What Are My Red Flags?

Red Flags

Recently, I have shared red flags, green flags and even beige flags in others. Well, today I thought why not sit here are judge myself as I have done others lol. And so, I decided to share my red flags. Just kidding, I obviously don’t have any because I’m perfect. Kidding again, believe me I am far from perfect. In fact, after writing this post I’m starting to think I might just be a bad person lol. Kidding. We all have red flags and that’s okay. Here are some of mine.

My Red Flags

  1. I’m cynical and pessimistic- I’m not a very optimistic person and have never been. In earlier years I would have said that I was a realist. Now, I would confess that I can be a bit of a pessimist and cynical. More often than I care to admit, I find myself focusing on the negative. And preparing for the worst outcome.
  2. I can be self absorbed/self-centred- I would say I am a pretty caring person. But there are times that I can be a bit self-centred. I think I have main character syndrome where I think I’m the main character and forget that everyone is the main character.
  3. I have a really bad temper- This one surprises a lot of people when they hear this. If I’m being honest, I have a bit of a temper. And if I’m being even more honest it’s more than a bit of a temper. I have a pretty bad temper and it doesn’t take a lot to get me riled up.
  4. I hold grudges- I think having a bad temper and holding grudges go hand in hand sometimes. And for me they do. Like the north, I too remember. If you get that GoT reference we can be besties, lol.
  5. I have a questionable sense of humour-  I grew up watching South Park, Tosh.0 and a bunch of other stuff I shouldn’t have been watching. I have kind of a warped sense of humour and that can be a red flag for some. It’s not for me and I don’t care lol.
  6. I dislike carrots- The last time I shared a post about red flags, I said it’s a red flag for me when people like carrots. And suddenly my comments section became super pro-carrots. Suddenly everyone loves carrots even though they taste like feet and have the same texture (kind of). So, I had to add this because for me it’s a green flag but for many it seems like me disliking carrots is a huge red flag, lol.

Your Turn!

So, those are my red flags. Yes, shockingly I have red flags and am not perfect. It was a shock to me too. Now, it’s your turn. What are your red flags? Be honest! Let me know in the comments below because I would love to hear from you. Or simply stop by and say hi!

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155 responses to “What Are My Red Flags?”

  1. Hi! I love your honesty! I have a bit of a warped sense of humour too! lol! Xoxo

    1. Hey, thanks! Haha, glad you can relate!

  2. 4 and 5 are good. My red flag is probably that ultimately I don’t give what colour hat I where and if it is the right one… ultimately I know that if I walk in through any door I am a good chance of walking out again.
    A few years ago I had about 40 guys in a footy club gathered around their nasty racist hero who was threatening me… I was the shortest guy in the room and one door in or out. I stood on his toes laughed in his face and said, mate I’m over 40 years old and my name is Barney. Do you think I am testing out my new confidence routine to see if it works?
    As I left I said don’t you wish you were all 5ft 7 and 85kg of experience without ink.
    That aggressor did win the b&f for the division that year… which goes to show that kicking a bag of wind and doing the dishes when you say you will are very different things
    I guess another red flag is I had a psycho mother. I can look after myself

    1. I understand both of those and sorry you had a mother like that but I’m glad you can defend yourself.

      1. A lot more I am working on. She had some extremely strong qualities too. It is such a mental mess.

  3. You hate carrots? Well, then our friendship is off!!!! JK! To each his/her own! I am particularly fond of carrots, though, just for the record! Red flags? Well…I don’t trust men, for one. Don’t get me wrong, I know there are a few good ones out there, they just don’t usually cross my path. I may be a bit biased, but I am working on it!

    I have a steel core. Yeah, everyone thinks I’m this wonderful, caring person, and I am. But mess with me too much and you will find that I have a steel core. It is not at all flexible and you will not want to find out about it, because by this point I’m irritated.

    If you can’t hold a tune to save your soul, oh geez! I love to sing and if you can’t join me, that would be a huge red flag. I would love to sing duets, but alas, I have not found a partner.

    If you would rather play video games than read a book, that is a huge red flag! You can be anyone or go anywhere if you can read! I taught all four of my kiddos to read and it’s one of the best things I could have taught them (along with GF cooking and baking, of course!)

    One other thing – if you don’t care what you put in your body, that’s a huge red flag. If you don’t care about you, how will you treat others? Being kind to yourself and others is a must!

    1. I’m the same way when it comes to men. I understand there are good men out there but the thing is once you’ve been hurt you tend to become overprotective. Especially when you have the kind of experience you had with your ex.

