3 Reasons (Guest Post)

By Shah Ustav

In our day-to-day life, we meet different people around ourselves. We are surrounded by different people. Everyone is in chaos. Due to which, we don’t have time to talk with people to peace. We talk to them in chaos.

We are the creators of relationship. We only have control over the bonds. It is in our hands either to strong our bond or weaken it. For it, we must know what type of people they are we are associating with. There must be love between relationship.

Do you know why people are in your life? Why they are associating with you? What makes them your loved ones? What makes them trustworthy people? What is there between them and you? What makes a relationship?

Here, I have discussed the 3 reasons for which people came into your life.

People came into your life for 3 reasons:
1. For Season
2. For Reason
3. For Lifetime

1. For Season.

The first reason for which people come into our lives is for Season.

People come into our lives for Season. What it means? Like a season, it lasts for only some time. It isn’t a long lasting relationship. It lasts for some time like a season.

They are the people who are selfish. They only think about themselves. No one matters in their life. You are the not the person who matters in their lives. You are just the source of getting used. You’ll be used by different people. It sucks.

You’ll be left with broken heart. It may be possible that you love the people around yourself but they just show that they love you too. But they don’t. They just show that they love you but they don’t feel even a single thing you feel. It means they are using you.

People who are type of that nature always lose. They don’t know what is a relationship. They don’t know how much it sucks when someone use us and broke the heart.

They are seasonal people. Just come into your life and pass away like a season.

But you should find what type of people you are tolerating around yourself. If they just call you for some work, do the same. Simple. Do not try to be more personal if someone tries to use you and your talent. That’s it.

2. For Reason.

Some people come into our lives for a reason. Here, it doesn’t means of selfishness. They don’t come to make themselves rich. Instead, they come to help you.

One of my sisters has marked the bad habit in me that I always take things very seriously. I should give up on that habit because when I will leave my comfort zone, different people will use me.

Very true. But I take things seriously only when my beloved ones hurt me. I never ever get hurt by any fellows. I don’t even get hurt by my friends. It’s only for my loved ones. That’s it.

Some people are in our lives for a reason. They want to help you in every way possible. They will stand by your side in each and every situation. They want to help you and get yourself out from such harsh situations.

They do this without any intention. They just do this to make bond stronger. No matter you’ll help them in future or not. They just want to make a relationship stronger.

That relationship doesn’t mean to only lovers. That relationship is each and every relationship exists in the world whether it is brother-sister relationship or parents- offspring’s relationship. It doesn’t matter.

3. For Lifetime.

People who come into our lives for a reason may be ultimately change to people for lifetime.

I have many people who are for me and I am for them for lifetime. No matters how many difficulties will be there but I will be always standing by their side.

People who are in your life forever are generally loved ones. But there are some others who just stop by you for your help. They just want themselves to be greater than you. They just sit upon your chest and never get down from it.

The solution to it is to just say ‘NO’. Simple.

I have many people for Lifetime. They are my family, my sisters and my brothers till now. I don’t know about the future and also, I don’t want too. Just I care about my present. That’s it.

At last, know your people. Do you know what type of people you are with? How many people you have for lifetime? No one?

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Six Word Story #17

He cried, I pretended to cry.

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Six Word Story #15

Bad breakup. Twisted words. Lives ruined.

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Six Word Story #13

Can you just take the hint?

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Kristina Gallo

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As you guys know I’m always happy to support fellow bloggers when they have books out or are doing anything awesome and it turns out Kristina has a new book out that I read last week!

Kristina is a Croatian blogger and indie author who’s writing is mainly about psychology, sociology, human relations and society. She has not only a very thought provoking blog but an interesting new book out! Her latest book is also incredible thought provoking and is about a women trapped in an abusive relationship. It is incredibly realistic and no it’s not your usual guy meets girl story but I would highly recommend it because it gives a great insight into abusive relationships. If this is something you would be interested in reading about I would definitely recommend this book!

