Mistakes That Will Ruin Your Blog

Mistakes That Will Destroy Your Blog

Mistakes That Will Ruin Your Blog

Before we get into mistakes that will ruin your blog, I want to say that I know, I haven’t written an advice post in months. It may even be a year since I wrote my last one. Maybe more. To be honest, advice posts take a lot more time and effort for me since I have to do a lot of research myself as I don’t want to point anyone in the wrong direction by mistake. And that is why I’m sometimes reluctant to share blogging advice posts more often. But at the same time, I know these posts have been quite helpful to those hoping to grow their traffic and following. To this day, I get comments on my blogging advice posts thanking me for sharing the information. And many say that it actually helped them grow their site or blog which makes me so incredibly happy.

So, instead of taking a nap today I decided to work on a blogging advice post. Okay, I took a nap. BUT after that I watched TV for a while… But soon after (two hours later) I decided to start working on a blogging advice post. I went through older posts to see which ones were most popular which lets me know which ones were most helpful. And one of the posts that was quite popular was about blogging mistakes and so I thought I would share some more updated information about blogging mistakes that could ruin your blog.

I hope you find these tips helpful and if you have any questions or anything you would like me to clarify about the stuff I mentioned, do feel free to let me know in the comments below. I’ve tried to keep the post simple and not get too tech-y with it. I know a lot of us aren’t the most tech savvy and I want this to be understandable even for the general reader. Back to the post, here are some mistakes that could ruin your blog:

SEO

For those of you that are unfamiliar with SEO, it stands for Search Engine Optimisation. You can learn more about it here.

SEO is very much a double edged sword. When you begin learning and properly implementing SEO friendly techniques into your blog posts, it can do wonders. It will help you get so much more traffic from search engines, especially over time. And if you are looking to make an income from your blog, it will help clients find your blog and reach out to you for paid partnerships or sponsored content.

However, SEO can also negatively impact your blog or site when implemented incorrectly. If you don’t fully understand what SEO is and what changes are necessary to make your site or blog as well as your content SEO friendly. When making changes, you may actually end up damaging your SEO and lowering your ranking with Search Engines. I always recommend doing ample amounts of research before making any changes. And if you have a Business Plan or another plan that has access to plugins for your blog, use plugins like Yoast SEO or AIOSEO to guide you with making changes on your posts.

If you are nervous about making the changes yourself, you can hire me to make them for you. I have multiple SEO focused services, you can read more about them here.

Related Posts: SEO For Dummies, SEO For Dummies #2, SEO For Dummies #3, SEO For Dummies #4

Related Post: How To Increase Your On-Page SEO

Buying Bots

One thing I tell all my clients and pretty much anyone that is willing to listen to me, please do not buy bot traffic or bot followers. I know it sounds like a great quick fix and an overnight way to get lots of traffic and followers. But it’s a very short term solution and will do more damage than good in the longterm.

Firstly, when you buy traffic, comments and/or followers, you don’t actually do much good for your site. Since all of these are bots, all that happens is that the algorithm thinks you’re popular for a while but soon figures out it’s bots and marks you as spam. Therefore, no longer pushing your content to actual readers.

Furthermore, you will not get any actual interaction so what exactly will be the point of sharing content? Many people buy followers, comments and traffic in the hopes that potential clients will see their stats and hire them. But most people that are hiring have become pretty clever now and can recognise bots when they see them. In fact, I have read multiple articles about how brands, sponsors etc have been preferring to hire micro influencers (10k to 100k followers) instead of bigger ones because their traffic is much more organic and they get better results with smaller influencers.

I know it’s hard to resist sometimes, especially now that WP has made it harder than ever to grow your blog but please reconsider if you’re thinking about buying bots instead of growing your blog organically.

Related: How To Grow Your Blog Organically

Attitude

In all aspects of life, your attitude matters. And I think this is very much true when it comes to blogging as well. I’m not trying to brag or anything (I am) but I think one of the reasons that my blog grew quite quickly and I still get pretty good interaction on my posts despite being very inactive compared to a few years ago is because of my attitude. I try to respond to all the comments I get and be polite in my responses even if I don’t particularly agree with them. I’m not saying be a pushover, yes-man all the time. But don’t be rude. If you don’t like what someone is saying, you have the choice to ignore or even block them.

