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The Woman In Me

The Woman In Me

A natural born performer

That’s what they called her

Her blonde hair and blue eyes

Stole hearts all over the world

But behind the scenes

She had no one to love

No one to rely on

Forced to live a lonely life

Cursed with talent

Always in the public eye

No privacy or true love

She withered and grew tired

Hid herself away

Controlled by those around her

She never performed again

About “The Woman In Me”:

This poem is a response to fellow blogger, Kevin’s, No Theme Thursday prompt post for this week. He has awesome NTT prompts every week, do check out his blog for more.

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This poem was inspired by Britney Spears’s book The Woman In Me. I recently read this book because a wonderful blogging friend mailed it to me along with another book. Anyway, I found her story so heartbreaking and it’s revolting how so many people in her life did her dirty.

She loved to sing and was in many ways a born performer. But her talent was both a gift and a curse. It’s just so sad how her life turned out and that the more famous she got the worse her life became. And it’s not just her, so many famous people end up deeply lonely and unhappy. It’s so heartbreaking. That’s what this poem is based on.

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94 responses to “The Woman In Me”

  1. Sadje Avatar
    Sadje

    This story is true about many of the stars

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    1. Pooja G Avatar
      Pooja G

      Yes, unfortunately so.

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      1. Sadje Avatar
        Sadje

        Many have even sued their parents/ guardians too

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        1. Pooja G Avatar
          Pooja G

          So true, I don’t think it’s ethical for parents to use their kids for fame anyway.

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          1. Sadje Avatar
            Sadje

            Very true my friend

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  2. Gina Avatar
    Gina

    It’s on my TBR…so maybe in a year or two? Lol. I love your poem. It strikes to the heart of what many performers go through, especially those performing from a young age.

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    1. Pooja G Avatar
      Pooja G

      Thank you, yes I think it’s particularly difficult for those that start very young.

      Reply
  3. John Avatar
    John

    I’m not a beautiful woman but I can relate to living a lonely life, the cumulative effect of a lifetime of experiences…

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    1. Pooja G Avatar
      Pooja G

      Yeah, in a way I feel we get lonelier as we get older.

      Reply
  4. ianscyberspace Avatar
    ianscyberspace

    An excellent poem Pooja. I think actors and performers who choose that lifestyle choose loneliness and the artificial lifestyle that choice promotes that so it’s their choice. Their lifestyle is usually associated with multiple divorces and a feeling the world owes them a living and disappointment when they reach the end of their life and only have a huge house and money in the bank and diminishing following as they age.

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    1. Pooja G Avatar
      Pooja G

      I don’t think it’s always a choice, for example Britney was a child star and was taken to auditions but her parents. But I do understand what you mean, a lot of them knowingly chase fame and then regret it.

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      1. ianscyberspace Avatar
        ianscyberspace

        You are absolutely right in saying parents can be selfish enough to try and project their ambitions through their children and we have too much evidence of that today not only in the artistic world. However, it still comes down to personal choice. We don’t have to follow our parents’ ambitions for us. There are stories of child actors who chose not to follow that course in life and succeeded at what they really wanted to do with their life.

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        1. Pooja G Avatar
          Pooja G

          Yes, that’s true.

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  5. sandysbookaday Avatar
    sandysbookaday

    I think being really beautiful must be a big a hurdle to overcome – people are entranced by the book’s cover, not it’s contents. 💕📚

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    1. Pooja G Avatar
      Pooja G

      Yes, I think when you’re that beautiful people don’t even care about what’s on the inside and that must really suck.

      Reply
  6. Darryl B Avatar
    Darryl B

    Nice. Reminds me of “Candle in the Wind,” by Sir Elton John

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    1. Pooja G Avatar
      Pooja G

      Oh I love that song, thanks.