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There Is A Place (Guest Post)

There is a place,

Where the moon

Isn’t afraid to say

How much it loves the stars

 

There is a place,

Made of glass

So aesthetic yet so fragile,

 

A promise which was meant to last forever

Didn’t matter anymore

And suddenly

And these pieces start to scream in dark

They scream for someone to hear them

To fix them back

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I Closed My Eyes (Guest Post)

I closed my eyes to forget you,

I closed my eyes but saw you.

I should’ve known before,

that you were using me to score,

in front of the people you adore.

 

When I got into trouble,

you gave your hand.

When I wanted to ramble,

you held my hand.

Then why?

Why did you throw a dart,

straight into my heart?

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You can’t love for both (Guest Post)

Love is blind, as old proverb said. As much this sounds banal, it has sense. How many time you regret because this fatal hunk did not noticed you? How many times you were envious to lucky girl who got him? Rivalry is old as human species ,but it always has conflict with right on choice. Really, you might be Victoria secret model, winner of Nobel price or Paris Hilton, but if you are not in his heart, you just lose your time and act like masochist who is chasing impossible target. If you talk with your friends in coffee table about this topic, you will just find out simple truth : it takes two for love relation, and you can’t love for both if he has lack of feelings for you.

It is hard to understand this from your side, because heart speaks own truth, and maybe you got some signs that he indeed want you, but be careful, are those signs real or fake? Woman in love can’t see, for which area is she indeed chosen, for sex or relation? Men might fool women with lies as „you are perfect for me, rare diamond, not as other women“, but after hot night this diamond will stay in warehouse, because he only pleased to his wishes. Some women gain hope that this is only first stage, so they will even accept offer for sex but as intro in love story which will never happen.

Lydia fall in love in her neighbor Ted but he was narcissist. He never noticed her even she was pretty, smart and educated. She lost this game even Ted was dating with any kind of women, he was not so picky, he just wanted to increase number of women in his bed. Lydia was quiet because she knew inside of her that even if he asked her for a date, it will not last long. Ted got married with daughter of local entrepreneur.

Cynthia has choice between two guys, her high school sweetheart Ken, and guy from college, Henry. She chose Henry cause he gave her choice, he was not chasing her, even Ken was favorite candidate in her family. Henry gave her bigger freedom.

Rivalry is background for horrible stories, even crimes, because not everyone is able to understand that we can’t force love, and if you got NO answer all you can do is rise from the dust and ask for someone new. You can’t buy right of choice.

The worst you can do is beg or threat to someone who rejected you. You will be marked as desperate lady, maniac or stalker if you don’t give up.  Don’t play games, don’t gossip or try to set up to someone just to bring back your ex boyfriend. This is not solution, because it is not hard to reveal lies, and you will be bad guy in the end of his soap opera.

See some woman’s tricks to catch guy who is not into them:

Follow guy in social networks, create fake profiles just to talk with him.

Association with his friends, just to be in his circle, to dig useful info about him.

Try to get closer with his mom.

If you are business lady, a boss, you might copy Demi Moore in „Disclosure. „

Changing your outfit, in hope that he will notice your long legs or big boobs if you wear transparent shirt. Maybe you will be in his bed, but not in his heart on this way.

Make gossip about your competition. This is double game, cause your fatal potential boyfriend might reveal traps, and also your friend might leave you, cause you are person without ethics.

If you are blindly focused on guy who doesn’t give you single chance, you are in blind alley. This is elimination of every other man in your area, you can’t see them cause your heart is obstacle on this way. You are driver on road to hell, but if you move on right way, you might see road to paradise. Use your right on free choice, without fear that you will stay alone, because this fatal man doesn’t want you. In relation where just one side is in love, love doesn’t exist indeed. So here is no regrets for you, it doesn’t happen really, just in your fantasies.

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The First Time

The first time I saw you

I couldn’t take my eyes off you

Now I can’t bear to look at you

I can’t think of you without crying

I am done with you.

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