Also, if someone is taking the time to interact with your post it’s the right thing to do to respond to their comments especially if the comments are positive. WordPress is different from other social media platforms or even other blogging platforms. This is very much an interactive, vibrant community filled with all sorts of people. The best way to grow your blog is to interact and be as active as possible.

On the other hand, the best way to destroy your blog is to isolate yourself from others and not interact at all. Of course, if that’s what you prefer and don’t care about growing your blog then that’s totally up to you. You do you. I know a lot of people just blog as a hobby more than anything else. But if you are looking to grow your blog, you need to be active and polite. Don’t spam people, don’t troll people and don’t bully people.

Thoughts

I know the image says 5 blogging mistakes but I ran out of steam after three. And my hand is still recovering so I’m excused from that little blunder. I hope you enjoyed this post and found it helpful and informative. I tried my best to keep it to the point but you know how I like to ramble on especially when I am passionate about something. Also a heads up, I hope to share weekly blogging posts again like I used to back in the day so if that’s something you find interesting or helpful do be on the lookout for those.

What are some blogging mistakes you wish you had known about sooner? Have you missed my blogging advice posts? Do you think I should do more blogging advice posts- I feel like I haven’t done any in forever? Did you find this post helpful? What is some blogging advice you wish someone had given you? Let me know in the comments below because I would absolutely love to hear your thoughts on this post. Or simply stop by and say hi!


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106 responses to “Mistakes That Will Ruin Your Blog”

  1. Not posting regular is. Another blog killer and im guilty of it…

    1. I think a lot of bloggers have that issue because sometimes life gets very busy and it’s difficult to make blogging a priority.

      1. I get that way and also get discouraged from time to time as well, mostly because of lack of feed back. It happens in real life as well though too

        1. Yeah, I think that is something many people experience. Especially with blogging. Feedback and interactions help keep us motivated.

  2. I’ve no idea about SEO so I never did anything about it. I do comment and engage on my blog and on the blogs of those I follow.

    1. I think even just being active on WP and engaging with other blogs helps a lot.

      1. Very true my friend, it does.

  3. Great advice, Pooja. 💕📚

    1. Thanks so much 😊💕

  4. This is very useful advice. I don’t know much about SEO or this topic in general and I see you have a lot of posts that are useful that I have not read yet but I will.

    1. Thanks so much. Yes, do check out those posts and I hope they’ll help you with growing your blog.

  5. Responding to comments when stressed out about real life has never worked out well for me. Thankfully Mrs B is usually sitting right next to me and has pulled me back from that cliff several times. So now I’ve learned to be much more careful when I’m stressing about non-blog things, because it affects my blogging.

    1. That’s very nice of her to do that, it helps to have someone that’s level headed when we’re not in a good mood.

      1. Yeah, saved myself a lot of grief by running stuff by her.

  6. Thank you for sharing your expertise! You are so informed on things that I’m like “What???!! That’s a thing?” 😁. Yeah.

    I’m trying to accept myself the way I am (totally flawed and imperfect!) You make me feel like I am not alone in anxiety and life stuff, so thank you, friend! So glad to have “met” you on WP! Hope your wrist is all better soon and that life gives you many, many good things!

    1. Happy to share it! It took me years to accumulate all this information 😅
      You are most definitely alone in feeling that way, I hope you’re able to accept yourself just as you are because I think you’re awesome!

      1. Thank you so much! I really needed to hear that. 😭

        1. You’re so welcome, sending virtual hugs!

  7. I’m really glad because I’m following one of the an experience blogger like you Pooja, I’m still new and like others I also not so familiar with SEO, but with useful and informative advice from your article, I will always learn to do better. Thank you Pooja, I learn something today.