      Reading is something everyone should do in my opinion. I’m so glad you taught your kids the importance of it. My parents got me into reading and I’m eternally grateful for that.

      1. Reading is awesome! Give me a good book and some Ningxia Red and I am one happy camper!

        1. Sometimes it’s the small things that make us happiest!

  4. So, you are saying that you are human, Pooja! Nobody is perfect, but not liking carrots is a problem. 😂❤️

    1. Haha, yes very human! Lolll no, not carrots ruining my life again 😅🥕

      1. But they are so good fully cooked and soft! 😂

        1. Noooo, I still can’t stand them 😫

          1. Got it. Sorry, Pooja. 🤭

            1. Lol, it’s fine we all have some veggies we don’t like 😅

              1. I just ate potatoes, Brussels sprouts and carrots. ☺️

                1. I love Brussel sprouts although I haven’t eaten them in a bit. They’re so good roasted 😋

                  1. Yes! I just tried them roasted a few weeks w, so delicious! ☺️☺️☺️☺️

                    1. Btw, I don’t know if you’ve noticed but your comments and likes are gone when you access your blog on the Reader: https://wordpress.com/read/feeds/73507458

                    2. Than you for letting me know, Pooja, that is on WordPress. Bummer!

                    3. No worries, yeah hopefully it’s fixed soon!

                    4. 🤙🏻❤️

                    5. Oh that’s great! I’m joking, I have no idea why either. Maybe another WP glitch? That will definitely cut into my stats, Pooja.

                    6. Yup, definitely a glitch but seems to be solved now 😬

                    7. Good, it may be because you spoke up about it, Pooja. 🤙🏻☺️

                    8. I’m just glad they fixed it 😊

                    9. Yes! 👍

  5. Perfectly explain all flags, pooja! Excellent writing 😊🥰🤗👍👍👍

    1. Thanks so much, so glad you enjoyed the post 😊

      1. Always warmly welcome, girl!!😊🥰🤗🤗🙏

  6. I have foot in the mouth disease- I say things I shouldn’t, also I don’t listen as I should. Your red flag are so much like those of my elder daughter! Hugs

    1. Lol, I’m like that too and put my foot in my mouth often 😅 Haha, seems like your daughter and I have a lot in common 🤗

      1. Oh yes, you do have lots in common 🥰

  7. I love your honesty and waving those flags! <3

    1. Thank you!

  8. I hate cover bands and tribute bands. i dislike anything on the political right, republican, conservative, whatever……loud people…..love loud music, not loud people, I don’t trust a lot of people…..I like the kids….teenagers, they all seem smarter than us, well some of them….I hate editing myself, if I think something, I say it…..lying is just not something I don’t do well, so I just don’t…sometimes that causes problems, misunderstandings….sometimes makes people uncomfortable….but that’s just me….I don’t make friends easily, I’m not easy to spend time with…….and too many times people have let me down, or lead me in a wrong direction, so, yeah I am sometimes more comfortable with myself

    1. I can relate to a lot of those. I really like the kids and teenagers these days too, people complain about them but I think they’re so much smarter than we give them credit for. And they grew up in a much more difficult way than we did. They inherited so many issues but are doing a lot to solve them like with climate change.

  9. My red flags are: I see myself as the most profond writer and poet of any era, I never react but ac.t.I am not patient with those who follow and don’t lead when I know that those who lead are meant to lead, and those who follow are meant to follow, and I want the woman I want and care only what I want and not what she want or don’t want. I am at times selfish when I should share!

    1. Well, I don’t see a problem with believing in yourself and your writing. I mean you never know, maybe years from now you will be known as a great poet/writer. I can be selfish too.

      1. Thank you, and I am rather young and I am on my way to being the greatest!

        1. Well, then you have a quite a chance then.

          1. My chances are much better than those who reached ‘The Great Status’ because I am aware that God gift out talent in every era!

  10. I am afraid, some are common with myself , too. Now gotta go past them soon. Thanks for a candid share.

    1. Yes, we just have to acknowledge our flaws and try to work on them. Thank you so much.

  11. I can’t stand watching commercials and absolutely hate politics, especially when they text me and mail me crap!

    1. Omg yes, the mail and texts are soooo annoying!

      1. Pooja Gi is phony and fake as a $3 bill!

  12. I need to give my red flags a moment of thought, but more pressing to me is how you know the similarities of eating feet and carrots. 🤔🤔🤔

    1. Um, I’m going to keep that information to myself for now lol 😅

      1. 😂😂😂😂

  13. The title of this post should be 6 reason why I am single!!


    Seriously, I know blogger PG for 2+ years now and yes she is pessimistic and have some different sense of humor. In the beginning when I followed you for the first time, I didn’t understand anything, I was like what she is saying. I unfollowed (sorry), then you already followed me and I felt bad.

