Comings and Goings- The Art of Being Seen By Alex Diaz-Granados Review

About The Author

Alex Diaz-Granados (born 1963) is a published author, screenwriter, and literary architect whose work explores the emotional gravity of memory, friendship, and the quiet dignity of everyday connection. His journey began in the early 1980s as a staff writer and Entertainment Editor for his high school newspaper, later serving as Diversions Editor for Miami-Dade Community College’s South Campus publication. A lifelong lover of cinema, Alex has been reviewing films—championing masterpieces and dissecting misfires—since 2003, contributing to platforms like Amazon, Ciao, and the late Epinions.

Beyond criticism, Alex has collaborated with actor-director Juan Carlos Hernandez on several short films, including A Simple Ad, Clown 345, Ronnie and the Pursuit of the Elusive Bliss, and Sunny in the Village of the Crickets, all available on YouTube. His writing also extends to blogging and general-interest essays, with past contributions to Yahoo! Voices (formerly Associated Content).

As a fiction writer, Alex is best known for the Reunion Duology—Reunion: A Story and its emotionally ambitious sequel Reunion: Coda. These works trace the emotional evolution of Jim Garraty, a history professor haunted by love, memory, and the echoes of youth. Set against the atmospheric backdrops of Miami and New York City, the duology blends cinematic storytelling with emotionally authentic characters, resonating with readers who value intimacy, nostalgia, and the redemptive power of connection.

Amazon Summary

Boston, 1984. A party Jim Garraty never wanted to attend. A girl who didn’t look away. A night stitched together by mixtapes, quiet courage, and the ache of choosing to stay.

Jim isn’t chasing romance—he’s just trying to outrun the noise. But when Kelly Moore enters the room with her drink, her Rachmaninoff references, and her uncanny ability to see without pressing, everything shifts. Over cassette tapes and Heineken beer, conversations deepen, touch becomes language, and for the first time, intimacy feels less like performance and more like breath.

Comings and Goings – The Art of Being Seen is a quietly luminous companion to the Reunion Duology, capturing one night’s transformation from awkward beginnings to the kind of closeness that rewrites your inner dialogue. It’s about music, memory, and the rare kindness of someone meeting you where you are—with patience, humor, and unexpected grace.

This isn’t a story about first love.

It’s a story about the first time you didn’t have to explain yourself.

My Review Of Comings and Goings- The Art of Being Seen By Alex Diaz-Granados

Comings and Goings - The Art of Being Seen : A Jim Garraty Story by Alex Diaz-Granados | Review
Source: Goodreads

Comings and Goings- The Art of Being Seen by Alex Diaz-Granados is a short story about the night Jim Garraty and Kelly Moore met. If the names of the characters sound familiar it’s because Jim Garraty is the lead character in the Reunion Duology. Both of which I have reviewed on this blog before.

Characters

I’ve said this before on my prior reviews of the authors books (read them here) but I’ll say it again on this one. Alex Diaz-Granados has a real talent for making characters that are extremely realistic. They don’t feel like two dimensional characters on paper when you read them. They feel like real people that you can connect with.

Both Jim Garraty and Kelly Moore are characters that are easy to like and enjoy reading about. And they have a wonderful chemistry all throughout the book. For the moment at least, they are exactly what the other needs and years for. 

Plot

We have read about Jim Garraty’s experience during high school and after college. But this book focuses on his experience after first finishing high school and moving to a new place for college. The feelings of loneliness, experiencing a lot of change all at once and finding oneself is something a lot of us go through in that phase of life when we’re still very young adults. Garraty’s character perfectly encompasses that.

When he attends a party he wasn’t excited about going to, he meets Kelly Moore. They instantly feel a connection between them. As the summary mentions, it’s not love. And I’ll say that this book isn’t a romance, at least not to me. It more about human connection and meeting the right person at the right time. 

Jim finds himself with Kelly at her place and through deeper conversations they begin to understand one another and do something I find beautiful, they allow one another to be their authentic self. Neither feels pressured to be someone else. They connect exactly as they are. I particularly enjoyed how Kelly was patient with Jim, not leading him but rather being beside him through it all.