    1. Happy to have met you through blogging and so glad this information was helpful.

  8. I enjoy these posts, thanks.

    1. Happy to hear that, thank you.

  9. I usually post three times per day, it used to be a higher number. I am always pleasant when visiting other blogs and am never rude. I’ve never tried the SEO thing, Pooja but blogging is a great way to show my photography. How the site got to over 368K views is beyond me…

    1. That’s great, I think up to 5 times a day helps with SEO and staying active. More than that may be a bit too much. Wow, 368K is impressive- some of that may be from Search Engines if your posts have a good amount of keywords.

      1. I’m sure some are from search engines, hopefully not bots.

  10. Thank you for these important points, Pooja. Someday, I will look into the needed SEO. You are so cute the way you write about your personal thoughts and actions. Hugs to you.

    1. Happy to share it. Yes, do look into SEO when you can because it really helps a lot with growth. Thanks, it’s fun to add some humour to these posts. Hugs.

  11. I feel Attitude is having high importance, it can change the meaning of blog completely.

    1. Absolutely, attitude is very important with blogging.

  12. Sindhu Raveendran Avatar
    Sindhu Raveendran

    Great advice from you. I like the “Attitude” point. “The best way to grow your blog is to interact and be as active as possible.” – This is the best part.

    1. Thanks so much. Absolutely, having a good attitude makes a big difference.

  13. Very useful

    1. Thanks so much.

  14. SMiLes Typically the Poetry Section in Barnes And Noble
    Collects the Most Dust As True It’s Likely Fewer Folks

    Understand Metaphor in Such a Materially Reduced
    World as Science Shows Humans With Average

    Attention Spans of Less than a Gold Fish Yes

    Less than 3 Seconds So Basically
    Even if This is Interesting i’m

    Writing For the Flow of
    Meditative Stream of Consciousness

    And Not Much More Hehe Yet Dear Lord
    Some Folks Never Arrive in that State of
    Being Human Reaching Deep Down and

    Extracting a River Deep From Our Subconscious

    Minds Yes for me at least it’s Naked Enough Whole
    Complete Bliss i Dealt With Target Audiences and

    Unbelievable Amounts of Rules and Regulations Working 25 Years
    For the Federal Government Dear Pooja Now that the Money
    Making Disappeared 16 Years ago Soul Wide Open With No Target

    Audience

    Yet Free

    However i Appreciate
    All the Opportunities Online
    Provides For Folks to Escape
    The 9 to 5 Grind And Some Folks

    (Great Job You Provide in Helping Out!)

    Truly Soar With the Simplest Explanations
    of All Like a Human i Only Became Aware of
    Today as i Saw him advertised at Walmart for

    Several Weeks Now Not Even Realizing ‘Khaby Lame’
    Began His Million Making Career on Tik Tok During the

    Pandemic in Covid19 Lock Down Born in Africa Rising

    To the Creme

    of the Crop

    on Tik Tok

    as he simply
    relates well to
    A Large Target Audience
    Who Wanna make Life Simpler
    Not More Complex Whereas i’m

    The Opposite i’m in it for the Human
    Potential competing Against No one yet me…

    Just A Retirement Hobby Resting my Feet from the Public Dance…

    The Best Parts to me of WordPress are the Decade Long Consistent Human Global
    Connections Yet of Course Nothing Compares to Flesh and Blood Connections

    Getting Better
    At that Practice
    of Life With ‘Real Life Experience’…

    (True Putting People First Will
    Become a Lifetime Endeavor to Improve)

    Yet i Can’t imagine a Rule Book For
    Doing it as Most all of it comes From ‘The Gut’

    And The Rest is the Warm Social Glue of Connection..:)

    1. It’s true, poetry isn’t very popular anymore when it comes to books but I’ve noticed it’s quite popular on WordPress which is great.
      Yes, it’s great to blog as a hobby and it can also be a wonderful side job or full-time job for some. Like me! You’ve worked hard, now it’s good to focus on hobbies and enjoy what you do.

      1. SMiles Dear Pooja i’m Reminded From 1967
        of the Album Cover of “Sgt. Pepper’s Lonely
        Hearts Club Band” And The Fact And The Art

        That By Very Tradition

        Tradition Excludes Hehe
        What is Originally Creative

        So That Path of Life may Be
        One of Exclusion From the ‘Group
        Think and Do’ And Very Lonely Indeed

        Yet ONLINE in Modernity to the Rescue!