    Then after a month or so, I read your work again, I saw how ultra talented you are, I started enjoying your work. I read more and noticed how vast variety your share.

    Your site title contains whine, so obviously you won’t be talking positive all the time, I get nervous when you suddenly tell me that your day went well, and you are happy.

    If we can judge a person just by looking than I would say that yes you look like it may be hard to make you a friend at first, because you have an aura of a queen. Like, there are some people who are just natural royalty. But, when one get to know you, they fall in love with you. You are actually a queen from heart as well….

    Being self-centered is fine, keep yourself above anything, because you are important.

    I am thinking to do a red, green flag post based on this, if you allow. 🙂

    Also, you better do a post of your green flags, this was negative publicity, haha.

    1. No but for real now you know why I’m single 😫

      You unfollowed me?? How dare you??? Lol, jk 😅 Yeah, I have a very sarcastic and weird sense of humour and I think I have one of those personalities where you need to know me for a while to like me 😅

      I think I don’t make friends easily cos people just don’t like me 😳

      Definitely, feel free to make a post about green/red/beige flags 😊

      Lol, ikr I need to do one about green flags or I’ll be single forever 😅

      1. I followed then because I was following a lot of people then. I wasn’t interested in building community. I unfollowed because I didn’t understand what you were talking about. I mean, I thought blogging was about only a particular topic and stuff like that. How can one understand that this girl from Kenya, will be talking about 20 different things.

        I followed again because I read some of your blog posts, that were teaching something new, that’s when I realised how amazing writer you are.

        The thing with not making friends easily is because people are very judgey, I mean like me they are easy to make assumptions about the person. But once they talk and know the person, they start loving, respecting that person. Just like people around you do. They start loving you ( me included), because you are pessimistic, but a sweet person.
        You are like an anti hero, different from what common, but very unique and special 😍

        Btw, I had to say that this post was courageous. People don’t accept their red flags( as you call them), and it takes deep introspection to find them and talk about them. Another reason to love you.

        Your biggest green flag are, you are bold and honest

        1. Yeah, I think a lot of bloggers are like that when they start out. It takes a while to get into what blogging really is. At least that’s what I think.

          Thanks that’s so sweet of you to say. You’re right, I think we’re all guilty of judging too fast and we may not appreciate the person inside.

          Personally, I think we need to see both sides of ourselves. That’s the only way to grow. I think my biggest green flag is actually that I’m a really good cook 😅

          1. Yeah took me some time before following unfollowing 😛.

            Again seeing you doesn’t look like you know how to cook. When do you even get time to cook anyway ? 🤷🏻‍♂️
            My mother don’t allow me to cook, I have some knowledge of cooking

            1. I cook every day lol, as an adult it’s one of those skills you have to perfect. I don’t look like I cook?? 😅

              1. You don’t look like a cook 😛

                1. Ouchhh 😅

                  Btw I can no longer see likes and comments on your site when I go to it through the Reader: https://wordpress.com/read/feeds/143022158

                  1. Will check
                    And talk to wp about it

                    I’m too busy too use wp these days.
                    I have to write 4 review article this month
                    And then 4-5 for my own site. 😅

                    I only come majorly for reading my favorites.

                    I’m not connecting or interacting with anything new. Looks like I wasn’t prepared for such situations 😛

                    Btw a blog post idea before I forget

                    1: How do I manage life with blogging
                    I know you have done such post before, but this time please share how you actually do it, how much time you actually give to it, how you manage to reply to every commen. Do you get excited to get new comments and if you get excited to check new notifications again and again.

                    2: I can cook too
                    You can use it something humorous, like you can tell that the food seen on your blog is made by you. And, you had a conversation with me, that I’m incredulous about you being able to cook, you can even use it like a roast. Jk

                    Jokes apart, tell people what you can cook
                    And why you love doing it.