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  7. Kevin Avatar
    Kevin

    Fantastic poem Pooja and a great commentary on life in the spotlight. Excellent. 👏👏👏

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    1. Pooja G Avatar
      Pooja G

      Thanks so much! 😊

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  8. Carol anne Avatar
    Carol anne

    I have not read her book, but I want to and so I think I will buy it! X

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    1. Pooja G Avatar
      Pooja G

      You should, I really enjoyed it!

      Reply
  9. E.A. Wickham Avatar
    E.A. Wickham

    When I read the poem, I thought it was about Marilyn Monroe, another example.

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    1. Pooja G Avatar
      Pooja G

      Yes, she’s another example of that. She had a terrible life because of her fame.

      Reply
  10. DEVANG UPADHYAYA Avatar
    DEVANG UPADHYAYA

    This was sweet PooG

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    1. Pooja G Avatar
      Pooja G

      Thanks so much.

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      1. DEVANG UPADHYAYA Avatar
        DEVANG UPADHYAYA

        My pleasure 😝

        ( Your typical response to all the thank you on others post 😂)

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        1. Pooja G Avatar
          Pooja G

          😅😅

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  11. travelsavvywanderer Avatar
    travelsavvywanderer

    wow! that’s a great choice Pooja! I like the part, ‘cursed with talent’ – how what should have been your praises and celebrations turned into your downfall…how your strength becomes your weakness..it’s very philosophical actually…

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    1. Pooja G Avatar
      Pooja G

      Thank you! Yes, your strength can quickly become your biggest weakness.

      Reply
  12. byngnigel Avatar
    byngnigel

    It was so sad watching the media feast on her as her personal life became a public disaster. I’m glad the conservatorship crap is finally over, and she can control her own destiny now. I hope life treats her kind this go round the poem was quite sad. At first I was thinking Munroe, but as you said, so many famous people end up so lonely.
    Great writing PoojaG

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    1. Pooja G Avatar
      Pooja G

      Yeah, I’m glad the conservatorship is over too because her parents seem like awful people but she still doesn’t seem okay. I really hope there are people in her life who genuinely care about her and check up on her.
      Thanks so much 😊

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      1. byngnigel Avatar
        byngnigel

        I don’t think she okay at all. I agree with you.. hopefully she has the right supper structures in place.

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  13. thomasstigwikman Avatar
    thomasstigwikman

    I don’t know much about Britney Spears but it is often that way. What seems to be an advantage, like talent, can also be a curse. Talent can lead to success but also attract unwanted attention and demands. It was a great poem.

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    1. Pooja G Avatar
      Pooja G

      Yes, I think it’s like that for many famous people. Talent can often be a gift and a curse. Thanks so much.

      Reply
  14. Joseph Glidden Avatar
    Joseph Glidden

    I have not read the book.
    Your poem captures the sadness perfectly.
    I am curious about the book now.

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    1. Pooja G Avatar
      Pooja G

      Thank you so much. The book is heartbreaking, it brought tears to my eyes from the beginning. She has had a very difficult life but I’m glad she finally gets to share her side of things.

      Reply
  15. Destiny Avatar
    Destiny

    Haven’t read the book … But your poem sums it up so well. ” Cursed with talent”…a sad ring to this…still a beautiful and touching poem, Pooja 🤍💫

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    1. Pooja G Avatar
      Pooja G

      Thanks so much. Yes, unfortunately talent can cause a lot of pain too. 😢

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      1. Destiny Avatar
        Destiny

        sadly so as we see…my pleasure, Pooja 🤗🤍

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  16. Jaye Marie and Anita Dawes Avatar
    Jaye Marie and Anita Dawes

    I have always thought that hers was a very sad story…

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    1. Pooja G Avatar
      Pooja G

      Yes, it really was. From her childhood.

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  17. J M Negi Avatar
    J M Negi

    Excellent poem, and the review tells how nice the book is. Thanks.

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    1. Pooja G Avatar
      Pooja G

      Thanks so much, the book is really great.