        It’s Very Possible That Those Folks Who Had
        Lives Shortened By What Comes As a Social Animal
        And Exclusion Would Have Been Significantly Lengthened

        With a Global
        Hive And The
        Potential and Ability

        To Find Kindred Spirits of Art Alive

        Who At Least Understand This Condition

        of ‘The
        Condition’

        With
        SMiLes…

        Other than that i Was Basically
        ‘Sheldon Cooper’ Before i Changed
        Over to the U Becomes R And Became
        ARtistic instead of AUtistic Hehe at 53

        Yet True i Never Really Left the
        ‘U’ Behind i administrate 7 Blogs

        And Share What i Do in Multiple
        Avenues of Social Media ALong with
        What Everyone Else Shares of my Public
        Dance in 20,377 Miles of Doing That 131
        Months Along with the Close to 13.2 MiLLioN
        Words of Free Verse Poetry and Literally Over
        130,000 Photos i’ve Shared As Well ALong the Way…

        (Before Google Plus Went Away With their
        Count of Views in 2016 i Had already
        Registered 1.5 Million Views Just
        3 Years Green into the Endeavor)

        Ah Yes Search
        Engines are
        my FRiEnD

        i Don’t even have
        to Prepare any Tags

        And i Do Frequent Places
        That are a Ready Made Target
        Audiences of the NeuroDiverse

        Who Like me may read 20 Times
        Faster than the Average Human Being
        An Autistic Splinter Skill typing 130 Words
        A Minute When Properly Focused And NOT Give

        A Damn
        What Group
        Think might
        otherwise think of me…

        This is what i’ve Learned
        If you really Wanna Be named
        Famous and Living Legend for
        11 Whole Years and Never Get
        Pokemon Found Old Just Public
        Dance Like No One is Watching in the
        Place Social Scientists Assess is the Most
        Difficult Place to Be Different in the United States
        With Factors Considered of What Once Was the Per
        Local Capita of Most Christian Churches Per Square Mile

        (Meh, Myriads of Human Beings Notifying You That You are Famous
        And Legend Through the Years is No More Rewarding Than Passing
        Out Rental Shoes At the Service Counter of a Bowling Alley and Just

        Sharing a
        Smile of
        Being Human)

        And Multiple Area Traditional Disciplined
        Military Bases and

        Stations too

        Oh Yeah
        And With that
        Other Autistic Splinter
        Skill of Close to a Photographic
        Memory For Words Just Memorize
        the Whole Damn Bible And When Anyone Tries
        to Give You Trouble Spit The Pleasant Verses Back

        At ’em
        Faster
        Than they
        Can Think Hehe

        Down HeaR IN

        ‘TRUMP TOWN USA’

        Yes It’s Good to Be Strange
        Just Gotta Master All the Available
        Tools Not Be Mastered by the Tools

        And Make it
        Impossible
        For AI to take Your Place hehe…

        Here’s another Key Yes Financial
        Independence Helps Don’t Worry About
        Any Copyrights Practice the Craft of Your

        (True Leg Pressing 1540 Pounds 12 Reps
        At the Military Gym 12 Reps
        Still at 64 Helps too Less
        Need to Spread
        Bible Verses hehe)

        Dance and
        Song With
        Every Move
        And Word You Do…

        And Yes This is my Advice
        to Someone Like You Who i
        See With Incredible Potential to Just Be Free…

        Yet of Course i will Copy and Paste All These
        Words in A Zillion other places Before the Night is Sleep…

        Look Around at all the Cold and Hot Dead Rocks in the Night

        Skies All of this Is Just a Gift the Hell with the Idea of Putting off

        Life Until After Life

        True How
        Truly
        Insane
        the so-called
        “Normal Tradition Will Come to Die”..:)

  15. Thank you for sharing ❤️

    1. Happy to share it ❤️

  16. I have missed your advice, but it is has been nice to see you moving forward with your books too. Thanks for sharing.