                    1. Good ideas, will keep them in mind!

                      It seems like the issue has been solved 😊

                    2. Thank all mighty

                      I was thinking to have a Puja for wp

                      But looks like this Pooja got in action 😅

                    3. Lol, Pooja was enough this time 😅

                    4. Good thing we have you.

                      Need you as the voice of people

  14. to your red flags…well done on honestly shared… 🤍

    (to this… did you have to lol… now I’ll be thinking about this whenever I have carrots 🤭😂
    “carrots even though they taste like feet and have the same texture”)


    1. Thanks so much 😊 Lol, now whenever everyone reading this eat carrots they’ll think of feet 😅

      1. always a pleasure 🤍

        (lol precisely so🤣)

  15. Interesting and nice blog post Pooja. Well, we are all humans with red flags and mine are a bit similar to these ones.

    Firstly, a red flags is a girl who loves money, haha, but seriously being greedy is a huge Red Flag🚩🚩🚩, also, eating salads daily whether a man or woman is a red flag and a person who tells lies. Anyways, we are not perfect so yeah there are my red flags on relationships💯

    1. Thanks so much, it seems like my red flags are quite common ones haha.

      Of course, we all have red flags 🚩

  16. Lol, all of the above.
    Celery – makes me gag and reminds me of being forced to eat greens as a kid!

    1. Nooo, I love celery! But I get it, I think I hate carrots because my mum made me eat them growing up lol.

  17. Nobody is perfect, and we all have our quirks and flaws. Thanks for sharing your red flags and encouraging others to do the same!

    1. Absolutely, every one of us has red flags, it’s a part of being human. Thank you!

  18. I hear you about the self-centered part. I struggle with that online. Every comment I leave usually ends up being about me, or an experience “I” had instead of talking more about the person whose post it is 😀

    I’m currently reading a book called Making Love Last Forever, by Gary Smalley. He’s a professional counsellor and in it, he talks about how unresolved anger is one of the biggest problems in a relationship. He’s mainly talking about marriage, but he’s very clear that it destroys friendships, even casual acquaintances too, like an iceberg and the titanic. He said that if “you” (the reader) can remember a specific instance of someone hurting you, and you remember the details years later, then you have unresolved anger. That hit home for me. I’m reading a little bit a day, so we’ll see what he has to say about resolving it 🙂

    1. Lol, I think many of us do that online. I know I’m guilty of it too. But a lot of posts encourage us to be interactive so I think it’s okay. Or at least that’s what I tell myself… 😅

      That’s so interesting because my therapist told me something similar. She said when we’re heard it’s like a dagger through the heart and when we still clearly remember what caused us pain it means the dagger is still there.

  19. Hmmmm – I’ve never eaten feet so I’m not sure what they taste like or their texture, but I have eaten carrots. I would agree that cooked carrots are crap but raw carrots are ace. Not sure that I’d hold liking of cooked carrots against people though.
    I did have a friend who tried eating raw carrots as a healthy way of avoiding snacking in the evening. She ate far too many and went orange!

    1. Yes, omg that happens and you can actually change your skin colour by eating too many carrots!

  20. this is the net
    share little to none
    shun the non sense
    cos darling
    we do not know one another

    1. No, I don’t think we know anyone really.

      1. pope st son tom screamed like in the mirror you are the father of misery. i said sorry jr you are your own man now. deal with it. he ran off to bed. hemingway poojer you rock it. whateve r it is you rock it. oh my~~

  21. Hi Pooja, I think it’s really brave of you to admit your red flags. It’s refreshing to see someone accepting their weaknesses without making a big deal about it.
    My red flag is my terribly shifty mood. My friends don’t know why I suddenly stop talking to them or delay in replying to a message. Or when I become the life of a party.
    But this moodiness has also helped me come out of many sad and stressful situations because I get tired of being in one mood and then I get up and start exercising.

    1. Thanks so much, yeah I think we need to be honest about the good and the bad. Thanks for being honest and sharing yours as well.

  22. I have a feeling your red flags are similar to others, Pooja. 🙂 I overthink and analyze too much, and letting go is hard, no matter what it is. 🙂

    1. Thanks, yeah I think these are common ones. Oh, I’m like that too. I totally overanalyse everything and it drives my sister mad since she’s the opposite 😅

  23. Carrots, again?! LOL. Have you ever eaten freshly-picked ones? They are completely different from store bought. I bet they could become a green flag for you.

    1. (Or at least and orange flag 😜)

    2. Lol, you know my war against carrots is eternal 😅 I’ve tried freshly picked ones and still don’t like them 😫

      1. Hah! Well, you could say the same to me about cilantro. Just can’t do it! 😂

        1. Just like my sister, she can’t stand cilantro and literally will pick it out of foods 😅

  24. Interesting post. Some are common with myself too

    1. Thanks and glad some were relatable.

  25. Interesting post.
    We may be twins born 30 years apart :).

    I may be too laid back. I had an old boss who said if I were any more laid back, you would have to check to see if I was breathing.