      Reply
  18. Anjali Avatar
    Anjali

    It’s such a heartbreaking fact that even though you achieve success and have everything one can ever wish for, you still feel lonely withoutthe presenceof your loved ones………that’s a beautiful poem, Pooja!! ✨️

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    1. Pooja G Avatar
      Pooja G

      Yes, in some ways you become lonelier after achieving success. Thanks so much! 😊

      Reply
  19. Opher Avatar
    Opher

    Success isolates. You do not know who to trust. That’s why Elvis surrounded himself with friends from before he was famous.

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    1. Pooja G Avatar
      Pooja G

      Yes, that’s so true.

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  20. utahan15 Avatar
    utahan15

    empty yet full
    feel the pull?

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    1. Pooja G Avatar
      Pooja G

      Exactly, empty but full.

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      1. utahan15 Avatar
        utahan15

        put on that wilbury cd. insides out. outsides in. dont it make you wanna jump and shout?

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  21. festo_sanjo Avatar
    festo_sanjo

    Definitely, yes! Loneliness is at it’s rise as most things in life are superficial! No real human connection and the world is getting bitter with time. We better not live to other’s expectations

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    1. Pooja G Avatar
      Pooja G

      Yes, I think people focusing on material things I a big part of the issue and why so many people feel so unhappy.

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  22. Narisa Wahlang Avatar
    Narisa Wahlang

    Love the poem Pooja.
    Oh I’d love to read your review of The Woman in Me. I’ve heard so many things about it.
    I don’t usually read autobiographies and I’m still 50/50 with this one.

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    1. Pooja G Avatar
      Pooja G

      Thanks so much. I loved the book, it was so raw and I cried so much while reading it.

      Reply
  23. Anuran & Sayoni Avatar
    Anuran & Sayoni

    This is relatable to many …how many of us know the inside closed door story …an excellent poem from your end completes it..all the best 👍👍

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    1. Pooja G Avatar
      Pooja G

      True, oftentimes we don’t know what’s going on behind closed doors. Thanks so much 😊

      Reply
  24. clcouch123 Avatar
    clcouch123

    Sad ending! Isolated, controlled, not using her talents anymore. But it goes with the real story, so the ending fits. Your poem is an adept look at fame and consequences for the famous. Anyone might, however, go through what she went through. So keep things as healthy as you can!

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    1. Pooja G Avatar
      Pooja G

      Yes, a very sad ending not just for her but many famous people. That’s true, even regular people can experience loneliness and isolation.

      Reply
  25. SiriusSea Avatar
    SiriusSea

    I LOVE your poem and hope that it’s not prophetic …. I think you were able to tap into her psyche and lately, she’s spiraling again. Of course, anything held under a magnifying glass very long is going to feel overexposed. The media enjoys watching her unravel and I’m not sure she is aware enough to know better! You’ve got your finger on the pulse, Pooja <3 !!! Excellent read as always ~ 🙂

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    1. Pooja G Avatar
      Pooja G

      Thanks so much! Yeah, I’ve noticed that she’s been spiralling again. It’s so sad. The media does love it, it gives them something to talk about at her expense. I really hope someone who genuinely cares for her can help her 💕

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  26. Mary K. Doyle Avatar
    Mary K. Doyle

    I can understand that with Brittany Spears, Pooja. She has a sad way about her. I think it is difficult to be famous and happy. Entertainment is an odd world.

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    1. Pooja G Avatar
      Pooja G

      Yes, she had a sad childhood too and most of her life was in front of a camera being controlled by her abusive parents. Especially her alcoholic father. It’s so sad.

      Reply
  27. Steve Avatar
    Steve

    The poem is very good at capturing the misogynistic treatment of many celebrity women like Britney Spears.

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    1. Pooja G Avatar
      Pooja G

      Yes, I think the media love it when women spiral and get so much entertainment at their expense. It’s awful.

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      1. Steve Avatar
        Steve

        It truly is despicable, the different ways women and men are portrayed by the media.

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        1. Pooja G Avatar
          Pooja G

          It’s heartbreaking.