    I have a hunch that my SEO is not the best. Once I get settled in my new place, I plan to be more focused on my blogging/vlogging.

    I have been told my whole life that I have a bad attitude, so I may be SOL as a pro blogger, lol.

    1. I don’t know …. isn’t this all about expressing yourself? So maybe it’s better not to think about it too much, because as soon as you start thinking about it you are expressing somebody else – the person you would like to be perceived as. I think it’s best just to blurt out whatever comes into your head, edit it for spelling mistakes maybe, and then push the button. Throw it out there. If you offend someone so be it. If you contradict yourself so be it. If you make a complete fool of yourself then be that fool. Embrace that fool.
      It’s not a beauty contest. You’re not trying to accumulate ‘friends’ and ‘likes’. There’s other places for that. At the end of the day you are just trying to say something and it doesn’t really matter who is or isn’t listening.

      1. If self expression is the purpose of a blog, then I agree. If the purpose of the blog is to make a living from it then unedited self expression may not always be the best route to go.

        1. I agree. Isuppose it never occurred to me that somebody would view it as an income stream. And the moment we start trying to be marketable we begin to be ashamed of ourselves and pretend to be someone else.

    2. Thanks so much, it’s been great working on the books but sometimes I really miss sharing longer posts like this. I was so happy writing it.

      Yeah, I think you’ll get a lot more traffic once you can work on SEO. I think the biggest issue is that you’re not ranking for keywords or key phrases. Joining Google Console (totally free) and adding a sitemap to your site can help encourage Google’s crawl bots to crawl your posts and start pushing out your content.

      1. Thank you for the tip.

        1. You’re very welcome.

  17. I think I need to employ you Pooj to sort my blog out!

    1. I would love to help!

    1. Thanks so much.

  18. I try getting my SEO stuff right, but it’s time consuming..but I try to engage with most of the blogs I follow..I could be better. Should be better..
    I think you should post more blogging tips..even if it’s once every couple weeks. They are very helpful. 👏👏

    1. Yeah, it’s time consuming for sure. It took me years to make the changes I needed to and I still need to work on older posts. Thanks, I hope to share more in the future. Maybe once every two weeks or so 😊

      1. Lovely. 👏👏👏
        Loved the IG reel btw 🙏🙏

        1. Thank you, so glad to hear that 😊

  19. i just write
    cos my crap is outta site
    carp whine moan and bitch
    this shit is free
    such wonderous misery
    Gudka

    1. Sometimes that’s all you gotta do, just write.

      1. and gudka again becomes gupta!

      2. the firm performs all the kings horses. get your mallet and swing!

  20. I think attitude makes a huge difference. Some blogs are only inward looking, and after a while followers can feel a bit drained. Blogs which provide information and are outward looking are more interesting to read. They attitude and motivation behind them are more appealing.

    1. Absolutely, I couldn’t agree more. Attitude can attract readers if you provide helpful and motivating information. Some blogs can certainly be more draining which can make readers lose interest.

  21. Great advice, and good conversation in the comments. My blog stays around the same follower count, and once in a while I think of being more outward focused, but then I’d have to open another blog to satisfy the need to write about inward things. 😀

    1. Thanks so much. That’s totally okay, sometimes you just need to get your words out there 😄

  22. Great points. Patience is the need.

    1. Thank you and very true.

  23. I am one of many who post and tend to forget about it….lol 😊Its for us basically. Thanks a lot. 🙏

    1. Lol, it happens. But you are quite active on other blogs which is great. Thanks so much 😀

  24. This is really good advice. Thank you for sharing your wisdom.

    1. Thanks so much, happy to share the advice.

  25. Thank you so much for complining these points..Your experience in WordPress is invaluable!!

    1. Thank you and I’m more than happy to share them!

  26. Is there a way to set up a scheduled time for your posts? I’m not posting everyday with my bipolar disorder so if I could get a few posts together when I’m in a position to post (like now) and then I’ll post them the next day and so on. I’m just trying to keep my blog active and rather flood everyone’s newsfeed with an abundance of posts I can post a quote of the day etc etc. If it’s not possible do you think I should get in touch with WordPress about it and getting it implemented? Thanks for your time and looking forward to seeing your next 6 word story 🙌