    1. Haha, glad you could relate and I’m not the only one with these red flags.
      Well, being too laid back isn’t a bad thing. I’m the opposite and it doesn’t help at all haha.

  26. I have so many red flags, especially when it comes to my temper, OMG, I never knew how bad my temper was until I became older. Yes, little me has a bad temper. I run on a short fuse. I guess it’s because of all of the bullying I endured growing up, another red flag I have is that I don’t like liver of any type. I could write a whole list of red flags about myself that would literally shock you. All in all I think I am a sweet kindhearted person until my buttons are pushed. Self control is something I guess I will always have to work on. Thanks for sharing. By the way I passed my exams, and I am feeling better. Have a marvelous weekend.

    1. Me too, I have a really bad temper and I’m not good at controlling it.
      Yes, we all have some red flags and that’s okay. We’re not bad people. We just have some stuff we need to work on. Have a lovely week ahead.

      1. Absolutely. I would have never thought about it. Your post made me think about the things about myself that I need to work on. It’s funny how we never think about those things until the subject comes up.

        1. True, sometimes when it comes up it forces us to think about things we may never have otherwise given much thought to.

  27. That was timely and thought provoking. And bold.
    Only 6! I’ve got 15 and counting. Why I’m unemployable and live solo.
    Fortune cookie for you:
    One who eats carrots sees clearly.🙂

    1. No wonder I wear glasses lol 😅

  28. I am optimistic and I love carrots. I worry too much about things I can’t control. I am impatient, especially about myself. I dislike ignorance and pettiness.

    Otherwise, I am only human just like you. We all have our likes and dislikes. 💕

    1. Of course, we all have pros and cons and that’s okay. I’m a bit of a worrier too.

  29. Number 5 is the best, way to go Pooja!
    They would always get me in trouble for two things: bad jokes with my poker face on and crazy dancing. Can’t help it

    1. Thanks! Lol, I’m like that with the bad jokes 😅

  30. This is such a great idea for a blog post! I also like how this allows you to be totally transparent with your readers. Hahaha the dislike for carrots is strong! 🥕🐇

    1. Thanks so much! Yeah, I try to make sure you see all the sides of me because I feel like the internet is so fake sometimes and I would rather be more authentic. Although to be fair I think most WP bloggers are much more authentic than other platforms. Lol yes, I absolutely loathe carrots! 🥕😤

  31. My biggest red flag is my anger. I have a very short temper and sometimes it causes a lot of trouble.

    1. Yeah, I can be like that too.

  32. How brave to be so honest!! Great post. My red flag…I get moody.

    1. Thanks! Don’t worry, we can all be like that.

      1. Your post was interesting! Rarely do we think about our own red flags. But it’s good to know to be self aware…

        1. True, we often don’t like to criticise ourselves but I think it’s vital to grow as a person and the best way to do that is better what we don’t like about ourselves.

  33. I understand most of this and the warped sense of humor can actually be a good thing. However, the question arises; How many feet have you eaten that you know the taste and texture of? Or am i getting too personal? 🤣😎🙃

    1. I’m going to choose to keep that information to myself 😅

      1. Sorry I mentioned it 🤣😎🙃

  34. Well, I liked your flags and that you took them on (raised them?). I thought as I read, here is someone I’d like to have lunch with and on an ongoing basis.

    My flags. I don’t know. Sometimes I can’t make things, based on how I feel. Which is about my physical health but also struggling with stress and most likely depression (which is being treated). I’ll talk, even with animation, though I’d rather listen. Some find that frustrating. I’m moody; and if you ask, I’ll tell you. Otherwise, I might seem calm, too calm perhaps. Not like I’m going to explode, though that happens. Once every few years, it seems.

    I guess there are variously colored flags in there. Listening might be green, as is an appreciation for companionship (very first comments above). If I’m not feeling well or seem disengaged, those might be beige. Not showing up and moodiness (especially without ‘fessing up) might be red.

    Good topic and great responses from you, as you always provide.

    1. Thanks so much, I’m sure I would enjoy a lunch with you. I think we would get along well.

      I don’t know I think yours are more beige flags because I wouldn’t say they’re red flags. At least not in my opinion. As someone who also struggles with stress and depression, I totally understand. Especially about being perceived as moody.