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          1. Steve Avatar
            Steve

            😢

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  28. Belladonna Avatar
    Belladonna

    Such a gr5eat poem about Brittany! I’ve always been such a huge fan of hers.

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    1. Pooja G Avatar
      Pooja G

      Thank you and same here, I love her music!

      Reply
  29. Eugi Avatar
    Eugi

    Such a beautiful and talented woman with such a tortured childhood that continued into her early adulthood. Your poem captures her mixed up life perfectly, Pooja.

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    1. Pooja G Avatar
      Pooja G

      Yes, it’s so sad she had such a tough life. Thank you so much.

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      1. Eugi Avatar
        Eugi

        You’re welcome, Pooja.

        Reply
  30. Baydreamer - Lauren Scott Avatar
    Baydreamer – Lauren Scott

    I haven’t read the book, Pooja, but I’ve heard some of what she has gone through. And your poem expresses the fame and heartbreak perfectly. It is sad how many celebrities’ lives have taken a down turn.

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    1. Pooja G Avatar
      Pooja G

      Yes, she’s been through a lot and so have many famous people. It’s really sad how they get what they want but end up unhappy.

      Reply
  31. Milena Alien Avatar
    Milena Alien

    What a sad poem about a lonely soul out there

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    1. Pooja G Avatar
      Pooja G

      Yes, unfortunately many famous people end up very lonely and isolated.

      Reply
  32. Ludmilla Louissaint Avatar
    Ludmilla Louissaint

    I love your poem 💓!! Very good 💯

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    1. Pooja G Avatar
      Pooja G

      Thank you so much! ☺️

      Reply
  33. Brian, Snarebox Avatar
    Brian, Snarebox

    Elaine read that book too. It’s probably not my cup of tea because I’m not very interested in Britney Spears, but I know she loved it lol. I know a bit about the struggles Spears went through and respect her as a performer; I just only listen to music when it’s angry men shrieking about the devil. 😅 Jk. Mostly.

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    1. Pooja G Avatar
      Pooja G

      Yeah, it’s a sad but amazing book. I’m not her biggest fan to be honest but I did find the book really interesting and I was literally ugly crying so many times because of it lol. Angry men shrieking about the devil is honestly so good, teenage me was obsessed 😅

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      1. Brian, Snarebox Avatar
        Brian, Snarebox

        True, you don’t need to be a fan to sympathize with Britney!

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  34. Bianca Alina Avatar
    Bianca Alina

    Great writing, Pooja! ♥️🌹I loved the poem.

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    1. Pooja G Avatar
      Pooja G

      Thanks so much, so glad you loved it 🥰

      Reply
  35. Layla Todd Avatar
    Layla Todd

    What a poem, Pooja! Heartfelt and poignant.

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    1. Pooja G Avatar
      Pooja G

      Thank you so much!

      Reply
  36. Pramod M Avatar
    Pramod M

    Thoughtful poem, well done Pooja, being a free bird is a great thing and you noted the point that in life’s evening every body in loneliness.

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    1. Pooja G Avatar
      Pooja G

      Thanks so much and yes there’s a lot of loneliness these days.

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      1. Pramod M Avatar
        Pramod M

        You are welcome

        Reply
  37. A & J PEI Treasures/E Jean Simpson, BEd, BA, MA Avatar
    A & J PEI Treasures/E Jean Simpson, BEd, BA, MA

    Well done! The first thing I thought when I started to read it…it sounds like Britney Spears. I know a bit of the story. It’s been a struggle for her for sure!

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    1. Pooja G Avatar
      Pooja G

      Yes, it’s not been easy for her at all.

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  38. Tom Avatar
    Tom

    Very powerful contrast between the outer glamour and sparkle of celebrity and the inner husk of gnawing loneliness. <3 Beautifully expressed here.

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    1. Pooja G Avatar
      Pooja G

      Thank you so much ☺️

      Reply
  39. Jixi Fox Avatar
    Jixi Fox

    🙂

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    1. Pooja G Avatar
      Pooja G

      🙂

      Reply

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