    1. Yeah, WordPress allows you to schedule posts and publish them later on at a preferred date and time. Thanks!

      1. Excellent 👌 thank you 🙏

        1. Happy to help 😊

  27. Excellent advice, Pooja, and I enjoy your blogging advice posts. I don’t pay much attention to SEO but I make it a point to comment and respond to comments. My blog isn’t growing leaps and bounds but it is still growing. In fact, I weeded out the bots so I would have a more accurate number of followers. I feel patience and consistency is key in having a successful blog.

    1. Thank you so much. I think even just engaging and interacting with other blogs makes a big difference and helps with growth. That’s great, I try to remove the bots every month or two as well. It helps with stats too.

      1. You’re welcome, Pooja!

  28. Very great tips Pooja,
    Thank you for sharing, I’m learning alot from you as someone who is still in their first year blogging

  29. And another plus point of interacting with other bloggers is that you might make some amazing friends. That surely makes blogging more fun.

    1. That’s so true, there are some lovely people here and you can make good friends.

  30. I feel like this whole AI thing is ruining WP. I had a question the other day and instead of the “happiness engineer” of the past it is no some AI thing.

    1. That’s so true, I had the same issue the other day. Not to mention them trying to integrate AI into our posts.

  31. Oh yes attitude!!
    It makes sense

    You are a sweet heart and a magnet.
    Can’t resist you and LFW 😄

    1. Aw thanks and you’re great too, I always miss your posts when you don’t post 😊

      1. I’ll be back super soon

        I’m writing a lot
        But for clients 🤷🏻‍♂️
        I’m expecting to write a quick post this sunday.

        1. Oh yay, I look forward to your post!

  32. Excellent blog post Pooja. Firstly, I appreciate your commitment into writing blogging advice and posts for us Bloggers who need the extra boost of motivation since life can get hectic and it feels kind of gloomy when things do not go your way in life💯✨

    Secondly, I can relate to what you said about growing your blog by not isolating yourself. The Bloggers who experience an increase in traffic and get lots of comments and views are those who engage with others and they visit other Blogger’s nest or homes and they leave thoughtful comments🔥🙏

    Lastly, I want you Pooja my sister to keep writing great and exceptional blog posts that are based on blogging advice because we need to get inspired at times and we as Bloggers may lose the plot and feel like giving up this blogging activity. I believe in motivating others so that they can believe in themselves.

    Plus, I agree that buying bots will ruin or destroy your blog. A great blog is one that is real, that has creativity and one that is informative and is devoid of spelling errors. Other Readers get turned off when they see spelling errors from a Blogger who is suppose to write clearly and succinctly 💯

    1. Thank you so much! I’m happy to share the advice.

      I’m so glad you agree with my advice and I will definitely be sharing more informational posts like this one. Thanks again for your wonderful comment 😊

  33. Dear Pooja, this is a fabulous post and blog! Thank you for visiting my new sight–may blessings abound to you.

    1. Thank you so much and thank you for the follow!

      1. You’re most welcome.

  34. Awesome tips, Pooja! Always love advice like this. <3

    1. Thank you so much! ☺️

  35. Great tips, especially about SEO!
    Buying BOTS is so insane to me.

    1. Thank you! Absolutely, buying bots is the worst thing you can do for your blog.

      1. And for your IG!

        1. Yup, just in general bots for any platform is a bad idea.

  36. Good points Pooja!

    1. Thank you!

  37. Very good post. I am guilty of not knowing how to work the SEO. Ugh so many things to remember.

    1. Yeah, SEO is a bit complicated but once you get the hang of it you’ll get used to it.

  38. I agree that short term fixes are not effective in the long run. A lot of patience and steady input are required to grow a blog, but this will pay off in time. Less haste, more speed, as the saying goes.

    1. Yes, you’re absolutely right. It’s longterm work that yields the best results.

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