Overall

As I mentioned, this book isn’t about love or the kind of connection that makes you want to spend your life with someone. Of course, Jim and Kelly will remember the night they spent together. But they will think of it as finding what they needed in that moment so that they could have the strength to continue on and move forward with their lives.

I would highly recommend reading Comings and Goings. It’s a fantastic book that I think most readers would enjoy. But I would really recommend reading the Reunion Duology first to properly understand the characters, particularly that of Jim Garraty.

You can purchase Comings and Goings- The Art of Being Seen by Alex Diaz-Granados on Amazon.

You can also find his website/blog here.

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41 responses to “Comings and Goings- The Art of Being Seen By Alex Diaz-Granados Review”

  1. Thank you, Pooja. For reading with empathy. For reviewing with grace. And for reminding me that even the quietest stories can travel far.

    1. Always a pleasure to read your writing!

  2. Thanks for the review

  3. 🙏🌹

    Aum Shanti

  4. SMiLes Dear Pooja Excellent Book Review
    Brings Nostalgia From a Little Community
    College Life Once Housing my Elementary
    School and my Mother’s High School all the way

    From the 50’s too
    Still a Community
    Close Knit This way
    of Comfort Zones Yes Still

    Warm From High School Days

    Yet that coming commute to a Larger
    University the Next City Over So Very Money
    Poor So Very ADHD It all seemed like a Socially
    Isolated Fog Slogging my Way Through until i Adapted

    Even Had a couple
    of Friends Who Were
    Girls Enough to get me through

    Particularly spreading my Wings in the Last 2 Years

    Yet true Nothing Really Deep of Love to Find Foggy

    in ways
    of HeART
    Felt Trust

    Hehe and Mostly
    A Peanut Butter Sandwich

    Life
    finding
    my way
    Out of the
    Bottom of the Jar Curse or Gift
    Change all the Potentials still to come…

    i Surely Wouldn’t Wanna Go Back
    Not 42 Years Not Even Yesterday With

    SMiLes…
    MaKinG
    Blue SKeYeS

    From Clouds..:)

    1. Love how you live in the moment and live as your authentic self!

      1. Thanks Dear Pooja Now It’s Basically A Never
        Ending Creation of Living Life as a Dance And Song

        Yet It Surely Would Be Almost Impossible Working for
        Pay the Way i Used to Or Even Raising A Family and
        Taking Care of Aging Parents i Suppose This is Why

        Wellness Studies Show
        Ages of 77 and Above to
        Have the Highest Self Reported

        Measures of Well Being and Satisfaction
        In Life Living in the Moment They Create

        Authentically

        And Also Continuing
        to Move Connect
        And Co-Create

        With Others too

        The Ingredients for
        ThiS WaY of Life Were
        Few For Many Decades Now

        Fortunately They Are Basically Enough

        With
        SMiLes😊

        1. Yeah I think as we get older we know what we want from life and have less responsibilities to deal with 😊

  5. Thanks for that Pooj!

  6. Very nice review. I enjoyed reading about the book through your eyes. Thank you

    1. Thanks so much, glad to hear that.

  7. This is a great review, Pooja.

    1. Thank you so much.

  8. Wonderful review! I appreciated seeing the book from your perspective. Thank you!

    1. Thank you so much!

  9. This is a wonderful review, Pooja, and I enjoyed seeing it through your perspective.

    1. Thanks, so glad you enjoyed the review.

      1. You’re welcome, Pooja.

  10. Nice review, very relatable plot of the book

    1. Thank you. Yeah, it’s a really good plot that works with the plots of the Duology too.

  11. This book sounds like it’s up my alley! Fantastic review!

    1. Would definitely recommend it, I think you’d really like it! Thank you ☺️

      1. Awesome! You’re very welcome of course! 😊❤️

  12. Alex is a great person and is a great writer, Pooja, thanks for sharing his book with such a great review!
    💕

    1. Absolutely agree and happy to share it! 💕

  13. I will check this out!!

    This book looks interesting PooG

    1. Happy to see your comments again Devang, I hope this means you’re back! And yes do check out the book it’s really good 😊

        1. I’ll keep my fingers crossed 🤞🏽

  14. Excellent review 😀 will definitely check it out! Thank you both ~ <3

    1. Thanks so much, hope you enjoy it 😊

    2. I also hope you enjoy it!

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