  35. smiled at carrots 🙂

    1. Glad it made you smile 🙂

  36. Lol at the carrots 😂 I think our sense of humor might be similar, mine is definitely dark.

    I definitely have quite a few, but the one that comes to mind is being passive-aggressive. I’m working on it, but sometimes it just slips out when I’m upset. I’m not upfront confrontational, so anger comes out in annoying passive aggressive statements…I do eventually apologize (if it’s someone close 😅) so that’s some growth…I think..

    1. Lol, thanks. Yeah, honestly I prefer people with a dark sense of humour. They’re hilarious at least in my opinion.

      I can honestly be passive aggressive too so I can’t really judge lol 😅

  37. Great post. Humorous but also it can be difficult to shine that light at ourselves. No comment on the carrots. 😉

    My red flags are plentiful, but mostly I would say I am too sensitive, way too hard on myself, can have a temper, and also like carrots (mostly with ranch dip).

    1. Thanks so much. True, it’s not always easy to be critical of ourselves but I think that’s how we grow.

      Lol, the carrots one is a huge red flag… just kidding 😅 I can be sensitive too so I understand.

      1. And for the record, I think you have a great sense of humor. 🙂

        1. Thank you, I’m glad you enjoy it.

  38. AWESOME 👌🏻 👏

    1. Thanks 😊

  39. Yeah those are proper red flags 🚩. But you have the very green as well. And green and red makes yellow, so I guess you are so yellow. 😅
    P.s you are devastatingly missed by some⛈️

    1. Thanks so much, been super busy but will reach out soon 😊

      1. Take your time but do reach out 👌🏾

  40. I have too many red flags lol. Loved your post!

    1. Thanks so much!

  41. Do double reds count? lol what does it mean.. lol
    All green lights to day! 💗💚💚💚💚

    1. Green lights tomorrow too I hope! 💚

  42. What? We have pretty much the same red flags 🤪except the carrot 🥕🤭

    1. I guess we’re quite similar minus the carrots lol 😅😜

  43. I’ll play. I’m private to the point of seeming secretive. I’m sometimes nice where people don’t know I actually don’t like them. Or, I’m read info as shy when I actually don’t like them. (That one’s complicated, I may come off as mean to people I actually do like). I’m cynical to suddenly optimistic back to cynical. I tend to be self involved. I don’t see the world that much differently than South Park, I can come off as condescending when I state it without thinking. I don’t believe it’s possible to objectively perceive reality and I don’t always realize if I start bringing it up that I may make a person feel I think they’re not sane. (Belief creates reality, basically). I sometimes like to flirt just as banter, but I’ll admit it’s sometimes to test boundaries. I also like to poke easily offended people if they act like being easily offended is a virtue.
    Overall, I’m often chill to the point of being kinda lazy. I’m also uptight depending on the situation.
    I actually feel more motivated to maybe watch every SP special over again..

    1. We are similar people it seems. I’m pretty cynical to optimistic to pessimistic too. It really depends on when you talk to me.

      1. Whenever I consider starting up blogging again, I see a post about the bad roll out of changes. That temper sounds like a good “bedroom” resource to spice things up… I’m reading a lot of books and I don’t know many people who have any interest in the topics, so I definitely value that as a “green light/flag”. Most people I DO know are likely to be overly opinionated and even rude or get angry about points of views; so that’s an easy “red flag”. I like doing my own thing, that can upset people which is also a red flag.
        There’s probably a link with anxiety with cynicism and pessimism plus changes. Sometimes it depends on what “cynical” means.

        1. Yup, there’s always a new unnecessary change on this platform. Very annoying.

          Hmm, yeah I have anxiety and depression which is probably where the cynicism stems from.

          1. A book I’m reading cited a study that younger generations who grew up with tech (smart phones, etc) are actually less likely to be able to tell the difference between news and advertising. I immediately thought of that South Park episode.

            1. Yup, South Park always knows what they’re talking about. You can love or hate them but they’re accurate af. That whole season about the Ads was so good.

              1. I’ll assume you say “buckle up, buckeroo” when you lose your temper.

                1. I’ve also been singing “loo loo loo” all the time recently 😅

                  1. I wouldn’t mind some “loo loo loo” looking at that profile pic. 🤫 playing. I have a friend who sued his doctor for uploading a surgery that ended up on Tosh.0 without his permission. 😂

                    1. Lol what?? That’s hilarious but also I hope he won 😅

                    2. You couldn’t tell it was him, I don’t get why he was mad. It’s the video of a guy having a metal rod removed from his leg. 😆

                    3. He was mad?? I’d be so happy if I had ended up on Tosh.0 😅

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