true to ourselves and allowing others to see that truth will bring authentic people into our circle. Anyone who wants us to be someone else isn’t someone we should want in our circle. 💞

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    1. Pooja G Avatar
      Pooja G

      Thanks so much and I definitely agree. Being the real you is tough but way more worth it because you find out who likes the real you.

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        Baydreamer – Lauren Scott

        🤗❤️

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  47. Shaunelius Sterns Avatar
    Shaunelius Sterns

    Absolutely 😀

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    1. Pooja G Avatar
      Pooja G

      Thanks 😊

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  48. Pennie Nelson Avatar
    Pennie Nelson

    I like you as much as I know you on here. But I bet in person you can be a lot of fun when you are feeling good about yourself. You seem like a beautiful person inside and out but have times of uncertainty much like many of us. Like me, I feel that I am a good person, but because of my mental illnesses, I can be an emotional handful sometimes. Much love to you Pooj.

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    1. Pooja G Avatar
      Pooja G

      Thanks, that’s really means a lot. Yes, it’s true due to our mental illness it can be difficult to be around us sometimes. Unfortunately, this is how it is but from what I have seen the people who care stay.

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  49. Belladonna Avatar
    Belladonna

    Love this poem girl!!! The real one will love you even if you look like you were just hit by a bus! LOL

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    1. Pooja G Avatar
      Pooja G

      Lol thank you!

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  50. dustyreviewer Avatar
    dustyreviewer

    This is really good! I am reminded though that the “real” version of anyone is not the darkness inside, or even the light inside, but the one of those two that he or she chooses to share. We are defined by our choices. Sometimes though when you find out a person has a lot of darkness inside, it makes it easier to appreciate light they choose to share.

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    1. Pooja G Avatar
      Pooja G

      Thanks so much. True, oftentimes the real us is a mix of the light and darkness. That’s why I think seeing the darker sides of someone can help us appreciate the light more.

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        dustyreviewer

        For sure. If you know that someone is basically a monster on the inside, but decides to share the 2% of them that’s light, that’s something to be appreciated more deeply. The choice to share the good means more because they have to work harder to do it.

        That said, all of the above is wrong if they’re cleverly luring you into a state of complacency.

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          Pooja G

          Oh yeah, of course. They need to genuinely try to be good people otherwise it’s not worth involving yourself with them.

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  51. marouabourni Avatar
    marouabourni

    Lovely poem 💘

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    1. Pooja G Avatar
      Pooja G

      So glad you liked it 😊

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  52. Mr. Ohh's Sideways View Avatar
    Mr. Ohh’s Sideways View

    Frankly you should never Not show the real you. But if he wouldn’t love you if you did, then he’s not worth you. 🤣😎🙃

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    1. Pooja G Avatar
      Pooja G

      True, if someone doesn’t love the real us they’re not worth it 😅

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  54. dylan6111 Avatar
    dylan6111

    Excellent

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    1. Pooja G Avatar
      Pooja G

      Thanks so much.

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